I love my kitty, but she's always hiding. I never see her. The only time she comes for any attention is when we go to bed and she jumps up there and gives us headbutts before she lays on our pillows.

I want a more lively kitty, more affectionate and wanting attention. What do I do? I've had her for 8 yrs, her whole 8 yrs. She's always been this way.

I gotta go fine that lazer toy she likes. Maybe that will get her out for a minute. She doesn't even care for kitty nip. She's very strange.