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    A friend lost.

    A friend lost, but will never be forgotten.
    I am in complete shock over this. You never think it could happen to somebody so young, so full of life and so close to your heart.
    While I haven't seen Rylan in recent years, I will cherish our childhood memories together.
    Please keep her family in your thoughts during this tough time.
    Rylan, I will never forget you.



    Body found on Indiana golf course identified as MSU student
    January 13, 2008

    CHESTERTON, Ind. — A woman's body found on the grounds of a northern Indiana golf course has been identified as that of a 20-year-old Michigan State University student.

    The body of Rylan Cotter of Okemos, Mich., was found fully clothed Wednesday afternoon by workers at the Brassie Golf Club in Chesterton, about 15 miles east of Gary.

    Detective Lt. David Cincoski of Chesterton Police said positive identification was made late Friday morning when he showed a photograph of the body to her parents in Michigan.

    Porter County Coroner Victoria Deppe has ruled that Cotter died from massive blunt trauma to the chest and abdomen. But she said the manner of Cotter's death — whether it was a homicide, suicide or accident — remains unknown and tests are pending.

    "It's going to take several weeks to determine the manner of death," Deppe said.

    When golf club employees found the body, they found no signs of foul play. Deppe said Cotter's internal organs sustained "a lot of trauma."

    Officials said it appears the body had been at the golf course for 36 hours or less.

    Deppe said the registration of an abandoned car with Michigan plates found in a park's parking lot about a half mile away from Cotter's body was traced to a Michigan home, and Cotter's family soon confirmed the body's identity.

    Cincoski said Cotter's parents "have no clue whatsoever" why she would have visited Chesterton or the golf course.

    Police are trying to determine who Cotter was with and what she did during the last few days of her life. Authorities said she spent the night Monday in Benton Harbor, Michigan

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    Oh my gosh. That's so tragic. I dearly hope that the police quickly discover what happened so as not to put the family through any more trauma than they are already experiencing.

    Rest in peace Rylan.

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    So very Sorry, Ashley.

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    This is terriable news, I am so sorry!

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    {{{{hugs}}}} How horrible.

    I hope her family finds out what happened...

    Take care of yourself.

    Maybe in a few days, her family might like a note from you with the good memories you have of her. Just a thought.
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    What terrible news! May she Rest in Peace!
    Nancy



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    How terribly sad! You and her family will be in our prayers.

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    Oh my goodness. There are just a rash of acts of violence happening around the country lately. So sad! Hope the police figure out what exactly happened, and if it was foul play, that the person/people who killed her will be found and held accountable.

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    May she rest in peace. Prayers of comfort for her family & friends.

    So very sad, I'm sorry.
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    How sad. I hope they get some answers for the family.
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    Ashley, I am so sorry that you lost a friend that way - how horrible for you and her family especially to not know what happened. There is nothing worse than to not know what the circumstances were when your child died. What he was thinking, feeling, doing. And of course to lose a child is terrible. You lose your present and future. And it would be awesome if you at some point could contact her parents by mail or whatever and tell them of a memory or two. When Rob died those are some of the cards I was most grateful for. However I will also say that they will be so numb for awhile especially under the circumstances that she died under that it might be nicer to wait awhile. Recently I looked through some of the cards we received and don't remember seeing them before. It is just too overwhelming at the moment to really grasp what is happening.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss Ash.
    **hugs**
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    Ashley, I am so sorry to hear that. Such a tragic loss for you and her family.

    I didn't see him often, but when I got a call that my friend was killed in an auto accident, I thought my chest was going to burst from the pain.

    RIP Rylan. You'll be missed.
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    Ashley, I'm so sorry.
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    Aw, Ashley, I am so sorry. {{{hugs}}} I wish her family(and you!) comfort during this dreadful time.

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