Schools getting into kid's business

**Alysser** · 05-15-2007, 05:27 AM

This is a subject I feel very strongly about, especially as a kid. I think Schools today try and get too much into are lives at home. This came up today, when I was thinking of myspace, and all of a sudden something last year popped into my head. In 7th grade, we had an assembly about how bad myspace.com is. But, the guidance counselor said that the school could delete any myspace they wanted of their students and such, or something VERY similar. THAT is going way too far, IMO, and seriously is really annoying to have to think about. They can't make me delete my myspace and it's my choice and my parent's decision if I have one.

Maybe, if the situation, say of something like bullying is IN school, or the kids bring the situation upon a teacher, but nothing else. I really don't want school taking over my life, even though it does with work. Sorry, but freetime is my time and they aren't controlling THAT too.

**buttercup132** · 05-15-2007, 07:40 AM

WTH,they can't make you delete something that has NOTHING to do with school. They can block access to it at school but what you do on your own time has nothing to do with them. I'm sure they could get in trouble for just going and deleting it. I know if they did that to me I'd flip!

**mugsy** · 05-15-2007, 08:29 AM

I'm sure that you did not hear it correctly. They can and SHOULD delete anything off of myspace that is done during school hours on school property. If your myspace gets deleted because of that, you get what you get for doing something you shouldn't be doing. Myspace is blocked throughout our district. It has no place in the school.

As for school taking up too much of your time...you're in school to learn. I give all of my students homework virtually everyday (I try to avoid Fridays, but, sometimes it's unavoidable) and about half of them are too lazy to do it and then get irritated when they earn an "F". So, there is another side to the story of working. Just remember your teachers have to grade all that you do, plus all of the other students, so they have a lot of homework too (and they don't get paid at home!)

**K9soul** · 05-15-2007, 08:41 AM

Originally Posted by mugsy

I'm sure that you did not hear it correctly. They can and SHOULD delete anything off of myspace that is done during school hours on school property.

I was thinking that as well. They could not just randomly go in and delete someone's Myspace seeing how they don't run the site. Only you have access to your pw for your account, and myspace themselves (and how would they know your account name to begin with, if you were never on it at school?). That's like saying a someone could come in and delete my account or my posts here at Pet Talk. Only me, someone who knows my pw, or Karen/Paul can do that. If you are caught on it at school, they may be able to if you are logged in then.

I also think the dangers of myspace and sites like it SHOULD be explained. A lot of weird stalkers and predators use sites like that to find information on people. Not all kids may realize that and are not careful with what pictures and information they post.

Just an adult's perspective

**lady_zana** · 05-15-2007, 09:18 AM

And also, anything you post on Myspace (or Facebook) is like posting it on a sign in the center of town for anyone to see.

I recently graduated from a college that had an absolute-no-alcohol policy. It didn't matter if you were 21 - it was a completely dry campus.

There was several uproars over people getting caught with having alcohol in their rooms or underage drinking - how were they caught? By having their pictures on Myspace and Facebook.

A lot of these students complained - they said it was "cheating" that they got in trouble without actually getting caught but the truth is, webspace is pretty much public domain. Anyone can see what you post if you don't set it to private.

Basically, if you think it would be a bad idea to stand on the busiest street in your town holding a sign declaring which party you went to or what you did there, there's a pretty good chance that posting it on myspace is a bad idea as well.

**JenBKR** · 05-15-2007, 09:24 AM

I think it's good that your school had an assembly talking about the negatives of myspace. I think that many kids post way too much private info about themselves, and there are many kids who have gotten into some trouble because of that. There are too many predators out there. However, I don't see how they could delete your whole myspace account, I would think that they would need your password for that. Maybe just block you from using it at school?