i just came out of a 5 year relationship & in all that time i was never able to fall asleep next to that man. now its just me & my 2 little loves again & i have no problem falling asleep. i turn out the lights, get under the covers (they have already settled in their places in the bed), say goodnite & i love you to them, then sleep like a baby. im totally relaxed. that is part of true love, i guess eva, mrs cat