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    Five years ago today

    It's hard to believe that five years has passed already. My husband would
    probably say that January 29, 2002 was the beginning of the end of life as
    we knew it. It was the day our very first foster dogs arrived.

    Preacher and Franklin had been in the shelter for well over a year. Franklin was afraid of his own shadow and Preacher was so depressed he wouldn't even eat. Preacher liked nothing better than food--didn't matter what kind of food, where it was served or if it was actually meant for him, he just loved to eat. The loss of appetite was bad sign, as it was in December 2006 when not eating led to his final trip to the vet.

    Today Franklin is adjusting to life without his best friend, adjusting
    better than I am some days. He spent this afternoon running twenty miles in his favorite wheel position of a six dog team.

    We explored a new trail today, much to the dogs' delight.
    No longer afraid of his shadow, Franklin is a happy, playful, silly 7 year old. He loves to pull, he loves to play chase with his both his canine and human buddies. For thefirst year we had him the only real way to interact with him was to play agame we call "Get Frankie". He playbows and barks, I chase him saying that I'm gonna get him. We still play Get Frankie almost daily, but now we play just for fun. Franklin isn't hard to catch anymore! He seeks out attention and even snuggles on the futon some nights.

    Preacher was never shy, never timid. Even when he lost his sight, he never
    lost his courage. He took over this house within days of his arrival,
    claimed a spot in the hallway as his own and dared any other dog to try and
    move him. He became my best friend, my shadow and part of my soul. He
    showed me what real forgiveness, bravery and acceptance look like.

    Five weeks after his death, it is still painfully quiet without him. I still
    stop every night where he used to get fed, simply out of habit. I still
    say "it's ok buddy, it's just me" as I step over his sleeping spot in the
    porch. He is still very much a part of this place.

    Happy Gotcha day boys.
    If you are lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you must find the courage to live it.
    --John Irving

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    So bittersweet. I sometimes don't envy you. You have so many special animals that the loss is that much bigger when one passes. Your heart must be bigger than all the Canada sky.

    The "get Frankie" game sounds too cute. I just love seeing the dogs in their playbow position. In fact, that's the tattoo of Duke I'm going to get. I'm so glad Franklin is secure and able to enjoy just being a dog. That's one of the greatest gifts you can give a dog.

    9/3/13
    I did the right thing by setting you free
    But the pain is very deep.
    If only I could turn back time, forever, you I'd keep.
    I miss you


    I hear you whimper in your sleep
    I gently pet you and say, no bad dreams
    It will be alright, to my dog as dark as night.

    Fur as dark as the night.
    Join me on this flight.
    Paws of love that follow me.
    In my heart you'll forever be.
    [/SIZE]



    How I wish I could hold you near.
    Turn back time to make it so.
    Hug you close and never let go.
    11/12/06




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    What a fine tribute to Preacher.
    and
    What a wonderful Happy Gotcha Day for Franklin - he's come SUCH a long way!
    .

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    Tamara,

    You had me in tears, tears of joy and of sadness.
    I still think you are such a saint for rescuing ............ (oh, and your hubbie too )
    M!
    "No dog is born either vicious or friendly, but rather a blank slate that is moulded, for better or worse, by the owner."

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    Quote Originally Posted by dukedogsmom
    You have so many special animals that the loss is that much bigger when one passes.
    A friend sent me this when Preacher died. I think it's perfect...

    "It came to me
    that every time I lose a dog
    they take a piece of my heart with them.
    And every new dog
    who comes into my life
    gifts me with a piece of their heart.
    If I live long enough,
    all the components of my heart
    will be dog,
    and I will become as generous
    and loving as they are."
    If you are lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you must find the courage to live it.
    --John Irving

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    I love that! It's a sweet poem. I know it will take a lot of dogs to replace what Duke took from me.

    9/3/13
    I did the right thing by setting you free
    But the pain is very deep.
    If only I could turn back time, forever, you I'd keep.
    I miss you


    I hear you whimper in your sleep
    I gently pet you and say, no bad dreams
    It will be alright, to my dog as dark as night.

    Fur as dark as the night.
    Join me on this flight.
    Paws of love that follow me.
    In my heart you'll forever be.
    [/SIZE]



    How I wish I could hold you near.
    Turn back time to make it so.
    Hug you close and never let go.
    11/12/06




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    that was just a great tribute! happty Gotcha day!
    Maggie,

    I didn't slap you, I just high fived your Face!
    I've Been Boo'd!!

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    ((((((hugs)))))
    thanks for sharing your life's loves with us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glacier

    "and I will become as generous
    and loving as they are."
    Don't look now ...

    but you're pretty close to being there!

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    The poem is wonderful. This tribute is wonderful. Keep your spirits up, it sounds like Preacher did his job and did it well. He gave Franklin the strength to be a dog. What a gift to give a friend.
    The idea that some lives matter less is the root of all that is wrong with the world. - Dr. Paul Farmer

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cinder & Smoke
    Don't look now ...

    but you're pretty close to being there!
    Amen to that!

    LES
    {{Hugs}} to you.
    ~Angie, Sierra & Buddy
    **Don't breed or buy while shelter dogs die!**

    I suffer from multiple Shepherd syndrome



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    Happy Gotcha Day, Franklin, and keep on smiling and celebrating at the Bridge, Preacher.
    This is a beautiful tribute to two very lucky dogs. I love the poem.

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    What a beautiful tribute to two very special dogs. I love that poem too. You really should write a book about all of your dogs, their stories of getting them, etc.

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    Tamara, I'm glad you "celebrated" a very special day in your life. January 29 is a special day at my home, too. My daughter, Helen, turned 16 years old, yesterday, and Honey (Golden Retriever) celebrated her 8th "Gotcha Day" with us and Roger (Cockatiel) celebrated his 5th "Gotcha Day", too!!!!!!

    Much love to you all, especially Franklin, for carrying on, where Preacher left off.
    Logan

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolf_Q
    What a beautiful tribute to two very special dogs. I love that poem too. You really should write a book about all of your dogs, their stories of getting them, etc.
    please add me first on the list.......I would LOVE to have you and your crew memoirs........

    Lovely tribute, I´m so teary eyed right now...........

    Happy Gotcha day boys.........you were lucky to find such a loving home......

    Tamara, God blesses you every day for what you have done.......((HUGS))
    Corinna´s Christmas Card Swap ´06
    dedicated to a lovely woman who won many hearts along her life...........
    she will be deeply missed.......Thank you for letting us be a part of your life, you will surely remain in ours FOREVER........R.I.P. Dear Corinna

    Best Fireman in da House´10
    dedicated to the kindest,loveliest and always helpful dude that one would be honored and proud to know........R.I.P. Dear Phred



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