I hope you are doing better today. I am still thinking of you and your pets and hoping things are going as well as they can.
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I hope you are doing better today. I am still thinking of you and your pets and hoping things are going as well as they can.
I hope you're all doing better, too. Any new small step?? We're here for you!
QOP-
I have not been on for a very long time, but I did get the gist of what has happened with you and I think you are being a strong woman. It takes alot of courage to make the decision to do what you did. I think it makes you a stronger person to stand up and so no more also. Just remember that the PTers are always here for you. :)
It sounds like the kitties are gunna have fun at that kennel.hehehe
I'm doing ok. Going thru the anger phase now. No more crying. Remembering all the awful things and that's giving me the strength to carry on.
Kitties are so relaxed these days it's just funny. They just flop down on the floor and have a napper if needed. And to watch Cali play with the mousie toys I got, hilarious. They're adjusting well. Diego curled up on my lap last night and purred up a storm, he's such a love.
Our kitties truly are a blessing, aren't they? When I was at my worst emotionally, just to hear them scuffling on the other side of the door as I was coming home from work, made my heart swell. I'm so glad that you have your furkids to comfort you. :love:
Got my mail this morning. In it an envelope from my mom. Inside that a note and a Cdn $50 bill. The note said to go get myself a fluffy housecoat and a pair of slippers to keep cosy in.
She's so bad.
Making me cry.
What a great mom I have!
YAAAAY for moms! :D
What colour ya gonna get?:)
Usually, when I got to the anger stage, that was the beginning of my recovery. More hugs going out. :)
Oh I hope you're right about the anger stage being close to recovery. Guess time will tell.
OH slippers and a warm housecoat is just the ticket. especially with winter upon us
find a favorite TV show... curl up with a blanket either on the couch or right in your room in bed with the kitties and enjoy. THIS is healing. you will never be more comfortable and cozy.
we are all thinking of you still :D
Q.O.P. - and Rose - thinking of you both this weekend. Prayers for healing are being offered.
I hope so too, Gayle. When I felt anger, it seemed like I wouldn't feel weakness anymore. I give alot of credit to those support group people that empowered me to feel better about myself. I had lost so much self worth, it was what I needed to move forward and get better. You may not feel like doing it right away but it might come one day. Such a great feeling to go out and have coffee or tea or lunch/dinner with girls just like me. Every time, it was like a giant load was lifted from me.:)Quote:
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The fleece housecoat and pants I found, as directed by my mom. They're so warm and snuggly! Thanks mom. Made me feel warm, cosy and safe. But didn't help me sleep at all. Can't wait until I can sleep again.
Get a copy of "Creative Dreaming" by Patricia Garfield.Quote:
Originally Posted by Queen of Poop
Read it and try some of the techniques. Now, I can put myself to sleep in a few minutes, without even thinking about it. It really works, you just have to be patient and try it.
Thanks Richard, I will take a look for it. Order it if I have to. Doctor won't give me a sleep aid so I struggle thru.Quote:
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Not having the best day today, really riding the emotional roller coaster. Diego has done well though, napping a few times for an hour a time in my lap. He's such a good boy.