You have to leave your husband and you can't take your furbabies along? I swear I will not let my husband take care of Rocky or Fluffy..he won't change the litter box at all....He says he will put them outside if I wasn't here so that tells me he would be neglecting them.....I don't have any plans yet to leave anytime soon but the time will come, my my mom is highly allergic to cats,,she has asthma, and just can't tolerate them or she would I am sure....maybe..I don't know, but My plans in the future are to get out on my own with the kids....I want to take my kitties too..It will be a while anyway before I do anyway, but I just like to plan ahead ya know?...