Sandra, (tatsxxx11) suggested putting Winnie in one of the carriers and setting her in the room with all of us for a while each day. That way they can all get used to seeing each other. I think we will give that a try in a day or two when all is calmer here.
Ok, I admit, I'm the only one who is a wreck right now but am doing better now all are gathered together under one roof! :D