Every minute you have now is a gift. Every gift is a sign of love. May every sign of love bring you both peace ~
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Every minute you have now is a gift. Every gift is a sign of love. May every sign of love bring you both peace ~
Slick, it breaks my heart to read your latest update!
I wasn't around the last days because I was sick, but I thought a lot of you and Speckles. I know she will stay with you as long as she can, because she knows you love and need her.
{{{HUGS}}}
Kirsten
Good morning dear ones.
Here's hoping for a peaceful, memorable, love-filled day.
{{Continued thoughts and prayers...}}
She has truly come to the end of the road. She has not purred in days and this morning her eyes....well are telling a story that I don't want to hear.
The lump of fluid from last night has not been absorbed at all so will call the vet this morning for advice. I think maybe today I will help her to the Bridge..... :( :( :(
So sorry to hear this :(
{{{{{Slick}}}}}
I am so sorry to hear this. I was checking in, hoping for a good update, but I see that she is going downhill. It is a very difficult decision, but perhaps she is telling you with her eyes that it is time to make the journey. If that is what you decide I am sure that she will be grateful to you for making it as easy as possible. She is probably very tired and looking forward to making the crossing where she will once again be in good health.
Vickie, as hard as it is, it is the absolute most courageous and unselfish act we can do for our pets who have loved us so long. Please know that you and Speckles are in our thoughts and prayers. I wish I could be there with you to hug you and hold your hand. It is such a peaceful time when they are released from their pain, although it is so hard for those they leave behind.
Much love,
Logan
Vickie ~ I'm so sorry that Speckles isn't getting better. My heart aches for you and the decision we all face. Sweet, sweet Speckles.
I am so sorry for what you are going to have to do. Although, this is the greatest gift of love that you can give her :(
Dear Slick! I wish I could be there to comfort you in this sad time. :( :(
I know how hard is to let Specles go, but I hope it will be a comfort for you to know that you have done all you could for her, and also that she doesn't have to suffer unneccesary.
Speckles have had a good and long life with you, and if she's ready to cross to the RB, I promise that John will be there to welcome her and give her hugs and scritchies. :)
When Fister's mom got ill, I had to make that same decision, and it was hard - even though I didn't like her that much, I cried for days.
Slick, contact me whenever you need to talk - I'll be here for you!
(((((((hugs)))))))
I just spoke to the vet and he will be here at 5:30pm today. It's confirmed that her body is shutting down and will not work to absorb the fluids. Please pray for a peaceful passing for my Baby Girl. :( :( :( Her breathing is a bit "laboured" so I really know it's time. I don't want to wait too long and have her in pain.
Oh honey (((HUGS)))) I've been out of town and I am so sad to hear how quickly she declined :( Many hugs to you and prayers that she is as comfortable and peaceful as possible in the next few days. I don't know what to say to help your grief, but do knw we're all here for you.
Dear Slick,
My heart breaks for you this morning.
I know the pain, it is almost as though you cannot catch your breath, it hurts so much.
But if today you let her go, the consolation is that she is truly free of pain and illness and will instantly have beautiful wings so that she can fly around the Rainbow Bridge and visit every corner, every wonderful pet that we have all lost.
She will always be in your heart and is so grateful for the wonderful life she has had with you on earth. She will never be very far away from you.
Dear friend, how I wish I could ease this time for you.
Oh Slick, I'm with you in my thoughts...
Like others have said here before, it's your last act of love for her, and she will be painfree and whole after her passing.
Animal communicator Amelia Kinkade wrote in her book that animals do not fear death, and sometimes their little souls even decide to "come back" to a beloved human. I still find comfort in the thought that one of my future kitties may be my beloved Katz. We're never really parted from them, you know?
Kirsten
You are in my prayers. I'm so sorry .. please dont hesitate to ask for anything and I will do wahtever I can.
*HUGS* my dear friend.
One last message before I sign off. When I adopted Specks 8 years ago I promised her biological Mom that I would always let her know about Specks and her health. Well we did keep in touch for a year or two, then Specks' Mom moved and I lost touch. Through this whole ordeal, that was the one thing that I felt really bad about. I wanted to give Patti an update on her girl but didn't know how to reach her.
Low and behold, she emailed my hotmail account 3 days ago. Did Speckles have a hand in this?? I expect so and I will be calling her today. After all, Patti loved her first.
That post gave me goosebumps. I would take it as a sign that Speckles is ready and at peace, and wants you and Patti to be so also.
HUGS to you my dear friend.
If it be Thy Will ...
Please give Speckles a gentle ride up to the Raibow Bridge ~
And give Slick a big God'sHug.
Have a Safe Trip, Dear Speckles.
/s/ :( Phred
It sounds like sweet Speckles has given you the sign that you asked for. You asked her to let you know when she was ready to go. Patti getting touch with you out of the blue is definitely a sign. Speckles must want you two to have each other during this painful time. Sweet Speckles, you are such a good girl for thinking of your meowmies. What a wonderful, loving spirit you are.Quote:
Originally Posted by slick
My thoughts are with you.
Thank-you Speckles, for being such a good kitty to our friend Vickie - you will be very missed. Go on your journey now - knowing you were loved.
I truly believe what Kirsten said. My heart cat Sunny died at 20 yrs old too many years ago and to this day I occasionally feel his presence. He was a shoulder cat and I swear that sometimes when I wake in the morning I feel his warm, soft furry weight on my shoulder. It brings such comfort. I'm so overwhelmed with feelings right now and just wish I could be there with and for you my dear, dear friend :(
We will be with you and Speckles, in spirit, this afternoon, Slick. :( I know one gray/yellow Labrador that just arrived at the bridge almost two weeks ago, who found that she didn't mind cats too much in the last 3 1/2 years of her life, although she did give Mimi and Butter a run for their money when she first met them. Murphy will welcome Speckles with open arms and they can learn their way around, together.
Love,
Logan
Slick, I'm sorry to hear that Speckles health is declining so rapidly :( but you're doing the right thing by helping her on her way to Rainbow Bridge. You'll both be in my thoughts and prayers today. Please take care. (((HUGS)))
Oh Slick I'm sitting here tears all over the place my heart heavy for you and Speckles. I know how it is Having to do the same in April with Merlin. Know that Logan will be holding your hand I will be having my arms around you.
Hugs and continued prayers for stregnth for you my friend.
Godspeed for a peaceful Journey, sweet Speckles. I know all the PetTalk furries that have went before her will be there to welcome her. And several beloved relatives of several of us will welcome her with gentle arms.
I'm so sorry to hear this news but it is the kindest, gentlest act.
A certain loppy-eared bunster has been notified to be on her best behavior (she's been known to *thumpz* others) and welcome sweet Speckles when the time comes. As official digger-upper of the garden grounds (and house plants), she's sure to know the best catnip patches.
{{Many hugs to you, Slick. Many hugs.}}
I'm so sorry that Speckles is getting ready to make the big trip. Maybe Smokey will share her shoestring.
{{{SLICK}}}
I know that this is a very difficult time for you, and Speckles was blessed to have you as her meowmie. It's wonderful that you want to update Patti, and I also think that this was her sign to you that she is ready to make the big trip. Please know that we are all here for you, hon.
Big hugs for you and godspeed sweet Speckles when the time comes. :(
**hugs**
:( Oh, my friend, I wish I could make the hurt go away for you. I had to send my Leroy to the RB a few years ago. I took some last pictures of him before I took him to the vet. I'm glad I did because now I can look at them and see how bad he felt compared to his other pictures. I know I did the right thing. It's so hard letting them go! I know Speckles knows how much you love her.
Speckles, sweetheart, have a safe peaceful trip to the RB. You'll be home in time for Christmas. Your mom will miss you something awful, so please stay near her, ok? Please say hi to my big boy, Leroy. He'll be glad to show you around. oxoxoxoxo
It's the most difficult thing they ever ask us to do, to let them go when we love them so much.
May Speckles have a gentle trip to the Bridge. Speckles, sweetie, be sure to look up a brown tabby named Keke when you get there--she left for the RB just after Christmas 12 years ago. She'll show you around.
I'll light a candle at 5:30 today...to help guide Speckles on her trip to the bridge....
My candle will be lit at 8:30 pm Eastern time. How very nice Sara.
Words are inadequate and awkward at times like this.
Slick,
Please know that the collective arms of PT are around you and you are in our heart.
And look forward, friend.
Somewhere there is a little kittypuss that won't take Speckles place in your heart, But may take a place in your home.
Godspeed, Speckles.
{{{{{{{SLICK}}}}}}}
I am so sorry that you and Speckles could not have more time together. :( But one day, you will be reunited and have eternity together.
My baby girl is soooo ready to go and I'm very ready to let her go. I had some friends over to say their last good-byes and to take some pictures. My baby girl....who hated to be held...who hated to be messed with....who would bite anyone who touched her paws....just layed on my chest for a long time. I took some of her fur and even put a bandana on her while she had her picture taken on Santa's lap. She never flinched. Right now she is sleeping on the couch on her favourite blankie. I'm wondering if she will chose to leave before the vet arrives.
I can't help but think that she has done a very unselfish thing. This whole ordeal would have been so much more stressful on me if I hadn't been on holidays. Did she plan this departure when she knew that I would be around most of the day??
Right now I'm very much in control and have not shed any tears yet. I have no idea what I will be like tonight.
Sara and Laurie...what a lovely thought. I've had candles burning all day here and I can imagine how pretty the Bridge must look with all the Christmas lights lining the railing.
Oh, Slick, this brought tears to my eyes. Indeed what a beautiful image this is, and you can bet that Speckles will have a grand entrance!Quote:
Originally Posted by slick
A candle will be lit in my home tonight as well...
Much love,
Karen
I do believe that everything happens for a reason in life. This is a perfect example.Quote:
Originally Posted by slick
Speckles had a wonderful life in your care Slick. Do not dwell on the sorrow but on the larger happiness you both shared. Everyone must go down the same road of life but we choose what memories will remain with us forever.
Many hugs to you Slick. I'll send a prayer for a peaceful crossing.
:(
I can add nothing to what has already been said; we all know that feeling in our hearts and how much it hurts.
She knows you love her by your tender touch and soft words.
All I can hope for is that both of you will be at peace.
(((((hugs)))))
Candles will be lit here as well.
Heaven will have a new beautiful, beautiful angel this Christmas.
We love you, Slick.