Graham is not well

I just don't know how to know if he's ready to be at peace and go to the rainbow bridge. I just don't know with Graham. A part of me thinks he might be ready to quit his fight and another part of me is just hanging on to the hope that he might want to keep fighting. I just don't know how to tell with him.

He eats about 2 tablespoons of food a day and that's just not enough to keep him alive. It takes 1/2 a day (usually) before he accepts any food, and even then it's just not nearly enough.

He is very weak, tired, sad, and he appears to be very uncomfortable or be in pain. I wish he would give me a sure sign that he either wants to keep fighting or he's ready to give up. I want to do the right thing and I just don't know what that is. My heart is so torn and confused.

Leslie,

Listen to your heart. YOU know that he's declining and may be in pain. But he can't tell you. Do what you think is right. Only you can make that ultimate, unselfish decision.

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He eats about 2 tablespoons of food a day and that's just not enough to keep him alive. It takes 1/2 a day (usually) before he accepts any food, and even then it's just not nearly enough.

He is very weak, tired, sad, and he appears to be very uncomfortable or be in pain. I wish he would give me a sure sign that he either wants to keep fighting or he's ready to give up. I want to do the right thing and I just don't know what that is. My heart is so torn and confused

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If you re-read your post, I think you've got your answer.

((((HUGS)))) honey

Donna

I totally agree with moosmom. I'm so, so sorry you are having to deal with this I know how hard it must be. :( You both are in my thoughts. (((Hugs)))