New job offer.

[Kfamr]

The vet that my brother takes his cats to and does computer work for is really interested in hiring me. I guess my brother talked to him about me the other day while he was doing work for him.

A part of me REALLY wants to take the job, another part of me is beyond nervous, scared, and unsure.

I'm nervous and scared because I will be working with people I don't know. I knew everyone at my current job before even applying. But at the same time I'll be working with animals and what could be better than that?


I hate how I'm unable to make job decisions. I've wanted a job change for quite a while just haven't been able to do it. I even have applications with different vets completely filled out that I've been too chicken to hand in.

The other day my boss told me jokingly that I couldn't quit. Which a part of me feels that way. My co-workers there are like family.


-sigh- I'm just really scared.

[Cookiebaker]

Oh Kay, what a great opportunity! I know exactly how scary it can be, I've been there too! But just think that after just a few days, your new co-workers will seem like a new family.

But watch out -- Simba, Nala, and Kiara might get a wee jealous that you smell like other doggies!!

[Karen]

Be brave, Kay! If you've already been thinking about a change, this sounds like a perfect opportunity! If he's alrady interested, I say Go for it! It is working with animals, and that's something you know you enjoy.

The job you're working at now is a fine "first job," but they really don't expect someone your age to stay long-term, despite what your boss said to you. Do plan to give two weeks notice, to be polite, and I bet if you do get the vet office job, everyone will wish you well.

[Kfamr]

The job you're working at now is a fine "first job," but they really don't expect someone your age to stay long-term, despite what your boss said to you. Do plan to give two weeks notice, to be polite, and I bet if you do get the vet office job, everyone will wish you well.

Yep.. I even have a 2-week notice note written out (because I'm horrible at telling people that type of stuff face-to-face.)

Everyone that I talked to at work told me to go for it. They always ask my WHY I'm still there as they know I should be doing something with animals. But, STILL. I'm crying now thinking of it. I can't stand some of the people there but at the same time I love it.

I KNOW at the second I'd walk back into that place I'd have my same job back if I wanted. There's no doubt my boss would take me back with the vet's office didn't work out.


I have a long, long e-mail written out to Sal (vet) but haven't pressed sent yet. Another thing I'm worried about is how much I'll be making. I can't take a pay cut.. no way, no how. Especially now that I'm trying to feed the dogs raw.


-sigh- Why do things have to be so silly... or is it just me?



(Hey, don't answer that!)

[luvofallhorses]

I'd go for it if that's what you really want to be doing. Just be yourself.. everything will be okay.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

I'd say go for it. You can't stay at your current job for the rest of your life, you love animals, and you'd get to meet some new people who, in time, you'll probably enjoy being almost as much as you do the people at your current job. Everyone needs a change at some point in their life and this job at the vet's office sounds like it would be wonderful for you, Kay. The Vet should tell you how much you'll be making before you actually give him an official answer (or do you already know how much?), and if it's not enough, stick with your job right now and send in the applications that you've already filled out. I'm sure if you take the job working for the Vet, you'll absolutely love it if it meets your requirements as far as amount of pay goes. I don't really know what else to say, but good luck and I hope you're able to make a decision. I know how hard it can be to make changes

[BOBS DAD]

What for??? Scared of what? Break it down to the simplist terms. What are the pros and cons of both and think of the excitement and enthusiasm a new job offers.

I only speak from experience - bad experience. I too used to be so paralyzed by the thought of leaving my comfort zone. Fear of the unknown. Easier to just leave things status quo.

But wait... let's just look at the other side of the coin. The "things will go great" side. Isn't funny how we stress over "all the things that could go wrong" and we rarely ever consider the more likely scenario that things will be just wonderful. REALLY... what is there to fear but fear itself.

You like animals - there will definitely be lots of animals there! The other people working there likely like animals too - so you have something in common with them. The people who visit vets "like animals". And they usualy develop a positive warm relationship with the vet and his staff (you), so you will be welll received by clients. [If they don't like the service, they go somewhere else - so you only really see people who like you].

Now what about your current job? What do you make there? Do you make so much (6 figures+) that you couldn't possibly consider leaving. Is there no other place like it - so if things don't work out with the vet, could you maybe go back to another company "like" the one you're at now. YES. YES. and probably YES. YES is usually the answer! We always think NO, but really, isn't the answer usually YES. We can always pick up the pieces and start over!!!

Do what you think would be cool and fun. It will work out. And if it doesn't - something else will!!!

[BC_MoM]

Kay,

I'm the same way about changes.. especially when it's a change in surrounding. Once I'm comfortable in an environment, with people in that environment, and the routine, I feel like I can't leave. It's really weird!

But after a while, we all adjust and the vet's office may even feel like your current job now! Maybe it won't ever feel the same, but you'll become comfortable and adjusted to it the same way!

[jazzcat]

It sounds like a great opportunity Kay. Go for it! I'm like you - change like that scares the pee out of me but usually well worth it.

[slleipnir]

Do it. You will never get over the fear if you don't. Not only will you feel amazing that you overcame your fear, but you'll be less nervous the next job you want. The nervousness doesn't last. Trust me, I was so scared when i came to the farm, and I just love it now. I'll be more likely to do this again sometime. Goodluck. I hope you go for it. I know you'll kick yourself later if you don't!

[Edwina's Secretary]

Why don't you see if you can work out a deal with your current boss? Continue to work there, part-time and accept the other job. If the other job doesn't work out...increase your hours and you have your old job back!

You may find you like working two jobs...or at least the money...for a while.

[Alysser]

That sounds like an awesome job. I would certainly take it. You can meet new people and new friends and you get to work with animals. That's my dream job. Good luck in making your choice and getting that job!

[catnapper]

Oh my! There's no queston what to do! Sounds like you've got yourself a wonderful new job

Change is scary, but also wonderful. Take a deep breath, then plunge into the unknown. You never know where life takes you, but you also never know what pleasures you'll miss if you don't take new roads once in a while.

[lute]

i'd take this job if it were offered to me! just imagin all the stuff you'll learn! good luck on whatever you do!

[caseysmom]

I am sure your current boss couldn't fault you for wanting to work with animals and if it doesn't work out they would gladly take you back. I say go for it.