Sorry to hear about Sassy!
Well, as long as Sassy is going to a good forever home, I am happy. She may end up back in the loop if things don't work out, so don't totally discount her.
By the way, double digit cat owners are many, I do believe. When I was visiting the breeder this past weekend, Dave the male half of the duo, mentioned being at the Vet's with the kittens and how confusing the records must be for the Vet's office, since they bring in so many cats for exams etc. and the Vet's office mentioned that even though they were breeders (small time) and had quite a few cats - that some folks had as many as twenty eight pet cats....and that was confusing. I just giggled knowing how many cats some of you guys have in your household. I don't know how you keep peace with that many. Maybe it is magic! I can't imagine the Vet bills either. I give you guys lots of credit! Bless your hearts!
SAS