Hubby doesn't want me to have Runner AND the bunny. hubby keeps saying he's going to take her to the pound(the bunny). I keep telling him.. NO you're not. I'm keeping her. !!!
He says.. but you promised you would get rid of her when you got the dog.
I said... no.. YOU said I could have BOTH.
He said.. I didn't say that. I said.. yes you did.
I told him. I love her, and I want to keep her. AND the dog.
Does he have any right to make me give up my animals? If I'M the one taking care of them. I mean... sure.. I don't bring the money home. But I take care of our daughter and the house and MY animals. Yes MY animals. He is not an animal person as you can tell. grrr
So I WILL be getting her fixed soon. But I think I will sneak the money out of our bank so he won't see the bill on our statement
Shop around for the cheapest stuff. I already know that american pet diner has GREAT hay 10 pounds for cheap that lasts a LONG time and STAYs fresh. I need to find my tractor supply for litter. I've been using carefresh or yesturdays news. And move her to a different location of the house. Maybe my craft room or something. I'm always in there.
Right now she's in the kitchen. But I think he's getting annoyed with her in there.
I'm trying the best I can to keep her.
What do YOU do when your spouse does this? Tries to make you give up your loved pet?
So you see. I'm becoming stronger. Standing up to him. Not letting him control me anymore.
We just talked after him reading my letter.
he's letting me keep her because I explained how cheap it is to have her, and I have to move her out of the kitchen. Because he wants to get a dining room set.
He's letting me get the tat too, because I explained that they are small and next to my other one. He thought I was going to get something drastic.
He only doesnt want me wearing camis in public functions.
So we are better for now. We have counseling tomorrow