Relationship advice?

[CountryWolf07]

I'm not exactly sure what's going on, but.. I need to let out what I want to say and see what your opinion is.

Yesterday, I haven't talked to Mike at all, and I was hoping I get to last night, but never did. I texted him asking if he was going to get online, because we never really had a chance to talk much since he's been in Texas for work.. for almost 2 weeks. He comes home tomorrow. I asked his sister if she had heard from him and she said "Yes, I talked to him today. He is coming home tomorrow." AND I thought, what? Why didn't he even talk to me at all. I mentioned that I never heard from him and I wanted to talk to him, and she goes "Oh, you know he had that show he's been doing (which I knew), and it was all day" and she said he probably went out to dinner with work people around 6 and whatnot... but yeah.. I just thought, Too busy to talk to me, but to his sister or mom? Anyways, the other day, he said that on his way home from the airport, he could pick me up and we can go to his cousin's wedding that is on Saturday, which is TOMORROW and I said, sure, that'd be fun, because it's been 3 weeks since the last time we saw each other. And he said he will let me know more about it later.. I still don't know what's going on, he's last minute about everything. OR is it just a GUY thing?

Am I doing something wrong here? We've been together for almost a year and half. I don't know, maybe I'm psyching myself to make myself scared out of nothing in this. sad.gif I guess I need advice. I don't think I am doing anything wrong here if he made a plan like that.. and it's tomorrow.

[Cataholic]

I would tell you to relax. If there is an issue, I would think after 1.5 years, he would tell you. I would NOT go the route of 'you talk to your mom and sister but not me' for all the tea in China.

[CountryWolf07]

I don't plan on going on that route. I am just saying, isn't it inconsiderate, at least not replying back or even hopping on just to say hi.. that's all.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Wouldn't have hurt him to reply to you would it?

[CountryWolf07]

Wouldn't have hurt him to reply to you would it?

Is that a agreement? lol.. if it is, then that's what I mean from all this. Guess it's just a guy thing.

[Ginger's Mom]

I am also wondering if it could truely been time restraints. It is easier to call Mom or sis just to say I am coming home tomorrow, gotta go (and cut them off), than it is a girl friend whom you haven't seen for two weeks. Rather than get into a rushed conversation and perhaps hurting your feelings by cutting you off quickly, he sent you word that all was well, and he will have a long and meaningful conversation with you when he gets home.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Is that a agreement? lol.. if it is, then that's what I mean from all this. Guess it's just a guy thing.

Yes he was probably just being thoughtless - he will be really happy to see you

[Logan]

Is that a agreement? lol.. if it is, then that's what I mean from all this. Guess it's just a guy thing.

I don't think it is "just a guy thing", for what its worth. Not a good guy thing, anyway. Do you usually go more than a day without speaking to each other? If so, then I wouldn't worry about it. But with technology the way it is (text messaging, computers, etc), it does seem like he could have at least acknowledged your message, even if it was to say he was too busy to talk. Just my humble opinion!! Hope you get it all figured out.