Ultrasound results show FIVE tumors. Pancreas, lymph nodes and small bowel.
They want chemo-therapy, I do not. :(
I'll be consulting with my own vet later about how to make him as comfortable as possible.
I'm going to lose my sweet boy. :( :(
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Ultrasound results show FIVE tumors. Pancreas, lymph nodes and small bowel.
They want chemo-therapy, I do not. :(
I'll be consulting with my own vet later about how to make him as comfortable as possible.
I'm going to lose my sweet boy. :( :(
Oh Jen!!!!!!!! {{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}
I've been following Lucas' story from a distance- and I had no idea.
There is no comfort right now :( You can't let him suffer :( :( :(
OH JEN NO!!!!! Oh gosh I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face.
I cannot tell you how brokenhearted I am to hear this terrible news. My heart goes out to you. I know words right now will not comfort you at this time. Just know that we will be here for you.
I'm so, so sorry. :(
((((((HUGS))))))
Oh poor baby Lucas. :(
Sending up prayers for Lucas and you his family.
~Aki
Oh Jen!!!!! ((((HUG))))
I can't blame you for not wanting chemo - it's going to cost a small fortune and make him very sick.... and then there's no gaurantee it would work. I kow you'll do everything possible to make him feel as comofrtable as possible.
What a horrible and terrible shock for you, Jen, I'm truly sorry. I never even considered something this serious, I was thinking more along the lines of not knowing quite what was wrong despite the ultrasound. You know Lucas and so only you know what is best for him, but I must ask why you have decided not to use chemotherapy since cats do well on it, usually, and don't have as many side issues as humans. Give him an extra kiss on the nape for me, that place is so soft, and try to indulge both of you in plenty of special time together.
Oh Jen, my heart is breaking!! :( I am so so very sorry.
I'm sure my decision about the chemo would be exactly like yours. With so many tumors I would just concentrate on making him comfortable and happy.
You, Charlie and Lucas are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Jen..... :( :( I just don't know what to say. I'm so very sorry. If it were Max, I would make the same decision as you, although I have known people who have put their kitties through chemo and came through with flying colours.
{{{hugs}}} Jen.
xoxoxo
I'm so sorry! I hope your vet can find a way to keep Lucas comfy and that you get some more loving time with him.
My decision on the chemo would be the same as yours. In fact, Stuart and I have already talked about and decided what we will do in this situation(just by sheer numbers, it's likely to happen someday!).
{{hugs Jen}}
I'm so sorry to hear about Lucas, but we all know that you will make the best decision for him when it comes time to make decisions.
:( :(
I'm so sorry. I was so hoping it would be something curable, but 5 tumors.... :( :(
From what you were saying though, he is acting completely normal so maybe, like with Peanut, the tumors aren't really bothering him except for the diarrhea. I know you will do what's best for your boy and I sure hope he can be kept comfortable for many months to come. :(
{{{hugs}}} :(
Jen, I Am So Sorry To Hear About Lucas.
Its The Worst Thing In The World When The Vet Comes Out And Says I Have Bad News About Your Friend.
Those Are Words Every Pet Guardian Dreads.
I Have Major Les As I Know How Special Lucas Was To You.
I Wish I Had The Right Words, I Will Just Have To Say Im Sorry.
Jen, I hope you don't mind, but I found a picture of your sweet boy so everyone can see who we're talking about.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v1...cas11-9-05.jpg
Lucas
Oh Jen, I am so sorry. To have resisted all that treatment, Lucas' condition must have been serious, but I am so, so sorry to hear this.
Lots of hugs to you and Lucas tonight.
Oh Jen, I am so very sorry! I agree with just making him comfortable.
((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) to you!!! Give Charlie my regards as well.
Kim :(
Jen... what can I say that would comfort you? I am at a loss for words. Just love him more and harder than ever and we will keep him and you in our prayers!
Oh Jen I'm just seeing this and so sorry. Gosh this makes my problem seem so minor.
Jen (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry to hear about Lucas. I'm sending prayers and good thoughts to you and Lucas. What a handsome orangie
Again I'm so very sorry. :(
Oh (((((Jen))))))!!! I'm so sorry! :( :( :(
I also don't know much to say, there don't seem to be any words of comfort here.... :( I'm really sorry! :(
Kirsten
I am so very sorry to hear about Lucas, Jen. Do what you can, when you can, and keep his greater good in the forefront. Many prayers being sent up. :(
So very sorry to hear this news. Sending prayers and hugs for all of you.
I add a very inadequate....I'm am so sorry to hear of this....
Jen, I'm so very sorry to hear this. :( :( Lucas is such a gorgegous boy and you must be devastated. It's a hard decision to make, but with 5 tumors it will be best for him. Give him all the loving you can, and extra kisses from me.
(((((hugs)))))
Add me to the list of those who don't know what to say except I'm so sorry to hear this and my heart goes out to you and to Lucas. :(
He is such a beautiful boy and I know you love him dearly.
((((hugs)))) to all of you.
My prayers are with you...the choice is difficult (I just went through this with my MIL's dog not too long ago)
I wish I could say more than I understand what you are going through
*hugs*
Jen, I'm so sorry to hear that Lucas has cancer. :(
Sending hugs your way.
If I Should Be;
If it should be I grow frail and weak
And pain prevents my peaceful sleep.
Then you must do what must be done
When this last battle can't be won.
You will be sad, I understand.
Selflessness might stay you hand
But on this day, move than the rest,
Your love and friendship take the test.
We've had so many happy years
That what's to come can hold no fears.
You do not want me to suffer. So,
When the time comes, please let me go.
Take me where my needs they'll tend.
Only...stay with me until the end.
Hold my firm and speak to me.
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time, you too will see
It is a kindness, that you do for me.
Although my tail, it's last has waved
From pain and suffering I've been saved.
Do not grieve it should be you
Who must decide this thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years.
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
Just look in my eyes,
It is I, who will let you know
When it is time to let me go,
To say goodbye.
((((((HUGS)))))) Jen and Charlie
Thank you all.
I have yet to speak to my regular vet (ultrasound specialist only gives his finding, treament and other options are fro my regular vet) So I don't really know anyting at this time except I don't feel a lot of hope.
Lorraine, the poem rings true, but it sure brings the tears.
I really don't even know what to say right now, but I sure appreciate all the good thoughts.
Of course ALL our pets are special in their way, but Lucas has always been such a good boy. Cheerful, loving of both people and the other cats, never a bad or evil thought or action. Just as gentle as could be.
Needless to say, a whole lot of squishing is going on!
Oh, Jen....how awful. I am so sorry for you and Lucas...
Yes, I wonder WHY the specialist thought that chemo would be the option???? It will sure be good to get the point of view from a vet that knows you and your baby.
It sounds hopeless...maybe your vet will have a reason why it might be worth a shot? Prayers are with you.
Good luck, and you will make the best and most loving decision, I know that.
hugs hugs hugs
Catty1
((((Hugs)))) I am so sorry to hear this. :( Give Lucas lots of cuddles...
I'm so sorry to hear this too, I'm sure you'll make the time left as comfortable as possible for him. :(
So sorry to read the news from the ultrasound wasnt good.
My own vet finally called and suggested "depo injections". I am unsure exactly what this is (I think it is a steroid) but the point is that she believes that is can help.
It would only be one injection every 3 to 4 weeks. She has seen a patient with similar tumors thrive for a year now after the parents were concidering euthanasia.
Since Lucas is not really acting sick in any way OTHER than the diarrhea, it is certainly worth a try for a few months.
I'll call in the morning for my first appointment.
Wish us luck.
Prayers that this helps Lucas!
I wonder if that would get the tumours down to treatable size?
hugs! This is hopeful news at least!
Catty1
Jen
I'm so sorry to hear about Lucas' tumors. But since I am just now reading this, I see there's also a little ray of hope.
We all know that you'll do the right thing for him.
Prayers & Hugs.
I should take a minute to answer a few questions.
Well, I don't really know a whole lot about CATS and chemo........but I know it makes humans feel badly but we can understand that we must feel bad in order to get better. to me an animal only knows he now hurts WORSE. Besides all the people who HAVE done this with their pets only to lose their pets (AND all the money too). And many say they will never repeat the insident for another pet. :(Quote:
but I must ask why you have decided not to use chemotherapy since cats do well on it, usually, and don't have as many side issues as humans
Because it is multi systemic it is most likely mast cell cancer. I was told that this doctor is VERY blunt, so if he did not give other options he probably felt confident that this is the only way.Quote:
, I wonder WHY the specialist thought that chemo would be the option????
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I won't make the promise to do "everything possible" for Lucas, because I do not believe in those types of heroic measures, but my vet sounded confident and hopeful that this can keep him comfortable for more time than if we did nothing, which makes it worth a try.
Jen I'm so sorry to hear about Lucas. You will be in my thoughts, those shots sound like a good option for him.
Oh dear, Jenn, I hope the tumors are small enough and the depo injections can help 'em shrink. But for now, you still have your Lucas-sunshine.
My brother and his wife (Lady's Human and Lady's Other Human) lost their Lukas to cancer. But in his case, the tumor had gotten too large to do anything about before he showed any real signs of sickness. He was also a very, very fluffy boy (black longhair) otherwise they might have noticed something.
Prayers for you and Charlie and Lucas. I'm glad to hear that there may be some options.
No matter what happens, it's not the number of days he is with you, it's about how strongly you love with the days you have.
All the Best.