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    OMG!!! So upset!!!

    I found out from my hubby that a friend of his had his girlfriend leave about 3 weeks ago, and after she left he threw her cats (and the female cats 4 week old kittens) outside, and that he hasn't been feeding them. Hubby has been taking food to them, and today I went with him.

    One of the female kittens, a black and white long hair jumped out of the compost bin, and ran up to be petted. When I was petting her, I gently tried to seperate the matted hair on her neck, to make her more comfortable by breaking up the mats. Thats when I saw a sight that still has me trembling. The skin on the back of her neck looks like it has split or something and I could see the muscle underneath. The wound is a little over an inch in width and a little more in length and goes from the back of her head towards her shoulder blades. It wasn't bleeding and looked well cleaned (probably by the momma cat).

    Needless to say I brought her home. I couldn't leave her outside in the horribly cold weather we've been having. I called the Vet as soon as I got home, and the assistant said he had left for the day. So I called the emergency Vet which is about an hour from here and talked to the Vet on the phone describing the wound. She said it was probably an old abcess that ruptured leaving the open wound behind. She asked if Kitty was eating and drinking, and she is. She positively DOVE into the food I gave her, and lapped up half a bowl of water. Vet told me to put peroxide on the wound and polysporin, which I have done.The Vet will be back on Friday, and the Vet on the phone told me as long as she seems comfortable , and is eating and drinking she should be fine until then. She said they would probably inspect the wound , put her on a round of antibiotics and stitch it up once the chance of infection is ruled out. Kitty is resting comfortably in the back porch in a bed of soft blankets, with a full tummy, but I'm still shaking like a leaf.

    Is there anyone out there who has any advice for what I can do for her in the meantime until Friday? She just purrs and purrs and wants to be held- very very affectionate.

    Btw- she is being kept in the back porch to make sure she doesn't pass anything to my resident cats. I plan on having her tested for everything when I take her Friday. I change my clothes and wash my hands really well after handling her, before coming inside. Hopefully they can cut the rest of her mats out too, they must be uncomfortable

    I'm just SO horrifed for this poor little girl We aren't supposed to have cats as it is, let alone another one because of allergies, but I couldn't leave her there in that condition.

    Sorry to ramble- I'm just so upset
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    You seem to be all that you can at the time. Love and tenderness goes along way. This kitten knew in her heart you were the one to go running to that you would take care of her. I hope she tests clean and the vet can stitch her. Sounds like she has the loving home she needs. Let me know how she is. I would give her a kitten can food for now to help put weight on her. Prayers and glows to you and the kitten.

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    I'll pick her up some wet kitten food in the morning, and some KMR from the Vets office to help fatten her up. She may have still been nursing from her momma, but I had to bring her home rather than leave her there- she wouldn't last long with that wound in this weather
    "Don't separate divinity from the mundane... the world is the cloak that the divine puts on in order to be seen..."

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    First off, that guy who threw mama and her babies out in the cold should be shot.
    Is there anyway you can get a hold of the ex-girlfriend to let her know what was done to her cats?

    Secondly, you are such an angel for taking in this precious little one. Seems to me like you are doing everything you can for her right now. Poor little thing. It just breaks my heart knowing they are out in the cold like that. AARRRGGG some people make me sooooo mad.
    Plus, you are doing the right thing by keeping her separate from your other cats as they are your first priority.
    Any chance in getting the other kitties and trying to find homes for them?

    I wish you all the best and please keep us posted on the outcome at the vet.
    Have you decided on a name for her yet? Also, give your hubby a hug for me, for helping these little ones by bringing them food.

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    The ex-girlfriend is supposed to be coming to get the remaining two cats (momma and one kitten) tomorrow. She had kept them as inside cats, and didn't know he threw them out. Thankfully its unseasonably warm outside tonight and the kitties have their bellies full.

    Hubby is a softie when it comes to kitties He couldn't leave her there anymore than I could have. We tried to convince the friend to let them stay inside tonight, but don't know how much good that will do. Some people just shut their hearts off when it comes to animals

    I'd like to name her Bastet, after the Egyptian Cat Goddess- but have to discuss it with Hubby first
    "Don't separate divinity from the mundane... the world is the cloak that the divine puts on in order to be seen..."

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    First off I would like to say that you and your hubby are wonderful people for taking in the kitten as well as trying to help out with the other cats. Hopefully the ex-girlfriend will be able to come for the remaining cats. I'll keep my fingers crossed that the vet visit goes well for you on Friday.

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    Melissa,

    I am SO sorry to hear about the mama and babies. You absolutely did the right thing and I'm so glad hubby backed you up. I'd call the cops on this piece of garbage. He deserves to get nailed.

    You're doing everything right. As long as she's eating and stuff, just keep doing what you're doing till you can get her to the vet.

    BTW, thanks for the mug and the rock. I absolutely LOVE both!! I tried to call you a couple of times but there was no answer. I'm off on Thursday & Friday. Maybe we can IM for a while. I miss you!!!

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    What a relief to hear that the ex will come and get the others. I hope and pray she does anyways. Please let us know okay.
    Hats off to you and your hubby for being such kind and caring people. We need more people like you in this harsh world.

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    First welcome to PT.

    I missed your welcome thread that Donna started for you.
    *hangs head*

    Next, Most of the words that I would use to describe this person I cannot use here so I will just say . That's done.

    I think that you did exactly the right thing. Just keep an eye on her and get her to the vet on Friday. You are also doing the right thing to help prevent spreading dieses to your other kitties.

    Is the lady going to take her back so she can be reunited with her mom?

    Bless you for being such a caring person. Lorraine is right we need more people like you in the world.

    BTW - I thought that you were a lot newer then you are. It shows in the thread by you name that you only have 4 post. I had gone to check and make sure that I had missed your introduction post and it shows in the search that you have12 posts. Nothing to really be concerned about, but you may want to PM Paul and just ask him when they get back from vacation.
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    Oh dear, how sad! You are a cat hero for rescuing her, for trying to seperate the matts, and then for caring for her, poor dear kitty! Keep us updated, and you and she will be in our prayers.

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    She has a name - Shaedi (pronounced shady)

    The wound looks pretty good today, a little 'drier' and more healed around the edges. I'm getting more peroxide and some spray polysporin (if there is such a thing?) so I don't have to touch the wound and aggravate it. I hate doing the peroxide because I know it hurts her

    Thanks for all the kind words and support- it means a lot to me
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    You are an absolute gem for taking this wee baby in !!

    No matter what this blokes ex did he had no right to take it out on those poor kitties, he is evil and heartless

    I'm glad his girlfriend is coming back for her cats but what about this kitty, is she allowed to stay with you or is she collecting her too ??

    Give Shady (sorry can't remember how to spell the correct name) a wee chin rub from me !!!

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    Shaedi is doing well today. We bought her some canned kitten food, and she gobbled it up and drank a dish of water. She even used her litterbox while I was at work Small victories, but they make me happy nonetheless.

    She goes to the Vet at 8 am tomorrow, and will firstly be tested for Feline Leukemia. If its negative, we decide what to do about the wound, probably 'glue' (for lack of a better term) it, since shes to young and small for anesthesia and traditional stitching. If she tests positive then I have a lot of thinking to do- because I have two other negative cats to consider.

    Please keep Shaedi in your thoughts and prayers. Shes been through too much to have something bad happen now.
    "Don't separate divinity from the mundane... the world is the cloak that the divine puts on in order to be seen..."

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    Positive thoughts and prayers for your precious Shaedi that all goes well at the vets tomorrow.
    Please let us know how it went.

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    Melissa,
    You have done a really good thing! Shaedi is going to have a great home with you and sounds like the tender loving care you giving her is going to work.

    Good job, Melissa!!

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