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    Church destroys neighbor's yard

    http://www.tiftongazette.com/local/l...120221343.html

    By Jana Cone

    TIFTON —

    Shonda Statini is a nature lover. She loves all the pine trees and the azaleas and green growing things. She loves the birds and the squirrels and the rabbits. It is the beauty of the world of nature around her that makes her smile and gives her peace. That is, it did until last Tuesday.

    Statini came home from work Tuesday afternoon and was aghast at what had happened to her yard. It looked like a tornado had blown by along her property line on the east side of her house.

    The seven-foot red tip hedge, trees and shrubbery were all gone. They had been there that morning when she left for work at Herring CPA Group in Tifton and were gone when she returned to her home on Church Street in Alapaha later in the day. Poof!

    Statini said she knows who was responsible for what had happened to her yard that had always brought her so much joy.

    “They were sitting there having a tailgate party, laughing,” she said.

    “The logger and backhoe were still there,” Statini said of the equipment that had been used to demolish her property.

    Statini said the people responsible were members of Alapaha United Methodist Church. The church is next door to Statini’s home. The church’s parking lot abuts Statini’s property on the east side.

    Statini was so upset about what had been done to her property, she cried for days.

    Statini and her husband moved to south Georgia from Tempe, Ariz. She doesn’t think that people here understand how much “the greenery” meant to her.

    “Where I come from we had rock yards,” Statini said. “Everything was dirt and rocks, nothing green.” She said the greenery everywhere was like a tranquilizer for her.

    “I love all of it,” she said, “I love the trees and flowers and the wild life.”

    And she was a proud homeowner. Statini and her husband had spent years remodeling their 1889 home. “We had been so busy working inside, we had not gotten to the outside yet,” she said. It was In September 2001, when the Statini family had moved into the old Victorian house next to the church.

    She said she had visited the church next door several times but eventually joined the Baptist church.

    “We had never had any problems, nothing at all,” she said. “Until this happened.”

    She said last Tuesday morning a neighbor had “tipped us off” the church board members planned to take out the hedge on her property that separated her house from the church parking lot.

    “My husband spoke with a church member that morning,” Statini said. “They told him to go to the courthouse and get a copy of the property line.”

    Statini said her husband did exactly that and when he got back home he found the stakes for the property line. The hedge and trees were on their property. Statini said her husband spoke to the church member again, told her the hedge was on their property and told them not to do anything and they would talk when he got back home from work.

    Statini said the church member told her husband they were just going to go ahead and do some trimming. She said when she got home around 7 p.m. everything was gone.

    “There was one little tree left,” Statini said. “It was over on their property. They cut all of mine down.”

    Statini said she thought what had happened to her was a hate crime.

    She explained that she is Italian and her husband, Roger, is a Filipino.

    “I don’t have any other explanation for what happened,” Statini said.

    Statini called Berrien County law enforcement and filed an incident report.

    She said later that night, after the police left, people started driving by the house and honking and laughing and yelling. “That went on until after 2:30 in the morning,” she said.

    Statini said she no longer feels safe in her home. “I leave the lights on all night,” she said.

    She said she has lost the privacy provided by the shrubbery and trees. “I might as well be looking at a junk yard,” Statini said of the view from her window now.

    She said she had lost “the shade factor.” Statini said the shrubs and trees had provided shade for over half of her home. “I don’t know what my utility bill is going to be like this summer,” she said.

    She also said the loss of the hedge had depreciated her property. “It’s just a hideous eyesore now,” she said.

    Statini said she had spoken with the church’s district superintendent, Don Adams. “All he said is, ‘I’m really sorry,’” she said. Statini said the pastor at the church next door has never apologized to her.

    Statini said she did not expect something like that from church members. “What about love thy neighbor as thyself?” she asked.

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    I really don't know what to say. For a religion that's supposed to be about love, this seems pretty hateful...and spiteful too....driving past honking until 2am?

    Thank you Wolf_Q!

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    Sounds like someone at the church has a personal grudge against that woman. Unfortunately, churches are populated by human beings, who are fallible and don't always live up to the doctrines of their faith. Hopefully the District Superintendant will step in and the church will replant/replace the greenery as a service and an apology.

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    The first thing she should have done is hire an attorney and get an
    injunction against the church removing anything on her property.She could
    still seek legal action to replace the shrubs & trees but it might have prevented the heartache to be proactive.If it is indeed her property, they
    have broken the laws by trespassing & vandalism.
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    This is definitely not the type of thing that a typical United Methodist Church would advocate. How sad.

    I promise you guys, the south is not always like what has been described in this article. It is embarassing to me to even read something like this.

    Logan

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    Quote Originally Posted by Logan
    This is definitely not the type of thing that a typical United Methodist Church would advocate. How sad.

    I promise you guys, the south is not always like what has been described in this article. It is embarassing to me to even read something like this.

    Logan

    Oh, I believe you Logan. I can't imagine a "real" established church like
    UMC ever do something like what was discribed here.
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    She needs to take legal action or quit her whining. I hate reading stories where all they do is whine and the responsible party doesn't have any repercussions.
    "There are two things which cannot be attacked in front: ignorance and narrow-mindedness. They can only be shaken by the simple development of the contrary qualities. They will not bear discussion."

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    But why would they want to do that ????
    I mean the hedge separated her house from the church car park....right ???
    Would the churghgoers want a view of the next door house when they parked their cars ??? And the hedge was not on church property.
    This lady and her husband need to seek some legal advice. Firstly, so that the law may take action against church members for trespass onto private property. And secondly, so that the owners may sue in tort for the negligent damage done on their property.
    Wom

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    That poor lady
    I hope she sues the pants off that church group. If they were decent human beings, they would have worked something out with her, instead of trashing her yard like that

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    I completely agree with everyone who has said she should take legal action. Stories with her whining won't get her anywhere.

    I'm a little skeptical about the race part though. I suppose it's because I'm so tired of everyone going off about how "it's because I'm black, it's because I'm Mexican" etc. etc. I get it a lot, and it's just so damn stupid.

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