Robin's in the hospital?
Is she going to be ok?
OMG!!I feel so horrible...i get a sick feeling inside whenever i hear this kind of stuff happening.That poor poor girl.
Anything we can do?
besides pray?Of course prayers but my God!!!!
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Robin's in the hospital?
Is she going to be ok?
OMG!!I feel so horrible...i get a sick feeling inside whenever i hear this kind of stuff happening.That poor poor girl.
Anything we can do?
besides pray?Of course prayers but my God!!!!
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Originally Posted by anna_66
:( I'm so sorry!! It sounds like Robin is going through a very, very tough time. When you talk to her again Anna, please tell her she is in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry to hear this.:( Robin will continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers.Quote:
Originally Posted by anna_66
Anna - I am posting this here, and attaching it so you can send or fax it to Robin, if possible. She needs a long withdrawl period from this man/situation. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results each time. She's known him since she was 17...it's going to be really hard for her if she didn't have that living-on-her-own experience for a while.
I pray she learns to be comfortable in her own skin...and stays put until she is well. {{{{hugs}}}}
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6 GOOD Reasons For "No Contact"
1. Your ex is doing "no contact". You wouldn't be sweating those digits if they were calling you. When people love you, you love them. When people stay away from you, you should do the same. Hey, you don't want to be where you're not wanted, do you?
2. Begging and pleading doesn't work. If it did, you wouldn't be here. So try something different.
3. You're just asking for a panic attack. I don't know how many stories I've read on here of people who have given in and called or e-mailed and were completely slapped in the face or ignored by their ex. Then they're back at square one, feeling as bad as they did the day they got dumped. Or for those of you who get those ambiguous responses, you're given a tiny piece of string to hold onto while they continue to go out and have their fun - without you. It ain't worth it, honey.
4. What about you? Don't you deserve to be called and missed? Your ex wasn't the only one in the relationship, and you shouldn't be the only one calling. Guess what? He/she knows your number/e-mail address too. It's not fair to have one-sided communication. Invest that time and energy into yourself.
5. You won't be able to move on if you're still holding on to old ghosts. I say old ghosts because he/she isn't there anymore. They've moved on, some for better, a lot for worse. But the point is they've moved on. And you know what? If they really love you and they see that you're better than the rest out there, they'll be back. And if they don't, then you'll find someone who will think you're top dog. And you deserve that. Interesting stat - 90% of people in the US get married at least once. So it's against the odds that you'll be alone forever.
6. God loves you. He doesn't want to see you suffer. But God teaches those that he loves, so sometimes we have some hard lessons to learn. Take it in stride and gain everything that you can. He will be pleased and send you all that your heart needs and wants. Don't believe me? "Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart."
Psalm 37:4.
So let go of the phones and cancel the e-mails. Go read a good book. Pray, take a walk, write in a diary, post on here. But leave your ex alone. He/she will thank you for it, and you'll be thanking yourself later.
I'll let her explain what happened, but I can tell you he never touched her. He wasn't a physical abuser.Quote:
Originally Posted by catfamily
Catt1, I'll give it to her. Thanks.
I'll let her know your all keeping her in your thoughts.
anna 66-thanks for helping me understand a little more and,sorry for jumping to conclusions on her being in the hospital because of physical abuse.
i still feel sick to my stomach thining about all this.
i just want her to be ok...that's all.
i'll send posative thoughts and many prayers her way.
I'd like to add my son Glenn to the list. I've posted about his illness of myositis and he just isn't responding to the medication. He has experienced partial paralysis due to this illness and he's become very depressed and angry and scared. Any prayers for his complete healing would be greatly appreciated. You can read about his experience at this thread:
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=138757
Mary - poor Glenn! More prayers for him!
Anna - this bit from Robin's post talks about physical injury by her hubby:
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Then we get to my house to find my soon to be ex-Husband loading up the truck and he was quite surprised to see us pull up and block his exit. Let's just say that all hell broke loose and now I'm a little beat up and now I feel like I should be in the hosptial..lol. I'm ok though. Call[ed] the police.
YOU ARE TAKING THINGS OUT OF CONTEXT. READING MORE INTO IT.Quote:
Originally Posted by Catty1
THAT ISN'T WHAT HAPPENED.
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. ASK ROBIN.
WHERE DOES IT SAY HE BEAT HER UP? IT DOESN'T.
HE NEVER TOUCHED HER. WHAT PART OF THAT DO YOU NOT GET CANDACE?
UGH
I was speaking in capital letters b/c I was really wanting to scream.
Staci...when Robin writes "now I'm a little beat up", that's what I thought.
And her calling the police...for what? That added to my conclusion.
So if I made a mistake, big deal. My errors do not have the power to stop the world from turning. Relax.
I'd rather focus on Robin and her getting well, in mind, body and spirit.
love,
Candace
Staci-i have to admit that i thought the same when i read that...and candice goes out of her way so much here on this prayer thread,that i couldn't believe anyone would be angry at her...and i also am sorry that i may have got you angry for misreading robins words.
i was abused in my past by an exhusband and only trying to help...candice was trying so hard to help too.
please don't be angry.
we all really need each other.
your friend
carla
she didn't call the police -Quote:
Originally Posted by Catty1
the neighbors did
I'll relax when Robin is safe at home thanks, so don't try to tell me what to do.
I also read the messages and thought it appeared that he physically assaulted her. I am happy to see that wasn't the case.
Prayers going out to all who need them for any reason.
Whatever happened to Robin, I hope she is out of the hospital soon. :( (((hugs))) and prayers for her.
Thank you for clearing that up. I hope they are able to help the infection in her eyes while she is there - that's scary, and painful.
Robin will be in our prayers, and thank you, Staci, for clearing things up for us.
People, remember not to jump to conclusions, it just leads to contusions.