Just wanted to get your opinion on this question.This could also
include women.( Most attractive trait in a woman)
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Just wanted to get your opinion on this question.This could also
include women.( Most attractive trait in a woman)
For me, it's a sense of humor. I love to laugh and have a good time, and I love a man with a sense of humor similar to mine. :)
Love for animals is #1 for me. I'm lucky enough if I can find someone who will tolerate me talking about my dogs from time to time. What won me over with the guy I'm currently seeing was seeing him get down to his dogs' height (Chihuahuas! :eek: ) and baby talk them! It was TOO cute! It really takes an animal lover to understand one. :)
In my case it was my hubby's sense of humour that "caught" me ;) :)
humbleness ;)
Hmm....well I never just need ONE attractive trait ;) A man has to love animals...and very nice... and have a sense of humor!^^
he he he :D
A sense of humor and confidence. When times get tough and I'm on the edge, Bobcat can usually crack and joke to calm me down and make me see that it's not the end of the world. And confidence ~ confidence in himself and "us" that we can make it through anything without blaming the other.
hmm, now for some reason I'm thinking that was an evil laugh...... :pQuote:
Originally Posted by MajesticCollies
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Originally Posted by MajesticCollies
Is that your sense of humor showing? :D
I saw this question used in another poll this week and wanted to see if
PT people came up with the same one trait (in men & women) that was found in the poll.
For me - has to look good - Funny - Love for birds.
Kindness combined with a sense of humour are a must.
I don't know if it's necessarily one character trait, but more of an over-arching way of being, if that makes sense. I like Eric because he's a good person- kind to other people and animals. Plus, I value his intelligence and his sense of humor!
ETA: In one of my psch classes we discussed how the top 3 three qualities women value in men are usually not looks, but they are for men.
The girl should (to a point) be happy with who she is, good sense of humor, animal lover, compasionate :).
I totally agree - same goes for BOTH parties in a relationship. Life is a test and we all need to know the person closest to us is on the same page.Quote:
Originally Posted by kuhio98
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If I could find a woman that could behave like my collies I would be in love with that trait....... Yes I'm kidding ladies :D
For me, I think it would have to be more than one. They have to like animals, (that's how I met the guy I am dating now, he shows horses with me) be kind and show respect for you, having a sense of humor is good too.
I think kindness is the most important.
For me a guy would need to love animals. Adorable eyes. Great sense of humor. also tall.
He has to beable to give up the remote control he he, but seriously i cannot list one trait, but Honesty would be my first, along with sensitivity,Kindness and a sense of humour for sure. :)
For me, it's a ready smile.
Confidence without arrogance is another trait that I really find attractive....I was discussing with my best friend (male) the other day, and how hard it can be for a guy trying to flirt confidently with someone and not cross the line into seeming arrogant. We decided that women are just impossible to please. ;)
That about sums it up for me. :D I can try and try, but there's just no winning. ;)Quote:
We decided that women are just impossible to please.
STABILITY is what attracted me most to Mark. He was hardworking, dependable, and I knew that I could trust him, and that is what I find most attractive because it gets you through the hard times :)
honesty, humor, and undying adoration win me over! ;)
Respectful of me being myself :)
Gotta think greyhounds aren't too skinny. (a trait that is hard to find.... ) ;)
He has to be down-to-Earth, Funny and more of a friend. I don't like all those 'gushy' boyfriends. Umm, as for physical traits, he has to be tall. Well, he doesn't HAVE to be tall, but it is preferable that he is. Not sure what else.
Or you can just give me a Johnny Depp! :p
It's hard to pick just one thing but I, too, would have to say love of animals.
There really is no one specific trait, but I've yet to have one conversation with a straight boy that didn't lead to him getting his 'masculinity' or whatever threatened because of the fact that I find tarantulas and snakes, etc. fascinating and blurt out something about how they love horse meat or how the scene in some movie where a horse is sucked through a propeller is so awsome or something like that. :rolleyes:
He has to be clean (not clean cut but hygine clean), dress nice (I like boys with tight pants on (girl pants)) attractive, good shoes is a MUST.
Sense of humour is a good thing too.
I would like them to like animals, they dont have to be over thye top like me but I wouldnt want someone who dosent like them.
I'm very picky when it comes to boys , I guess thats why I dont have a bf at the moment
It sounds bad, but my dog's have to like him (Zoey doesn't like very many guys my age). He has to have gorgeus eyes and a great smile, nice and senstive, and taller them me! I don't know if I'm picky, but oh well.
I think the most attractive trait in a man is his eyes, and his personality :)
Not a trait, a connection. Someone who understands that infamous sixth sense of being able to communicate as one without verbal conversation. And that's what I have right now.
On the other hand, the first think I notice to attract me to a person is facial features. May sound mean, but they are one of the first known symbols when you are being socialized. One of the first things babies learn to identify with are facial features, so they bring out emotions and reactions in us the best.
He has to like cats,have a good sense of humor, be honest and respectful,have a good steady job and a car. As far as physical traits, he has to be tall and in good shape. I guess I might be too picky. LOL:)
I kept almost posting in this thread, but I'll just sum it all up by saying "Paul!" Not the name, but my beloved, I won't embarrass him by gushing, but I could! :)
I have yet to find a man that loves animals as much as I do. He would also have to be very tolerant of all my eccentricities because I refuse to change. Oh and share my love of halloween, ren faires and dressing up!
Mine is very lucky, the cat approves of him! :)
Someone who has a good heart.
Although there are many traits which are important to me (honesty, loyalty, a strong sense of responsibility,) kindness somehow stands out as the thing I consider most important. It makes him attractive beyond measure.
The love for animals, of course. If they love my dogs, especially. :D
That's just the most attractive trait, there are others, of course. :)