Panther is gone

[fragrancehound]

I had to make the hardest decision ever today and decided it was best to put Panther to sleep. His quality of life really deteriorated the last 2 days. He became very weak and dehydrated. I tried my hardest to get food, meds, and water down him but many times he vomited everything back up. The vet thinks that even though his small intestine was improving there may have been more going on with his kidneys or liver but at this point its moot. The only other option would have to take him to a 24 hour emergency vet where they could insert a feeding tube in his stomach. However, that would have required full anthesia and quite frankly I don't think he would have made it through the operation. From what she was telling me it is a very invasive procedure.

Part of me is relieved that he will no longer suffer but the other part of me is so depressed. I stayed while she put him to sleep. He looked like an angel. I will miss him terribly.

I can't bring myself to pick up his water dish and food bowl. I see all these reminders of him and it makes me cry.

In any event I wanted to thank everyone here for their spport. This is truly a great community. I very much appreciate the well wishes and thoughts.

[Craftlady]

I'm so sorry that decision had to be made but it was the best one considering the circumstances. Please know that Panther is playing happly and is pain free at the Rainbow Bridge.

[Queen of Poop]

So sorry that you had to let Panther go. It was for the best for him though. You'll see him again one day. Hugs for you, I know how hard this was, has been and will be in the next few days.

I'm playing the waiting game with my ferret Sebastian. He's ok for now, but is going down hill so I know it is just a matter of time (days) until I'm in your shoes.

You're not alone. Let yourself grieve. If you need anything let me know.

[Catty1]

{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}

You did so much...and Panther was beautiful and very very loved.

You done good.

[MBones]

I am so sorry to hear of Panther's passing. It is so hard to make that one final decision, isn't it? Rest assured that your beautiful Panther is trouncing around with all of the other beloved pets at the rainbow bridge. Peace to you in the coming days, weeks, months.


(((((frangrancehound))))

[wolflady]

Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to see this today. Take comfort in the fact that you did everything, and I mean everything, for Panther. The hardest part is realizing that you need to let them go, so they don't suffer any longer. Bless you. Please know that we are all here to support you during this difficult time.

The Rainbow Bridge has welcomed yet another fur angel, just in time for Christmas.

**hugs**

[Freedom]

I have been thinking about you and Panther, and I was hoping for something positive.

I am so very sorry to see this thread. That decision is never easy. You ahve some wonderful memories which you and Panther made together. You will NEVER forget him, don't worry about that. He touched your eart in a special way. RIP Panther.

[jenluckenbach]

oh no.

I am SO sorry.


RIP Panther. You were a much loved kitty and will never be forgotten.

[lvpets2002]

I am so sorry.. Its always such a hard choice to make.. This wittle one is now at RainBow Bridge.. RIP Panther.. May Corinna open the angel door when he arrives.. ((((((( Huggss ))))))

[kb2yjx]

It is never easy to say goodbye to a good friend, like Panther was to you! Take care... sleep softly sweet Panther...

[Catlady711]

Sorry to hear that Panther didn't bounce back for you. I know it's a hard decision but he's no longer in pain anymore. (((((HUGS))))

[AbbyMom]

I'm so sorry. Why is it so hard to the right thing for our loved ones?

RIP Panther. You were well loved.

[emilysgk]

Im so sorry, you tried so hard though. Never doubt that. I kept up with Panthers story and you did so much for him. He knows how much you loved him. As hard as it is, it really having a big enough heart to know when its time to let them go.

[fragrancehound]

I very much appreciate the kind words. I can honestly say this had to be the hardest thing I have ever done. I still can't believe he is gone.

I took up his bowls this evening and the room where I kept them looks so empty.

I know I made the right decision but I am having a very hard time with it. My house and heart feel so empty without him.

[jennielynn1970]

I know the empty heart and home feeling well. I had to put my foster, Bear, to sleep back in July, and I still miss him terribly. He might have been a foster kitty, but he was my boy in my heart and I loved him dearly.

Panther is now in peace, and is no longer in pain. I hope he's playing with Bear and the others across the Bridge...

My thoughts and prayers are with you.