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That's the big galoot alright. Amy, what a wonderful way to honor Cody for Karen.
Karen, how are you holding up, girl? You are still on our minds. We know the pain doesn't go away very quickly, but I do hope you are eating and getting some rest and taking care of yourself.
Please check in Karen and let us know how you are doing. We worry about you, too, you know!!
Karen just thinking of you too at this sad time, cody will have left a huge gap in your life and alot of pain in your heart, and its hurts so much, i know, take care karen, hugs .:)
Sorry to have frightened anyone with my absence...The beginning of my first unemployed week had me thinking I was on vacation. The last few days of dreary, cold rain didn't help, so when Sandra called me this morning to check this thread, I pinched myself, got dressed, met a friend for lunch (the other girl who got laid off) came home, slapped myself to snap myself out of this depression, and then of course, just GASPED-awestruck!! at Amy's sketch of my big ole galoot!!! OMG! I just PM'd her. I even called my mom over who was just as speechless as I was! It is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. Better than a photo! AND her TALENT!!!! And the time and effort it took her to do that for me!!! Tears of joy! I still see and hear Cody and expect him at the door. I talk to him all the time.It's exactly one week. Finally had to see a doctor but am going to try to overcome all this by myself with no medication. I'm strong by nature, but this just rocked me to the core. I accepted my dad's death better than this and I feel a little guilty. Sandra and I were talking about pet birthdays, and even though I always celebrated and wished Cody H.B. in my heart and mind, I prayed he's never have another and would be with me for years. I'm not ready yet for another, but soon, very soon. I need stamina and energy and motivation right now. Cody was an accident-right place, right time, so I know that when I see the right one, it'll hit me just like Cody. Instant bonding. Bells and Lights and Stars. Already have names chosen. Dcided to go to the PT renuion of sorts in Doylestown PA..wish you could all be there for hugs and kisses... Sorry to ramble....Love you all TO PIECES!!!!!....k
Karen, thanks for checking in. Hope you start to feel better soon. I know how hard it is.
Don't feel guilty because you miss Cody the most. Cody was always with you everyday. It is understandable.
When it's time, you will be blessed by furry, frito feet again. Somehow, some way, Cody will send you a hint.
Hugs and hang in there!
Dear Karen,
Never worry that you are alone!Any of us who have ever lost a beloved pet understand your feelings completely!!! He was a wonderful dog and your found each other, thankfully!!! You will never forget Cody and that is how it should be. When my beloved cat, Diva, passed away at age 14, I was not at all prepared, even though she was old and sick. I saw her out of the corner of my eye for quite some time after. She was just so much a part of my life, as was your Cody. These things take time, and I feel that you are doing very, very well in spite of the pain you must be feeling. We all understand how you feel. Take care.....from Deborah in Montreal
Karen,
Tears still come to my eyes whenever you post about your beloved Cody.
Being strong is hard, trying not to be emotional is even harder. Just know that we are all here for you - whether near or far.
Keep on checking in ....... we miss you :)
I was cleaning out some things today and came upon this poem in a publication from a local shelter .
When I'm gone, release me, let me go
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears.
You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness..
Grieve for me a while, if grieve you must.
Then let your grief be comforted by trust..
And then when you must come this way alone,
I greet you with a lick and bark, "Welcome home".
That is beautiful ....
Just hoping your having a good day today - still thinking about you and Cody.
Beautiful picture (drawing) of Cody! Great Amy!:p
After posting my feelings to Karen, I avoided this thread...........it made me cry every single time - and it is doing it again, right now!
But, look what I missed!
Amy, that is the dearest thing you have done for Karen. How very thoughtful and so beautiful of Cody!!
Hi Karen,
Oh my gosh!!! Thursday April 3 was the happiest day of my life. I signed on to the computer that overcast morning and what smiled back but the picture of my Emmy! It was a total suprise. I was the happiest "MOM" on cloud nine.
Today, a week and a day later I found Pet talk. For 11 months every day, I have been checking for Em's picture and never knew about this part!
Also today I read your message about Cody and I burst into tears. The poor women at my office came running and didn't know what to think as I stared at my computer screen! I am sooo sorry to read about Cody. It's funny how such a wonderful day can suddenly turn blue. Please know that even though I have never met you, you have touched a place in my heart, both you and Cody. I hope as each day passes the pain will be less and less. Words can not express how much sorrow I feel for you. I am so glad Emmy was the DOTD, as she was smiling for you and letting you know everything is going to be alright.
Hugs to you,
Love Laurie and Emmy
I'm so sorry that I'm going on forever about this.
Some days are Ok, but today, Saturday, is dreadful, even though it's so beautiful outside..the first thing I would do is take Cody outback for some rays while I drank my morning coffee....
I still have his bed and dishes out...maybe today I will wash them and pack them up. His leash is still by the back door...
My friend John came over yesterday for dinner and a movie and whereas I would be all dolled up with makeup, I just flew out of the house looking like I just got out of bed. Then I return and there's no Cody at the door
You all must think I'm insane. I'm not crying as much but the pain in my heart is overwhelming. I can't even get myself to return his unopened cans of food to the vet. And no call yet for his remains. The thought of it taking so long..I had no idea..is making me ill.
Anyway...I've commissioned Amy to do a 9x12 of Cody's picture for me! It's so lovely and perfect, ever detail is exact..all that from a photo! She is absolutely amazing! We will frame it and hang it in a place of honor..maybe the kitchen..his favorite room!!!
Selfish me...let's all say a prayer for Sandra's beloved Squeekers who crossed the Bridge yesterday. he put up a gallant fight, our sweet piggie and Sandra was the most incredible, wonderful mom.....
oh karen i feel your pain my friend, its going to take time, so dont be hard on yourself and let those memories flood in , its what u need, its the hardest part, but u have to go through this grieving process, and i know how much it hurts, it will get better, but for now its going to be rough, let those tears flow,and flow if u can,those fond memories will hurt just now,and all the little things like seeing his leash etc.
I did not see this fantastic picture i hear about that amy did, is there anywhere i can find it, i am so curious its sounds really amazing, isnt that great she did that, and u have got her to do another large one for you.
Well Karen i hope there is a little comfort here for you, i am thinking of you and sharing your grief, u take much care now, and keep us posted as to how u r doing WE CARE ok:)
Thank you so much Karen, for taking the time to remember my special little boy in the midst of your own grief. You are the dearest of friends and today, this rainy, sad Sat., I cry along with you; for Squeeker, for Cody and for all of those who have passed. Love, Sandra