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  1. #1
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    It's OVER

    Last night I had the police remove my husband from our house. Today he collected his stuff and has left. Tomorrow the locks will be changed. My bruises will heal and Sasha and I will move on. I have to give Sasha credit, she hid during the worst of it and spent all day today cuddled up with me, being a goofy girl at times and kissing away my tears with those special doggie kisses.

    Thanks for listening. I just had to get it out.
    Gayle - self proclaimed Queen of Poop
    Mommy to: Cali (14 year old kitten)
    (RB furbabies: Rascal RB 10/11/03 (ferret), Sami RB 24/02/04 (dog), Trouble RB 10/08/05 (ferret), Miko RB 20/01/06 (ferret) and Sebastian RB 12/12/06(ferret), Sasha RB 17/10/09 (border collie cross), Diego RB 04/12/21

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    I am so sorry you had to go through that, keep safe and big {{{{hugs}}}}
    don't breed or buy while shelter dogs die....

    I have been frosted!

    Thanks Kfamr for the signature!


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    ((((hugs)))) You are so strong. I'm sorry you had to go through so much; I can't imagine how difficult all of this must have been for you. It's good that you have taken this step though, just keep yourself safe. PM me if you ever need to talk. More ((((hugs))))

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    Thank you for the kind words. Guess I need that right now. In case you don't recall, this is Sasha

    Gayle - self proclaimed Queen of Poop
    Mommy to: Cali (14 year old kitten)
    (RB furbabies: Rascal RB 10/11/03 (ferret), Sami RB 24/02/04 (dog), Trouble RB 10/08/05 (ferret), Miko RB 20/01/06 (ferret) and Sebastian RB 12/12/06(ferret), Sasha RB 17/10/09 (border collie cross), Diego RB 04/12/21

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    Congratulations on your courage, and you will be in our prayers.
    I've Been Frosted

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    *hugs* to you both. If you need anything, PT will be here for you!

    Thank you Wolf_Q!

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    (((PT GROUP HUGS))) Dogs are so amazing when you are upset. It took so much courage to do this, I will put you in my prayers. Sasha is such a beautiful girl.
    Thanks so much Ashley for the siggy!
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    GOOD FOR YOU!!! Life is to short to spend a moment of it in misery. You deserve a better life and I hope you know the best revenge is to show him you can do far better WITHOUT him!

    Special Needs Pets just leave bigger imprints on your heart!

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    Candle and prayers for you Gayle. I am glad you had the courage to stand up for yourself, and the conviction to follow through.

    The rest may not be easy but it will get better, and things will be so much more wonderful for you. I know this.

    Hugs to you and belly rubs to your girl.

    Kym
    Merry Holidays to One an All Blessed be

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    wow
    {hugs to you}
    and kudos to you for stregnth and courage during this rough time for you.
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    Oh my gosh....I don't know what to say...except...

    I've never been in your situation but I have experienced a brutal breakup. I'm going to PM you my email address. Use it if you ever need to talk or vent. I'm in BC and have a very cheap long distance plan. I know that I don't respond to your threads, but I need you to know that I do read them and say prayers when necessary. You are important and I'm here for you whenever you need me.

    {{{big hugs}}}
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    It was time...and I am glad you are alive. So sorry you are hurt with bruises...I hope you heal soon!

    I am so glad Sasha was there to be goofy, and to lick your tears.

    You are just where you are supposed to be...you already know you will be fine. I hope you give yourself lots of Gayle-time.

    HUGS
    "Do or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda

  13. I am so sorry you have had such a difficult time.

    I hope things get better soon....

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    Gayle.

    You hang in there old mate. Things always get better when you unload.
    Wombat

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    Oh honey- I will pm you- but I will tell you- I AM PROUD OF YOU! I am sorry you went through that but this is HIS PROBLEM not yours.. As someone that went through this- I can also tell you, THERE IS LIFE and a MUCH BETTER ONE after all this.. Who YOU ARE is NOT defined by what someone else does or thinks- you are in my thoughts and prayers. Accept where you are now- as the launching board for a new life.

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