Do you hold a grudge?

[zoomer]

Do you hold a grudge? Like stay mad at something that happened a while ago? Or do you forget about it and get over things easily?

[zoomer]

I hold grudges usually... with people I usually hold grudges but with animals I do not.

[CathyBogart]

I do sometimes. I used to all the time. When I realized that was something I had inherited from my father, I was determined to expunge that trait. I've done a fair job, I think.

[Miss Z]

Usually, yes. If that person makes a heart-felt apology, I respect that, and I think it takes a stronger person to say sorry sincerely to me than to not do something hurtful towards me in the first place.

Other than that, I can hold life-long grudges.

[BC_MoM]

Sometimes - but I try not to.

[Zippy]

Sometimes I do but it takes to much energy to hold a grudge for long.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I try not to - life is too short

[dogzr#1]

Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.

[JenBKR]

Almost never, I get over most things pretty quickly. Most things are just not worth the time and effort it takes to hold a grudge.

A lot of you are still pretty young, I think that with time, maturity, and experience at least some of you will stop holding grudges as much

[Chilli]

Rarely.
I don't let things get to me.
If something happens that upsets me, I just talk it out and move on.

No use living in the past.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

Sometimes I do, but very rarely.

[lwds]

Depends.

[k9krazee]

No, I tend to forgive and forget very easily, life is too short to hold grudges!

[GreyhoundGirl]

Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.

Me too. I've never held a gruge against an animal.

[chocolatepuppy]

I voted sometimes. I usually get over things, in time, it's not worth it. I may not be friends with someone anymore, but I let the 'grudge' go.