I've Had Enough.

[BC_MoM]

Everytime I try to help someone out, or give advice those who have it out for me on PT always take what I say NEGATIVELY and I am absolutely SICK of it. Mostly because of the humiliation because some people don't know how to PM another when they disagree with something.

I posted this in Kiki's thread to Kay..

Sounds like you're really stressed and snappy right now, Kay. Have you been sleeping? Probably not well, if you could manage.

Try taking a nap. Take a hot bath.. you need to give yourself a break. For the moment, you've done what you can. Take a break to relax, and start again after.

You and Kiki are still in my thoughts.

I was trying to offer advice.

Kfamr:

no im not stressed at all you do not need to call me names

i already explained myself as to why i could not give phred what he wanted to just leave it be, GEEZ

Kay, I was not even talking or referencing to Phred's posts. I did not call you a name. I know you're extremely stressed, so there is no need for that sarcastic smilie. I will forgive you.

caseysmom:

This is extremely rude!

Maybe in your twisted opinion. How was I RUDE? I was giving advice to a fellow PTer.

I'm almost ready to cry I'm so upset with some members on PT right now. Always singling me out and trying to turn what I say POSITIVELY AND ATTEMPTS AT BEING HELPFUL, to something completely negative, rude, and obnoxious.

Goodbye PT. I'll keep in touch with those of you who have been there for me.

[caseysmom]

I apologize, this whole thing with kiki is really stressing me out and your post got my ruffled my feathers. Reading it again I realize I may have taken it wrong I just feel really protective of Kay right now.

I have never had any dealings with you before that I can remember so I am no way out to get you.

[CagneyDog]

It's been a very stressful time at PT with slick's surgery, and kiki missing.I know that you had the best intentions in that post and you shouldn't take this personally. I hope you stick around.

[sasvermont]

Ok, Ok. Let's everyone settle down. Let's not forget that the focus is on Slick and Kay - and their problems. Not ours. Get over it and keep your eye(s) on ball i.e. a sick person and a lost doggie. Get over your issues and move on to the real problem here, please. Just say I am sorry, and help out here.

We all love each other and guess what, we are not perfect. Well, I am, but thats for another thread.

We want Slick to get better and for Kiki to COME HOME. ((((((((Slick))))))))) and (((((((((((Kay)))))))))))).

Right kids?

Love and support to you all,

SAS and her campers

[Pembroke_Corgi]

Ok, Ok. Let's everyone settle down. Let's not forget that the focus is on Slick and Kay - and their problems. Not ours.

I agree. I know you meant to be helpful, but imagine how stressed Kay must be feeling. I know we all feel saddened and worried about Kiara, but she is Kay's dog and were I in that situation, I don't think I would handle it half as well. You don't need to leave pet talk... it was a misunderstanding and causing more stress won't help the situation.

[Alysser]

Aww..Jess! Please don't leave PT, I didn't find your post rude in anyway, shape, or form but I guess that's just my opinion. Please PM me on occasion to let me know how you are and I have MSN. Your on my buddylist on MSN, so we could keep in contact. But please reconsider? PLEASE?

ETA: I agree with what was said, Kay and Slicks situation has alot of us on the edge and I think everyone is just really worried.

[mustlovedogs]

Ok, Ok. Let's everyone settle down. Let's not forget that the focus is on Slick and Kay - and their problems. Not ours. Get over it and keep your eye(s) on ball i.e. a sick person and a lost doggie. Get over your issues and move on to the real problem here, please. Just say I am sorry, and help out here.

We all love each other and guess what, we are not perfect. Well, I am, but thats for another thread.

We want Slick to get better and for Kiki to COME HOME. ((((((((Slick))))))))) and (((((((((((Kay)))))))))))).

Right kids?

Love and support to you all,

SAS and her campers

Very well said!
BC_MoM-
I am so sorry that some people are offending you lately...I really wish that there was some way I could help. But you're leaving PT? You can't!! We would miss you and pictures of the furbabies! Plus, you are such a nice person and we would hate to see you leave. There's alot of stress on PT right now, and alot of people are tired, busy, and stressed...but I'm sure no-one really took what you said the wrong way, I'm sure they're just really tired and busy right now. Please don't leave PT!

[JenBKR]

I agree with the others, I think everyone has really been on edge lately and oh so worried about Slick and Kay. Please don't take it personally. I think that Kay is so upset over Kiara right now that she can't see straight - that's how I'd be! ((((hugs))))

[Alysser]

Wow, now THAT is rude! Jessica, put her on your ignore list for now, until Karen can deal with it or keep her on there if you want. Just please don't leave! Your NOT ugly at all. Please don't leave!!

[sasvermont]

Just stop it! Do I have to reach in here and thwack someone with a blunt stick?

[cyber-sibes]

I hope you don't really leave PT, I enjoy your posts.
Try not to take it personally, just chalk it up to misinterpretation.

I've also noticed that sometimes people are just plain rude to each other on threads, and that's unfortunate. None of us likes it when people take something we mean as constructive and say something rude back. We're all just offering our opinions.
The decision is yours, just wanted to say that I didn't find your post offensive.

[sasvermont]

I am at work and have to drive home. I don't want to get back on line later tonight and see that "we" have beat each other to a pulp over this problem, now do I?

Be good. And spend your energy more wisely.

MOM

[Miss Z]

Gosh, Jess, I'm sorry such things have been happening to you. I hope that somehow everything works out. We're always here for you. PM me anytime if you want to talk

[Husky_mom]

just my opinion........

lately, way before Slick, Catnapper and Kay.........i´ve been seeing a lot of Pters bashing others, getting defensive at what might someone said, maybe it was just not written the right way, as I think we all are here to help each other and as a family, I think we are, we also get angry at some or even give a not-so-nice comeback.........but lately its been more evidently.......and some Pters more than others (I´m not calling names, nor here nor anywhere).

I think we should all chill out and try fix our/your differences in a nice way.....what good comes for calling you this and then you calling me that?? NOTHING!!......let´s take a deep breath and it if stills bothers you just ignore that person........or as my motto......let it pass by and don´t give importance to something that don´t deserves it.........live happy why get frustrated and angry??.........(not saying this to a specific person. for the record)

some thing said, either because hard feelings or age difference may sound harsh, but let´s try play nice.........

if you feel you must go, its your choice, if you want to stay, stay, I love seeing your pups, but whether you decide to stay or not is up to you.......

[sammy101]

Jess, i'm so sorry this is happening to you! I love seeing your furkids and i hope you stick around!