~Life Lessons~

[Jadapit]

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.

I've learned that some members of your family may not always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life are sometimes taken from you too soon.

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

[luvofallhorses]

that was a great post! Thanks for sharing!

[K9soul]

Beautiful.. Thank you Donna.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

What a beautiful text!! Gives us all something to think about; there is so much truth in it!!

[.sarah]

How true. Thanks for posting.

[chocolatepuppy]

All of those are so true. Thanks for sharing.

[moosmom]

I've learned that some members of your family may not always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological

AMEN TO THAT!!!!! Great post, Jadapit!! Thanks for sharing.

[anna_66]

Donna I really liked that. Thanks for posting it

[Cataholic]

That was fantastic!

[lv4dogs]

Thanks for sharing Donna, that's just beautiful!

[K9soul]

I've saved these and have been reading over the past few days often. I think you posted these at a time when I really needed to see them. I find them a comfort and that they really give me perspective when things are so difficult and uncertain.

I would add to them, for myself:

I have learned that giving is more rewarding than receiving, and the more I give of myself, the more I feel I have the strength to deal with my own hardship.

Sometimes this is something I have to re-learn every so often.