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This it probably the stupidest thread I have ever started!
Well, there was the one about the...Anyway......
Have you ever made eye contact with a stranger in public and had a 10 second love affair???
You lock eyes for a moment, pass each other and never see that person again.....But, those few seconds seem like a whole lifetime???
No talking, winking or anything. Just eye contact!
I am curious about this, It happens every so often and I wondered if it happens to anyone else.....
Boss away again today Richard? ;) :D
Let's see 10 sec love affair. Hmm, I'll have to think on that one. Don't think so. I've looked and lusted but the feeling was not mutual.
I hope my husband never sees this but honestly.....yes!
He'll even tell you it's ok to flirt, it's where you take it....to the next level, etc. that gets people into trouble!
Talk about quickies! I voted yes.
To be honest I think everyone has done this if they would just admit it....!!! LoL
Do dogs count?
If so I would be guilty of that a million times over LOLQuote:
Originally posted by Kfamr
Do dogs count?
You know actually, on a serious/sort of off-topic note :p, I light up whenever I see a dog, but there have been some that when our eyes met, there was something even more there, a deep soulful connection, and I feel almost like I know them or have known them in another life..Quote:
Originally posted by Kfamr
Do dogs count?
Your post made me think of that :)
Yeah, I ended up Marrying him!!! *oops...* LOL :D
First time I even saw my husband, I was at Dennys at this
B-o-r-i-n-g meeting and about to fall asleep and for some reason I looked at him and he looked at me and I was well...
Hooked :D
Funny thing, he is my Ex's adopted brother...
And if you're counting critters...
I do that with cats and rats, even some reptiles (explain THAT I dare you!)
I was being serious too. :p
I always say "Hey.. look at that pup!"
If my dogs ever knew I was looking at other dogs I think they'd pack up their milkbones and leave.
LOL Richard, interesting question! I voted yes as well! ;) :o
I avoid eye contact if at all possible.
No!!! I don't go around staring at people on the streets. If I *ever* come in eye contact with some strange guy...just because we were passing by and happened to see each other, I usually look away. I can't stand having eye contact with any strange person, and I avoid it as much as possible.
What in the world was your purpose of this thread anyway? :p He he he
If you're talking about animals though....then yes, I have. With the neighborhood cats. :p
Yup, happened to me a time or two, but I've been hitched (well legally speaking 15 to be on 10/31 :D ) but shacked up for quite a few years beforehand! The eye contact has happened, but danged if I remember where? Geesh! Kitty litter dust has a way of clogging the brain cells! :rolleyes: No doubt some seedy barroom! :D And no...I don't frequent them FYI! :rolleyes: ;)
YES! lol
Guess what I voted? Haa the last one:p
He he he Richard - look at the poll results - they say it all!!!!
Lynne
It's funny you asked. My husband and I were just talking about that. We were talking about how sometimes when you see someone that takes your breath away, when you first make eye contact, you literally flinch and take a step back. For a moment it is like the world stops. And then you come to your senses "Oh yeah, I am married." And then the world starts moving again and you are on your way. lol.
I have to add something...
Is it different for men then women? Like in talking to my husband and his friends, for them, it seemed like they were always beautiful women. For me, it was normally a guy who was talking to his dog, laughing out loud or smiling real big, or a young father with his child...
I would like to hear people's actual stories, on what caught their eye.
Yes...and I have found it to be quite...exhilerating.:D
hey tonya, theres your next new thread!
This probably doesn't count but it's along the same lines.
Picture it, Vancouver, 1980. My BF and I had been living together for about 3 years and we were really in love. I'm working for an Ad Agency doing the monthly billing. I have a program error so I call the programmer. It requires that he come into the office.
When he arrives, we lock eyes and my legs immediately turn to jelly. The sparks fly. While he is fixing the problem there is some major eye contact going on. Later he shakes my hand and leaves. I'm shaking all over. I want this guy.
He calls me the next week to chat and we "date" for about 3 weeks at which time he gives me 3 carnations to celebrate. But all is not well. I'm lying to my BF and my conscience can't take it anymore. Thank God we were not "intimate". "Wayne" wanted me to leave "Al" but I just couldn't. I chose Al and when I told Wayne he was heartbroken.
Al and I broke up permanently 7 years later. Now I wonder what would have happened if I'd made the other choice. I wish I could see Wayne again just to apologize.
I had to vote yes too!
Willie:D
I think it's called un coup de foudre by the French, which translates loosely to 'struck by lightning' :)
I've had it happen a few times; it's funny to know that something major has happened but not to understand what it really is. The last time I nearly ran a poor man over as we were staring at each other, except I was in a car and he was crossing the street. Don't know how I'd have explained that to the insurance company ... um, yeah, perving at hot mod cowboy man in nice jeans and hit him :o
LOL!!! The makings of a new email list of "actual insurance claims!"Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Meow
Don't know how I'd have explained that to the insurance company ... um, yeah, perving at hot mod cowboy man in nice jeans and hit him :o
Leave it to RICHARD to ask such a thing! I'v never even known a 10 second affair could exist! Especially not in my area... everyone looks away instead of eye-contact... goodness, I just might smile and say hi! Gasp! They'd think it was a novel concept: friendliness!
hehe...oops!Quote:
Originally posted by Lillycat
hey tonya, theres your next new thread!
When I first read this thread, I knew it'd happened to me lately, but I couldn't remember where. I just remembered.
Last week, I was at a stop light, and the guy in front of me was looking at me through his side mirror. I caught him and we locked eyes for a second. I got uncomfortable and looked away. But I couldn't help it, our eyes kept making contact. I swear it felt like an eternity for the light to turn green. I felt like such a dork for getting all bothered over a guy at the stop light. lol.
lololol...Quote:
Originally posted by catnapper
Leave it to RICHARD to ask such a thing! I'v never even known a 10 second affair could exist!
Think of all the seconds in a day!!!
It was just an observation.
I'm an amatuer psychologist-emphasis on the "psycho"-I like to talk to people and sometimes having a little fling like that makes your day.
Cowboys can take abuse.
:cool:
A ten second affair? Be sure to not blink...........:D
I have to share something that happened a long time ago.
I was in an underground parking lot at a store. Richard, it was May Company at Wilshire and Fairfax...........
I was leaving the parking lot when a guy in another car made eye contact with me. Because he wasn't looking where he was going, I slowed down, not sure whether he was going to stop or not....because he was staring at me.
He drove right into one of the pillars in the parking lot.
I had to get out of there because I was laughing so hard!
So, see, you have to keep these affairs at ten seconds or less because otherwise you bump into things.:D
My stories??
I made eye contact with a gal that works in the bank up the street...our '10 second affair' happens twice a month on payday.
It's an ongoing thing.
When I have spoken to her, the SEXIEST THING SHE has ever said to me is......"Good Morning" and "Would you like large bills??"
It's a stupid little school boy crush and we both know it's going on-but that's as far as it will ever go.
But, it's kinda nice knowing that should we ever take that next step she'll never ask me how much money I make in my job....
She has access to my accounts!!!
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I was at a car dealership where they had some race vehicles on display.
I was looking at a car when I felt uneasy. I looked about and spied a woman in a Toyota racing/fire suit staring...
She was a 'model', hired to sell the new line of trucks- I walked over to her and we chatted for about 30 minutes....
It was fun, it was like we had known each other for ages......There was a chemistry there and when ever I need some reaffirmation I look at the poster she signed for me-
"I love you- Leslie!!! *heart*!! (NOT THE WAY she signed the posters for everyone else!)
And wonder what would have happened if I wasn't such a lummox.
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I once made a gal crash into the file cabinet at work....THAT was funny....
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Quote:
Originally posted by gini
He drove right into one of the pillars in the parking lot.
I had to get out of there because I was laughing so hard!
Gini,
LOLOL, You left a guy with a broken heart, a bent fender and the deductible......
I guess that makes you a 'car wrecker'....
:D
Yes, yes, yes! I love when that happens. :) Talk about adrenaline! :)
It's Payday Friday!!
How do I look???
:D
Stunning, as usual. :D
I voted for "no". :)
As good as always Mr. Stud Muffin. Love what you've done to your hair. :)
Payday for me too but that doesn't seem to make a difference.
Richard, when she gives you those "big" bills..........be sure to count them!:D :D
Stud muffin...........Slick..........what has gotten into you?
It must be the ocean view.
:D :D Is it getting hot in here or is it just me??Quote:
Originally posted by gini
It must be the ocean view.
That's the time to strike, when they are 'stunned'!!!!Quote:
Originally posted by PJ's Mom
Stunning, as usual. :D
:D
Slick,
I have to wait two weeks, she wasn't working,:(
Gini,
Duh.....one, two.......TWO!!!
TWO!!!!!
:D
richard, stand up straight, hold your shoulders slightly back , smile and ask her out for a cup of coffee after work.:D
Who knows - you never post photos! ;)Quote:
Originally posted by RICHARD
It's Payday Friday!!
How do I look???
:D
My 1o-second affair was also a car story.
Sitting waiting at a red signal, guy in a BMW grins at me, I grin back -~but VERY intense - then the light changes, and we both floor it. I was driving my Golf VR6, he was in a silver beemer - I kicked his butt! ;)
So...................................in two weeks time you're going to walk into the bank and ask this very nice young lady is she'd like to have a coffee after work (just as joycnealex suggested). YOU CAN DO THIS!! After all (lets look on the dark side!) she may already be spoken for - you just have to find out! Stop this shilly-shallying and get yourself organised! (End of English lecture! sorry!)Quote:
Originally posted by RICHARD
Slick, I have to wait two weeks, she wasn't working,:(
Gini,
Duh.....one, two.......TWO!!!
TWO!!!!!
:D
My story - years and years ago, when I was young!! I was stood in a theatre bar during the interval - I was with a gir friend and we were having a little tipple(!) - as you do. When I caught the eye (quite a good throw I thought!) of a guy standing half way across the room - WOW - that was it - I couldn't move, breathe, talk or drink.
We both simply stared - I got very red and embarrased and turned away - for about 5 seconds, I had to look back - he was still looking and then he smiled - oh my God - that was it - my legs started shaking. I couldn't move - he tipped his glass towards me - you know in a 'cheers' sort of way - but how sexy was that!!
By this time my friend was convinced I was ill and kept saying 'Do you want to sit down' - all I could do was shake my head at her - then switch back to THOSE EYES.
Then the bell went for the play to re-start - we both carried on gazing until my friend and his friends dragged us off - damn it why didn't I have the courage to walk over and say 'Hello' - would it have harmed anyone - NO. Have I often thought about it - YES!
So Richard - take heed, stop wasting time and please talk to her next pay day.
Lynne