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    this can't be happening :(:(:(*UPDATE*

    my mom told my dad it's over and she was looking up divorce forms online they have been bickering a little bit and slept in seperate places last night..I had no idea it would come to this you might be thinking I am over-reacting but I am not at all this is the first time she has ever announced this..
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    Oh Krista, I'm so sorry to hear this. I don't think you're over reacting at all. People splitting up is always terrible! Maybe there's still some hope. Sometimes people work things out. I'll keep you in my thoughts, hope and pray they can work things out. {hugs}

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    Are you sure they are not just having a fight? Maybe they need a break from eachother for awhile?

    My parents are divorced, If you ever need to talk free free to pm me

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    Oh Krista I'm sorry.
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    I am sorry you are going through this. One thing you should know is, no matter how they feel about each other, they still love you! They may forget to say that for a while. You should remind them that you love them, too.

    I don't know what's in their hearts, only they do. But we will here or you, whatever happens, okay?

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    I don't know what's in their hearts, only they do. But we will here or you, whatever happens, okay?
    thanks you guys are great it's just I am really upset right now
    Krista : Buster : Coonhound : Rudy : Airedale Terrier x : Dixie : Schnauzer/Terrier X : Miagi : Tabby : Tiger : Tabby/Bengal X : Angel : Russian Blue X

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    I'm sorry you have to deal with that! Maybe your mom is just really mad about something and is just trying to scare him. I hope that's just it...We're all here for you if you need us...you can PM or email me too!

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    i'm so sorry! this is a terrible thing to go through. i've been through 2 of them with my mother. i hope it all works out. whatever the problem is between your parents IT"S NOT YOUR FAULT! i went 2 years thinking my parent's divorce was my fault. (((HUGS)))
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    Whatever happens remember this....THEY WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU! Sometimes couples just need some time away from each other to figure things out..and please (as Lute says) don't fall into the trap of blaming yourself. If they do get a divorce, it's not your fault.

    Do you have anyone close to you that you can talk to? A close friend or relative perhaps? You say this is the first time she's ever announced it. Have they been bickering for a while?

    {{{HUGS}}} sweetie and please keep us posted.
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    I'm so sorry!!!

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    Oh, I'm so sorry!
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    update

    I asked my mom when I was in the van before she dropped me off for school if my dad and her are getting along better now and she said yes thank god I don't have to worry anymore! thanks so much everyone for your support and hugs
    Krista : Buster : Coonhound : Rudy : Airedale Terrier x : Dixie : Schnauzer/Terrier X : Miagi : Tabby : Tiger : Tabby/Bengal X : Angel : Russian Blue X

    Rocky, Jenny, & Ginger.. forever loved & always in my heart..

    I have been frosted!

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    Oh what wonderful news!

    I think most of us can say we've all had close calls like yours and it sure is wonderful when parents can works things out. Yay!
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    Re: update

    Originally posted by luvofallhorses
    I asked my mom when I was in the van before she dropped me off for school if my dad and her are getting along better now and she said yes thank god I don't have to worry anymore! thanks so much everyone for your support and hugs
    I'm glad to hear this. But, please let your mother know how much this has affected you. Ask her not to make such threats (whether she means them or not) while you can hear her. She might not realize that what she says is upsetting you.
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