I Have the upper hand on Chad for once!! OMG! SQUEEEEEEEEELLL!!!!

[king2005]

He called me earlier today & asked me if I knew when our court date was... I told him I didn't have the paper, as I put it into storage somewhere... He said you know if we don't show up we'll get arrested on the spot & go to jail eh!! I said ya I know... I hope I find it in time...

So I asked him this.. when can I get the rest of my things from your storage unit? He said next weekend.. I said ok cool, see you then.. click

BWAHAHAHAHAHAAAA

So I got up to go to the bathroom & Ceridwen followed me in.. She started talking to me...

I smelt a fish...

She said hey I know you have a court date coming up, don't forget about it eh? I said I know... She said when is it, casue I have a court date in Kingston too on such & such a date... I said ahhhh.. its funny he thinks its in Kingston.. He'll have fun learning its not.. oh well, hes stolen my things, so until I get them back.. I don't know the date.

Ok I can get even sneaker then that Even after I get all my stuff (ok if Chad gives it to me).. I'll be ALL buddy buddy with him & make him think I don't hate him (ok he is THAT stupid)... Then I'll just OPPS loose his number & have his number blocked & get my ext. at worked changed to a new number

Like I said... Karma always comes through, ALWAYS... I will sit back & I'll enjoy every second of it, as I slowly destroy his life, like he did to me. Except hes burned all his bridges, unlike me. So when his life hits poop, he'll fall HARD...

I'm usually not this cold hearted... I usually just walk away & start over... Like I have all my life... well he went beyond hurting me... He sent the cops after me, lied to me about people I cared for about them being in harms way... Ditched poor Bear (I swear I tried to find her!! I don't know where she is.. I did my best for her, but as Canadian laws stand, i can only do so much... I still feel like I failed her bad... I just hope she knows I went through hell to care for her & that I really did love her )

I'm doing this not just for me.. But for Bear, my friends, his friends, his family, my dad & of course me...

As Chad loves to say, tangle with the bull, you get the horn! I'm one pissed off BULL!!!! you can treat me like poo, walk all over me, destroy my life, destroy my good reputation.. BUT DO NOT do that to an animal!! Esp. one that I love... Because I will strike HARD when your least expecting it

Yes I'm full of anger, but I think I have the right for this.


This post might not make much sence to people who do not know the whole story. So please ask questions before assuming, as this is a touchy subject for me & I can get snippy.. I don't mean to, but you have no idea what I have gone through & how much anger I'm trying to keep contained so I don't loose control again.

& I do thank everyone who has been keeping tabs & giving full support.. its helped me feel a lot better & helped me to keep sane
HUGZ to all!!!

[jackie]

I don't see the point wasting so much of your energy trying to "destroy" someones life.

[Catty1]

This post might not make much sence to people who do not know the whole story. So please ask questions before assuming

Jackie, could you rephrase that as a question? You didn't see all the other threads - or if you did, you didn't post.

Click on King2005's name, click on Public Profile, then click on "Find all Posts Started By", and watch for the thread that ends in "I'm homeless!"

Or, as she requested, please ask questions.

[jackie]

I have read the other threads, and I do see where her anger is coming from.

As I said, I don't see the point wasting so much energy in someone she hates. It sounds as though he isn't worth the time of day.

Why should I rephrase that as a question? It is my opinion, and I stand by it.

[K9soul]

I think the question to ask yourself is if what you do for "revenge" puts you down on his level or not, and if you feel okay with that within yourself. Whether it does or not is only something you can determine for yourself. Good luck with that.

[Vela]

Afraid I have to agree here, you trying to get him back and ruin his life makes you no better than him. You would be best off if you just concentrated on getting your things back and move on with your life, but do whatever you feel is best for you; however, whatever you do won't change what he's done, and then it just brings you down to the same "creep" level he is.

[kuhio98]

Like I said... Karma always comes through, ALWAYS...

Very true. But it goes both ways, doesn't it?

[shais_mom]

I have read the other threads, and I do see where her anger is coming from.

As I said, I don't see the point wasting so much energy in someone she hates. It sounds as though he isn't worth the time of day.

Why should I rephrase that as a question? It is my opinion, and I stand by it.

well stated.
And I agree - I understand HE tried to ruin your life but I don't understand the glee that you are getting for trying to do it to him too.

[Karen]

I agree with the others. I think that if you take the "higher road," and just ignore him, instead of bringing yourself down to his level and doing him harm, you will feel better about yourself in the long run.

Chalk it up to experience nw that it si over, and let the anger fade away. You'll feel better!

[Alysser]

I really do get why you are angry, you have every right to be. But like you said "Karma always has a way of coming back" and ruining Chad's life will only make it come back to bite you. I really think, once you get your stuff back, just leave it be. AND NEVER associate with him again.

[critter crazy]

I have to agree with everyone else. I dont realy get any of this anyways. Just let it be.

[king2005]

Once I get my things, I'm disappearing into thin air. I want to act like I never met him, which involves not giving him information that is on MY yellow "Summons To Court" paper. By law I do not have to give him any information that is on my "Summons To Court" paper.

I've never been betrayed/used like this by a friend before. I'm hurt beyond hurt. I feel more hurt by what Chad has done to me, then what my ex use to do to me. As evil as my ex was, he atleast gave me all my things, made sure I had a secure place to live, & did move me out on his time. I still hate my ex with a passion, but all I can say is WOW to what Chad has done.

Maybe I am going about this the wrong way, now that I have read others POV... I don't want to do the wrong thing, but I'm just soo full of anger, that I guess I'm not thinking too clearly.

[Vela]

It's completely normal and okay to be angry at the things that have happened. I don't know anyone who wouldn't be, but trying to hold onto it and "make him pay" is only going to hurt you in the end. You will have to be the bigger person and just walk away with your head held high. It will take some time to get over it, and you will probably never forget what he did, but you will be a happier person if you can just let it go. Anger and hurt like that only harms you and it will make it hard for you to move on. You don't have to forgive, or forget, but it really will be best for you to try to move past it, and forgive him and feel sorry for him that he would do such things, someday if you can.