You have our sympathies. Do tell them you need Tuesday as well as Wednesday off, if you can work a partial shift Monday, that would be it until Friday. Do you have any church friends or people you can ask to help with the cleaning and stuff, maybe if there is a pastor or priest who is going to officiate the funeral, he can recommend somewhere for you husband to go to buy a suit and a couple ties for the two days. I am sure they, and funeral home directors, have bucketloads of experience with that sort of thing. And have any of the kids ever helped with the collage project? That is something even a 9 3/4 months pregnant person could do, cutting out photos and helping, and learning the process for the future.

You will be in our prayers.