My best friend lost her husband today.

A widow at age 20, with a 1 1/2 year old daughter, my best friend is now on her own. Her husband died early this morning in a car crash, he hit head on with someone else and was pronounced dead on the scene. My friend was a stay at home mom, he worked. She has no idea were to go from here. She is an excellent person, a loving mother, a loyal wife. She had been through so much through her life and she had finally found her happily ever after. I was so grateful to him for giving her the happiness she so desired and deserved. And now he's gone, and she's hurting, and because she's hurting I'm hurting. We live over 4 hours from each other so I can't be with her, but I wish I could. I wish I could ease her pain somehow but I know I can't. Her young daughter is without a father. It feels like I'm emotionally connected to her and I can't imagine being happy when she's so upset. :(

Oh my goodness. I am SO sorry. That is such a tragic and horrible thing. Is there any way you could go visit her for a day or two? I'm sure she'd really like that. If not, you can be there for her in many other ways.

I wish the best for this young lady and her little girl.

I wish I could be there with her. But I have no way to get to where she lives.

My heart goes out to her. Life isn't fair, to take someone so young.

Tell her she will be in our prayers, okay?

{{{hugs}}} How devastated she must be...I hope in time that she will help her daughter learn about her dad.

Prayers her way.

So very sorry. It doesn't seem possible at that young age that they can be gone so quickly. I do hope you can go visit your friend, somehow.

How awful.:( I'm so sorry for your friend and her little girl.

How tragic. Prayers are going up for your friend and her daughter and for you, too. :love:

Please let her know how many people feel her pain and are sending prayers and love. There is no "happily ever after" only life, one step and a time, one lesson at a time. Knowing that she has a friend like you who loves her will be a consolation. My heart is with you both. :love:

Cathy

How heartbreaking:(
She'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

This is so sad! ((((HUGS)))) for you and your friend.

I know how heartbreaking it is to lose your loved one - your friend and her daughter has my deepest sympathy. :( I hope you can somehow get to visit her, or at least talk over the phone. I'm sure she needs that.

(((hugs to you)))

Oh my goodness. I am so sorry for your friend, the baby and her family.

Oh my.... how terribly sad. I don't even know what to say. All I can say is that she and her family will most definetly be in my prayers.:(:(

OH I'm so very very sorry for your friend :( I just cannot imagine the pain she is in right now. Many many prayers for her and her little girl

This is so tragic. Losing such a young person is just heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are going out for his wife, his little girl, and you too, sweetie. I'm so sorry you can't be with her.:(

I,too, am so sorry for what happened. I'm also sorry you can't be there for her at this time in her life when she needs you, but know that we will pray for your friend and her family during this time..again I'm so sorry:love:

Perhaps in the near future she will be able to come and visit you...even on the Greyhound. She might need a break by then.

{{{{hugs}}}} to her, and to you.:love:

I talked to her today. His parents live close to me and so I will be able to go to his funeral. I'm not sure when it is going to be yet. She keeps telling me that she keeps hoping it's just some kind of joke and that he'll walk in the door again.

So very tragic. :( :( Many prayers for her and the family.