We too decided to keep them in after a few bad experiences. My mom lives with a nice woodsy area right out the back door, and she always feels so bad about keeping the cat in when it so obviously wants to go out so bad. She used to just let them out, but after about the 4th one ended up with a very sad demise, she changed her mind. By that time I was living in the city and had Tubby, and I let him out only on a rope. She started doing the same, and now 8 years later, the cat is still around.
They do get used to being inside cats, and IMHO, they are not being deprived of anything if they are not let out. So I would suggest what C & K suggested and only let them out when *you* want them out, and keep up with the firm NO. Tubby has gotten so good with the NO that he immediately stops in his tracks when I say it and I can stand with the door wide open for a minute or two without him darting out as long as I keep saying it every now and then. His ears perk up and boy does he get excited, but he doesn't dart out.
They will learn, it just takes patience, and the ability to block out their pitiful meows when they are begging so hard to go out.
Oh, and don't forget, even though their meows seem to be saying different, you're NOT being a mean momma by keeping them in.
Tubby
Spring 1986 - Dec. 11, 2004
RIP Big Boy
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Peanut
Fall 1988 - Jan. 24, 2007
RIP Snotty Girl
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Robin
Fall 1997 - Oct. 6, 2012
RIP Sweet Monkeyhead Girl
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