bad, BAD, foster mommy. :(

You may not know this, but foster Ming is STILL living under my sofa. It is a high legged piece of furniture, so I have easy access to petting her and do so daily. But it was not until this morning (she has been here 3 1/2 weeks) that I realized that she must not be coming out from under the sofa at ALL. :eek:

I, like a good foster mom, placed a litter box right next to the sofa when she accidentally went on the floor under the sofa..........I, like a good mom, placed food under there where she could reach it easily............but I, like a complete and total idiot never for one minute thought she was not coming out to drink. :(

This morning when I pet her, I realized that she felt dehydrated. After panic, I placed a water bowl under the sofa and she drank like crazy. OMG! How could I have been so stupid?

I am taking her in to the vet at 4:45 today for possibly fluids, a check up and maybe some blood work to rule out any illness. But I am certain it will all lead back to me and my not thinking.

I am so sorry. :(

Jen,

Don't blame yourself! You've got alot going on with all your other cats as well. I never would've thought about it either. I would've figured that she was coming out at night when it was quiet to eat and drink. It's not your fault!

Let us know how she does at the vet.

(((((hugs)))))))

Donna

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You've got alot going on with all your other cats as well

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People might say "too much" perhaps. :(

You aren't a bad Foster Mommy. You tried to keep everything on hand for her and you would think she would venture out at some point. Poor little Tyke! I don't know what you were feeding her, but if it is moist food there is some water content in that. Please let us know how the vet visit goes.

I would have assumed she would be coming out at night too. Maybe she was and had just stopped recently for some reason. With all your cats I know you are an excellent Meowmie and I know all will go well at the vets.. Let us know. Debbie

Poor wee thing! She must be seriously nervous not to even be coming out at night! Good luck at the vet. If anyone can persuade the little sweetie to accept human company, I'm sure you can! :)

I agree with others. It is hard to imagine a cat not even coming out to drink! She could not possible have gone over three weeks without water. Poor Ming...poor you....

I'M AT LOSS?? I'VE NEVER HAD A FOSTER THAT DIDN'T SNEAK OUT AT NIGHT... HOW COULD YOU HAVE KNOWN? I WOULD FEEL GUILTY TOO...BUT AT LEAST YOU CAUGHT IT:D NOW SHE'S FINE!!
DID I MISS A THREAD ABOUT HER? WHERE'S SHE FROM? WHY'S SHE TO SCARED TO LEAVE THE COUCH?

WHEN DAISY CAME AS A FOSTER SHE HID/LIVED IN MY CLOSET FOR 4 MONTHS!! SHE PROVED WAY TO NUEROTIC TO REHOME, SO CONSEQUENTLY, SHE LIVES HERE
:D :D :D
BUT EVEN SHE MUST HAVE COME OUT OCCSIONALLY FOR NOURISHMENT... BECAUSE, I'D SEE HER DARTING AROUND. SHE STILL DOES EVEN THOUGH SHE'S BEEN HERE A YEAR...

PLEASE KEEP US POSTED ON THE DREADED 'VET VISIT'

JEN,YOU MUST HAVE ASSUMED,AS MOST PEOPL WOULD,TAHT A CAT,IF SHE WAS THIRSTY,WOULD NOT BE SO AFRAID,AS TO DENY HERSELF,SOME WATER,THIRST,IS ONE,OF OUR MOST BASIC DRIVES.POOR KITTY,WE HOPE,THAT SHE IS ALL RIGHT.

Jen,

I know its hard, but try not to be so hard on yourself. How were you to know she wasn't coming out at night....most do!!

You're doing the right thing, that's all that matters.

Hugs,
Kelly

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I agree with others. It is hard to imagine a cat not even coming out to drink! She could not possible have gone over three weeks without water. Poor Ming...poor you....

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I agree. Jen, please don't feel bad. She must have come out once in a while. I mean, even lions and zebras will drink from the same watering hole when they are very thirsty. She was must so terrified if she hasn't been venturing out. Poor baby. If anyone can teach her about love, it's you! :D

Jen, really, must I come and slap you on the back of the head? How could this be your fault? I too would have gone on the assumption that she would come out for food, water, a good stretch at some point during the day. Never would it occur to me that she exclusively sought refuse under the couch and never ventured out.

Now repeat after me: How could I have known? I am NOT a bad foster mom! I am a GOOD foster mom! If I don't stop kicking myself, catnapper will come up here and kick me for real! ;)

{{{HUGS}}} Jen. It was one of those things where you had no way of knowing. She didn't do this the last time you had her, so why would you think that she would do it this time?

Ming is FINE! Not dehydrated. She has not lost weight. Teeth, ears, heart, etc, very good. Confirms that she is under 3 years old. Nothing (except an excess of shedding). The VET combed hor for me. :o ME!! The pet groomer. :o :o (LOL)

So, as long as her food and water and litter are close enough, she will be fine.

She is not really afraid of people. Shy, yes, but not really scared. Actually, Pumpkin, another foster cat, chases her. BAD Pumpkin!

But the promissing news is that she will be having a visitor tomorrow. Someone who might adopt her. :D

Well, at least now we KNOW that she is fine. (and it only cost me $25.60) ;)

That's great to hear her vet visit went so well! :)

Glad to hear all is well. So she MUST have been coming out at night. See??? You worry too much. But don't feel bad, I'd have done the same thing.

Kim is right, MUST we come and slap you upside the head???? ;)

The Found Cats,and I know waht A Fine Purrson,you are Jen,thats why,you are Our Hero.And we will add Ming,to Our Prayers,that she can find a Furr Ever Home,where she will truly feel,at Home!

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All worked up and worried over nothing! :rolleyes: :eek: I'm glad that Ming is fine, and not dehydrated as you thought. ;) Hope her new (possible home will treat her a whole lot more like a queen than the last ja&%$sses! Now repeat after me...I'm a VERY good foster meowmie because I cared enough to whip Ming's little butt off to the White Coats, and spend money to ease my mind.;) :p

Great news, Jen! :)

Can't wait to see how her visit goes tomorrow. :)

I'M SO HAPPY FOR MING BEING HEALTHY:D :D

AND CONGRATS FOR THE UNDER $30 VET VISIT!!;)

BEST OF LUCK TO MING TOMORROW!!

I'm late as usual these days!
Thank goodness Ming is ok. Poor little thing must really be shy to stay under the couch for this long. Even though three and half weeks seems like forever it hasn't really been that long. I'm sure she will come around. Lord know's her last experience wasn't a good one so she is going to have to learn to trust all over again. Bless her heart.

Now....SHAME ON YOU for even letting the "bad foster mom" thought cross your mind! PULEEEEASE!!! We all know better than that! Who cares if some people think you have too much to handle? You do a fantastic job of taking care of each and every one of your kitties. They have a wonderful life and a wonderful foster mom! If I come hide under your couch will you take such good care of me????;) :D

So glad that all is well with Ming. She must have been sneaking out for water. We are always to hard on ourselves. You are a good Mommy, remember that!