Goodbye forever.*

[Violet]

He no longer runs around the yard barking at birds or sleeps at my feet for security when I go to bed. His sparkle in his eyes are gone, and his happy personality is too, but his soul will remain in my house and in my yard. Rebel was hit by a car yesterday at 6pm. That stupid red car has took away something that I can never replace. It took away my joy, my heart, my Rebel, and a peice of my heart. What did he ever do to deserve to die?! I've been crying ever since yesterday at 6pm, and I haven't stopped yet. Poor, poor Rebel. I have so much anger in me for that dumb red car. Why him? Why now? He never did anything to hurt anyone. All I have left is Roxy now. And I can tell she knows too. She's been laying in one spot only to get up to use the bathroom. Everyone tells me that it is going to be okay, but it's not! They don't understand how much I love Rebel. He is like a kid to me not a dog. And the nerve of that car! They didn't even stop! The worst part is I saw the whole thing. It's all my fault. I was playing fetch with them outside and the ball slipped out of my hand and went in the road. Rebel went to get it and the car never slowed down. I know that I can always come to you guys for comfort. Please tell me something that I can do to quit mourning over Rebel....It's emotionally killing me.

[aly]

I am so sorry. We all know how much you love your dogs. I know its very hard to accept your loss because Rebel left before his time. Take comfort in the fact that he will be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge. Don't beat yourself up about the mistake but at the same time, you can learn from it and be very careful with Roxy. When something bad happens to someone else's pets, especially the ones here at Pet Talk, it feels like something happened to my own child. Tears are being shed here for Rebel and you and Roxy will be in my thoughts and prayers. Be strong, Roxy needs you.

[tatsxxx11]

Violet. I can't believe what I'm reading. I can't stop crying. I feel like I got to know Rebel so well these past few weeks. I am totally heartbroken for you and Roxy. Oh, why do these things happen. For sure it was not your fault. It was an accident. Made worse because this cold, cruel person was too uncaring to even stop. Something none of us here can imagine. Please don't think that it was your fault. Violet, I know there is little we can say to stop the incredible sorrow you are feeling right now. Please know that we are all here. And that Roxy needs you more than ever. You are right. Rebel will always live on in your heart. Please write me anytime you feel like talking. Talking helps. Be with those whom you love and who love you and Rebel. Violet, I am so, so sorry. My heart aches along with yours. I can't find the words. We have all been through this, but it never gets easier. All of my prayers and love and strength I send to you and Roxy and your family. Love, Sandra

[Pam]

Violet I think that is the most awful news that I have read so far since being on Pet Talk. I know right now there is nothing that can be said to ease the pain that you are feeling. How terrible for you!!! I really don't know what comfort to offer except that we share in your sorrow and are here to listen.

[AdoreMyDogs]

Oh my gosh, Violet. I can't believe it. It's so quick. I am so, so very sorry from the bottom of my heart. My eyes filled up with tears when I read your post, I just can't believe it. These things happen so sudden sometimes that it's a shock. Rebel sounded so beautiful. I felt the love in your words when you wrote about him. It's unfair and it's so sudden, but know that it is NOT your fault, and that he's in a place now where there are no cars, fences, curfews, pain, or sadness. He's happy. I don't know what to say, other then I am so, so sorry and I hope you can heal your saddened heart. I don't really have any advise accept spend some special time with Roxy, do the things she likes to do most (car rides, going to the park, going on nice long walks) spoil her lots because she's feeling what you are feeling now and it will help her aching heart to get some special time with you doing the stuff she loves.

[jackiesdaisy1935]

Violet, I'm sitting here crying, trying to write this poem that may help:

DON'T GRIEVE TOO LONG

Don't grieve too long for now I'm free
I've followed the path God set for me
I ran to Him when I heard his call
I swished my tail and left it all.

I could not stay another day
To bark, to love to romp or play
Games left unplayed must stay that way
I found such peace, it made my day.

My parting has left you with a void
Please fill it with remembered joy
A friendshiip shared, your laugh, a kiss
Oh yes, these things I too shall miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow
My life's been full, you've given so much
Your time, your love, and gentle touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all to brief
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief
Lift up your head and share with me
God wanted me, He set me free!

[Logan]

Oh Pam....
How upsetting for you, and for all of us, who feel so connected to Rebel. Bless his heart and yours. I am SO sorry about his untimely death. You can not allow yourself to feel guilt over this...you loved him, and we all know it.
Please come to us as often as necessary while you grieve.
Logan

[sammi]

Violet, I'm crying as I read this - it makes me remember my pain from going through this before. Nothing I can say will make the pain go away for you. But everyone on this message board is here for you and we understand its real pain.
Give comfort to Roxy as he needs you and you need him. I'm so so sorry for the emptiness that you are feeling.

[aly]

MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free!
Miss me a little, but not for long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me, but let me go!
For this is a journey we all must take.
And each must go alone,
It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know.
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me, but let me go!

[Dixie Belle]

I know exactly how you are feeling right now. I just lost one of my baby kittens Tuesday night. I still cry thinking about her. But I remember that she is in a happy place and that all of my pets from my childhood that passed away years ago are with her. Rebel is not alone. He is Rainbow Bridge with all the other pets who have gone before him. He will wait there until your time to join him. Spend alot of time with Roxey. Yes, she does know, just like Salem knows that his sister is gone. Love her, pet her, talk to her. Let her remeber that you are there. And it's okay to be angry at the car. I was when I lost my cat Jake years ago because he was hit. I still can get angry and it happened eight years ago. It takes time. Things won't ever be the same, but one day you will think of Rebel and you will be able to smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you until that day comes.

[Karen]

Oh, so sad, so sorry, but you know, you know for sure he just followed that ball right across the Rainbow Bridge, right? There he will romp and play, and no mean red cars even exist.

I'd call the police, to report the hit and run anyway, even if you don't have a license plate or anything. It is a serious offense, not to be taken lightly.

[bugmom]

Nothing can make the ache go away, i know that, but believe in the fates and in god. pay attention to Roxy's pups...you may find rebel returning in one of those pups. i know this can happen cuz bug carries a part of a dearly loved cat in her soul - the timing of the cat's passing and bugs birthday are the same and there are days when i see more of jem in bug.
But for now follow Karens advice of calling the police.
I am sooo sorry for you. this is the tragedy we all fear...and we all shed tears for.
Blessings be to you, roxy and rebel.... he is safe now.

janet


PS - IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!

[This message has been edited by bugmom (edited May 24, 2001).]

[RachelJ]

I am so, so sorry for what happened. I think you must still be in a state of shock from the enormity of it all. I know how empty your home must feel and that big hole that is in your heart hurts so bad. I too just can't find the words right now. Please know that we understand the pain and take care of yourself and spend as much time with Roxy as possible.

Violet ~

Our deepest sympathy for your loss of Rebel.

Try to remember all the good times you shared with him. And know that he'll be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

Love from Phred, Cinder and Smokey

[ownerof3dogs]

Oh my god I am Soooooo sorry. I just have to tell you that it is not your fault.

This is a weird question but is Roxy pregnant? If she is, those puppies are part of Rebel and you could keep one-even though it is not him.
Once again I am so sorry and I hope that you fell better