May I please ask for your prayers and thoughts

[K9soul]

Some may remember the thread I started last fall when things were not going well between my husband and I. Everyone's prayers and support really helped me then, and I just would like to ask for prayers again now as I am going through the most difficult and painful thing I have ever experienced. My husband has decided he wants to end our marriage. It's hard to even put into words all I'm feeling and going through, though I'm sure some already can relate. I thank you for your thoughts and prayers. It truly means a lot to me. The pain of this feels so unbearable, and the fears of what is to come are so hard to even contemplate right now. Thank you friends.

Jess

[Vela]

I'm always here for you Jess, no matter what. I'll keep you in my prayers and thoughts. I know how horrible this is and I wish it wasn't so. I wish I had a magic word or wand to make things better but I don't. Love you always.

[luvofallhorses]

omg, Jess! I am so, so sorry. ((((((((HUGS)))))))))) please don't hesitate to PM me if you need anything at all. I will keep you held close in my thoughts and prayers. we're here for you, please know that.

[RobiLee]

Jess, I am so sorry to hear this news from you. I had really hoped that things would work out. You know I care and of course you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

{{HUGS}}

[sandragonfly]

sigh. I hope it's for the best. and I hope you'll still have dawn, tommy and tasha with you!

thinking of you.. don't forget to take care of jessica too.

(((many hugs as much you need))).

[Dorothy39]

Some may remember the thread I started last fall when things were not going well between my husband and I. Everyone's prayers and support really helped me then, and I just would like to ask for prayers again now as I am going through the most difficult and painful thing I have ever experienced. My husband has decided he wants to end our marriage. It's hard to even put into words all I'm feeling and going through, though I'm sure some already can relate. I thank you for your thoughts and prayers. It truly means a lot to me. The pain of this feels so unbearable, and the fears of what is to come are so hard to even contemplate right now. Thank you friends.

Jess

Hello Jess,

Dorothy39 here.

This post is not about pets , I know that!! I am so sorry to have read about your plight.

What is the underlying problem in your marriage.??Money, sex, family, religion?? It has to be one of these!!!! Working hours?

How long have you been married? How old are you ????


I am happily married, so the saying goes, but my husband and I have weathered so many tormenting storms . We are from the 60's, and we bonded while in High School. We were puppies from the same box, so to speak.


I cannot , in so many words, stress how important it is to hold onto each other when the going gets real rough. Why does your husband feel a DIVORCE will fix things? It won't!!! You know it won't !!!! You love him, I can tell. I am not a counsilor by any means---I don't know any of the details either. But this much I do know, -----when you become older, and older, and older, the person that you genuinely love will make an imprint upon your heart. You will look for "him" within another person if you do divorce. I know you understand what I am typing.


Please, stay at Pet Talk, we are not only Dog Lovers, We are compassionate people . Pet Talk is such a wonderful forum!!!! It is real, it is free !!! Fill me in on some History about you and your husband, He seems lost!!! A lost lamb!!!!


I have read your posts in the dog game forum, "Name a Famous Dog" as well as "Dog Sayings"

Did you post, "Throw me a bone" --I'll check it out later.


at any rate, throw ME a bone here, I care.

[JenBKR]

((((hugs)))) I am so sorry you are going through this - I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. If there is ever anything at all I can do please let me know!

[Flatcoatluver]

Aww (((hugs))) I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts, I may be young but I am always here if you need a listner.

[catnapper]

I am so sorry to hear this. I know its scary facing the uncertain future but you have lots of friends here and at home that you can lean on in your time of uncertainty. (((hugs)))

[My Peanuts]

I'm sorry to hear this. I can see your pain in your words. You are such a sweet, wonderful person and I hate to hear that you are going through this. I have never been married, but my fiancé and I broke up last year. We were together for 10 years and it was very hard. I know what you are going through is a lot harder, but if you need someone to talk to I'm here.

[ramanth]

*hugs*

[Ginger's Mom]

Oh Jess, I really am sorry that things have not worked out. Although not constant, I have kept you in my prayers, and will redouble my prayers or you. {{{Hugs}}}

[Queen of Poop]

So sorry he has decided to end it. Now is when you need the love of your pets to bolster your wounded self. They will help you thru this and help you heal. Hugs to you. Take care of yourself. Prayers to help you thru this most difficult time.

[Kater]

Jess, I am so sorry to hear about this painful decision. I hope that you can find peace, as hard as that may be. You will be in my prayers and thoughts. You can always PM me if you need to talk.
***BIG HUGS***

[finn's mom]

I have to say I am more angry right now than sad. I know you have gone through the entire spectrum of emotion since all this started for you. And, I'm sure you will go through the spectrum again, as will I, as I have watched you go through it. I know I will be heart broken along with you as I really sit down and think about it...but, right now, I'm just really angry. I'm not totally sure why, I guess just because...grrr, never mind. Jess, talk to me if you need to. I'll pm you my new cell phone number, and, you can send me yours again, too, as I don't have it anymore. I won't be hurt if you don't turn to me, as long as you turn to someone when you need it. The anger is already turning into sympathy and empathy again, as I've been there, too. If you need a vacation or some real change, you know you're welcome here. I love you, and, I'm sorry that your path has changed so drastically from where it was.