UPDATE...Grandbaby Jenna turned 2 today ....and I didn't even get to see her! :(

[kimlovescats]

My daughter is so mixed up and her life is such a mess ..... and I HATE her "husband". I am heartbroken because today was Jenna's 2nd birthday and I didn't even get to see her ... not even talk to her on the phone. My daughter didn't even call me.

It is a very long story, too long and painful to try and post right now, but my daughter really needs help and prayers. She is going down a one way street to destruction with this low-life guy who fathered her child. I have tried and tried to help her, and she keeps fighting me and continuing to choose the wrong path. Please pray for her to finally see the light before it is too late for Jenna. Poor Jenna is having bad nightmares, and she is suffering from what her "parents" are putting her through, and I don't have a "legal" leg to stand on. I called the police on her father the other day, and they told me that I can do nothing at this point. Now they are keeping her from me on her birthday. I can't bear this!!!!!!!



Jenna, your Grammy loves you with all of her heart, and I hope you had a Happy Birthday baby!!! I have your gifts whenever I get to see you again.


Kim

[Corinna]

kim I don't know what to say but Hugs to you and prayers. I can't even imagine that. I am away from home for 5 days and I (only the second) and miss my Charity girl. just hold on and be there when you have to pick up the pieces when they happen. Why is she having nightmares do you suspect abuse if so call your local department od socail services they have to keep you animous if youask them to. and they have to act on each complaint.

[jazzcat]

Kim I'm so sorry. I know it has to be breaking your heart. I wish I knew something to tell you that would help but I know all I can do is pray and I will. Hopefully your daughter will see the light and get off her destructive path for Jenna's sake.

Sending you lots of HUGS!

[krazyaboutkatz]

Kim, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope that things will work out and your daughter will see the light and get on the right path. I'll be keeping her in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS)))

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Aw no.... what a heartbreaking situation .....
Keeping your daughter and little Jenna in my prayers!!

[jenluckenbach]

Dear Kim, what a most difficult situation. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Happy birthday Jenna, your grandma LOVES you! And we will pray for you and your family.

[shais_mom]

I'm so sorry Kim.

[jenluckenbach]

There are photos of Jenna in dog general.....did you finally get to see her??

[catnapper]

Oh Kim, I know how much you must be dying inside! I know your daughter is being immature and trying everything in her power to hurt you -- and she knows denying access to Jenna is the ultimate hurt for you. Its her power struggle, and I'm sorry you're caught in the middle of it with poor Jenna as the victim. I truly hope your daughter wakes up soon and realizes you're not the enemy and that you'vbe always had her best interest at heart

[kimlovescats]

There are photos of Jenna in dog general.....did you finally get to see her??

Those are from last week, when I was keeping her.
My daughter did call me yesterday, and I will be seeing Jenna in the next day or so.

Turns out the birthday bash wasn't such a hit. My daughter and her *husband* took Jenna to Chuck E Cheese's by themselves. Apparently my daughter did step up and forbidded his family from coming along! Any way, before the end of the day, the husband got mad and left the restaurant without even saying goodbye to baby Jenna. SO TYPICAL!!!!

Amy Beth's cell phone had been cut off because she didn't pay the bill. She decided that she could either have her "social phone" turned back on or buy her daughter something for her birthday. She said she decided she didn't need her phone right now and bought Jenna some clothes! She said that she enjoyed that MUCH more than having her phone. This is a very small step, but I can't help but find a bit of encouragement from this act!

PLEASE keep my daughter and grandbaby in your PRAYERS!

Kim

[jenluckenbach]

I too think that was a GREAT step in the right direction, thinking of Jenna over the cell phone.
Wishing you a great visit with Jenna in the next day or so.

[Karen]

Jenna likely won't remember a year from now that you didn;t get to see her on her birthday, and you and she can have a nice brithday celebration whenever you do get to see her.

You, Jenna, and her parents are in our prayers. Would she ever consider giving up custody to you?

[pitc9]

Oh how sad!
I pray she sees the light and everything works out!