L.I.E.?

A thought for those of you who are alone, Please donot feel sad, it really is just another day, I Know its difficult, when it surrounds you and its in your face every year on the 14th, but take a positive attitude and remember its just an over-commercialised day, at least you can save some bucks he he.

I know you are thinking you are a fine one to speak, but I spent ten years of my life without a partner, and though valentines day was not celebrated, I felt alone many times, just going to the park with my son and seeing couples together, used to pull at my heart strings, so I know how you are feeling.

Just enjoy the love of your pets,friends, families,and keep your spirits up, let the day pass without feeling too bad, life is good and valentines day is really insignificant in comparison.:) Cheers everyone and my love to all of you who are alone or feeling blue.

Just in case anyone needs a good reason to be happy on 2/14, our Murphy Girl will celebrate her 14th birthday!!!! :) What better reason to have a "love fest" on that day!!!!! :D :D :D

First I wish to say dis-regard my previous threads, Valentines Day is just a crock, all it has done is upset me and make me feel annoyed with my husband, every year for three years I have religiously bought him a card, and yes you guessed it, I have never received one back, he is so slack and un-romantic, I just feel disappointed.

I have decided not to celebrate it anymore, and take my own advice and treat it as just another day, We had agreed not to buy presents and go to the movies instead, but I thought he would have least got me a card, but no, I should have known better.

So here I am on Valentines day feeling hurt, so whats the point,it just verifys what I knew about my husband all along, he is thoughtless sometimes.

Oh well I sure hope you all have a better day than me, time to move on and forget about it all.:)

Although that is unfortunate, I think it's your husband to blame rather than the day.

Well Carole, that just sucks. Men can be thoughtless and inconsiderate some times, but they’re only human. I’m thoughless and inconsiderate about holidays, birthdays and anniversaries, too. My husband is the one who always remembers and gets me something nice. I always forget and/or get him some crappy, cheesy gift.

Chin up, and Happy V-Day. You know your furkids will always be there, no matter what and they never hurt your feelings. :)

Kayann you are right, and Micki yep those furbabies will always be there for me no matter what the lil darlins, but hey Micki maybe you should make more effort to try and remember special events, because being on the other end of it, hurts, when you are forgotten.(just some friendly -well meant advice )

Anyways I am over it now, life goes on.:) it is not that big of a deal!!!;)

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Originally posted by carole
Micki maybe you should make more effort to try and remember special events, because being on the other end of it, hurts, when you are forgotten.(just some friendly -well meant advice )

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I know, Carole. I try, I really do. I just don't remember, because it's not important to me to recieve things on those special days and I forget that it's important to him. I know I love him and I show it on many ways throughout theweek, month, & year.

I've even gone so far as to put reminders in Outlook, since we use that at work. After your post I went back and moved my reminders up by a week, so that I can hopefully get out early and get him a nice gift instead of the last minute Walgreen's gifts.

Good on you Micki, thats the spirit, I know my husband show's me too that he loves me, but it still hurts when they seem so thoughtless, and you are the one always being the thoughtful ,romantic one, so keep trying,you will get there in the end, and he will be sooo....suprised. I bet he will appreciate, just being thought of as well., it is the thought that counts in most cases.,.is for me anyhow. cheers.:)

meh....you're right...love sucks:(

and so does Valentine's Day

No, it doesn't. See

Love Is Not Evil

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Originally posted by Karen
No, it doesn't. See

Love Is Not Evil

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yeah i know it doesn't really...bu ti'm just having a bad valentines day and it's a good thing to take my anger out on:o

Did you read the other thread?

yeah, but my problem isn't being single or anything (i'm only 14) but it's just some of the mean things peole do to other peole on valentines day. they might forge tit in a day or two but it leaves a permenant scar on the other person...BTW i'm not talking about myself;)