I lost my job today....

Wow, Donna, I'm sorry that they treated you so disrespectfully. There's nothing worse than feeling disposable, I know that from very recent experience myself. And, I'm sure your brother means well, but, I would probably feel the way that you do in regards to talking to him. I don't tolerate anyone yelling at me, it shows complete lack of self control and I don't like being around that. So, I can see how that would be a drag to have to listen to. And, comparing your situation to the folks affected by Katrina is inappropriate...if he wants to get technical, there have been less fortunate people all over the world for a long time, and, it has and will continue to have nothing to do with natural disaster, in many cases. There are always going to be less and more fortunate people than ourselves, that's irrelevant. Again, though, I'm sure he means well. I truly wish you the best of luck, Donna, in finding a different job. And, staying sober, I know that has to be difficult to deal with in times like these. I can't imagine. I hope you have someone to talk to, whether it be a friend from Pet Talk or not. I'll be sending good thoughts...Kari

And, as a little ray of hope, my mother had to recently look for work past the age of fifty, and, she found a job. She actually was able to choose from a few positions, so, there's opportunity out there...don't lose hope.

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Originally posted by dukedogsmom
If I were you, I wouldn't call your brother again. You don't need that type of "support" You've been wanting to go back to CT for a while now. Maybe this is a sign that you should do it? Good luck in whatever you choose. I think it's very dirty the way they treated you. I hope they get paid back for their mean behavior.

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That is exactly what I was going to say.
Don't call him and don't answer his calls.
I am so sorry for you Donna. This is awful.
Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

((((((((Donna)))))))))

I'm so, so, so sorry, honey!!! That place DOES NOT deserve you!!! They're total flakes and I believe with all my heart, they'll get whats coming to them. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

I agree with the others...maybe there's something better for you that requires you to be free at the moment.

Is there a temp agency that can help you look for work? I've had a lot of luck with the one that got me the temp job I'm working this week.

Honey, if you need me, call me, OK? I PROMISE I'll answer the phone. ;) I'll keep my cell on at work tomorrow, OK? Actually, I'll call you at my lunch break, OK? It'll be around 12:30 my time, so 3:30 your time?

Please try very hard to stay sober. Please get to a meeting as soon as you can. You need that support right now.

I'd also advise against talking to your brother right now if he's going to continue to act that way. While there are people that have it a lot worse, you still have bad news and deserve love and support.

Love ya,
Kelly

((((hugs)))))

Donna, I'm so sorry to hear this.:( Like everyone has already said, things will get better and god must have other plans for you. Please don't take a drink and I wouldn't call your brother back either because you don't need to be treated like this. We're all here for your support. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

I think I missedsome think a while back. Didn't you have a chance to look in to a job back home and interveiw for it on your trip or am I confused?
I'm sorry about the bad behavior on the part of your boss. There is something better out there for you.

So sorry to hear you lost your job. What a jerk your x employer was to you. That was really a crappy way to be treated, and then your brother to yell at you too while you are down makes it even worse!

Donna if there is anything at all that I can do, please let me know, in the mean time, I will be praying and sending good thoughts to you.

Willie:(

OMG! I feel horrible! Not only were you fired so unprofessionally, but your brother isn't any help. I can understand about at least having something while the people from Katrina don't, but you have your own situation. You'd think he'd try to comfort you. I was also "laid off" without proven reasons. Turns out the office is closing anyway and went down the tubes after I left, so I believe there's a reason for everything. And PLEAASE! I also have to reiterate..52 is NOT old! I'm 54 and I'm determined to find a job when I recover. We are experienced and mature with good work habits. We're from the old school. Plus, it's against the law to discriminate against age. Now you must stay sober, cry and cry (good therapy) and then decide that you're going to find a better job! I agree with Mayor K..call your old job in CT. Maybe this is a sign that you should. You loved it and were happy there. I don't know you well, but if you want to PM or email me (see my profile), please don't hesitate. Send me your phone number and I'll call you. Please talk to your friends here at PT. We wouldn't offer if we didn't want to help you. And you don't have to talk to your brother. If he knows everything, let him offer to help you out. You're right, you aren't 5 years old. Remember...*pleads on bended knee* contact one of us!

(((((HUGS))))) Donna.


Hang in there - something good has to come of this. Do what you need to in the interim (food stamps etc) to keep a roof over your head and food on the table, and focus on finding a MUCH BETTER job with people who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

It's THEIR loss - one day you will look back on this from your much better job and realise that you had a lucky escape! In the meantime you are surrounded by friends who want to help in any way they can. Good luck for the future - it will be good

Oh no, Donna, this is terrible, being fired this way....! You certainly did NOT deserve this! That boss ST..KS :mad: :mad:

Don't give up, please, you will find something better, I just know it :)

Oh Donna, I'm so sorry. :( I agree with others. You don't need that kind of 'support' from your brother right now.

I'm sorry those jerks did that to you. :( :(

*HUGS*

Donna check your messages hun.

Again I'm so sorry for what those idiots did to you. They don't deserve your time or talent. Keep your chin up hun. We still love you.;)

Well, I survived the night drinking Country Time Pink Lemonade straight up, crying buckets while hugging my main squeeze MooShoo (none of my cats would leave my side). I wasn't crying over losing my job (well maybe a little ), but it was mostly because of the way my brother treated me. Do I plan on calling him tonight??? **** no!! I don't need a second round of self-esteem bashing. My brother, who CLAIMS he got all his money from his hard work (he inherited over a million dollars cash plus stocks and bonds and a home with all the contents from my aunt) can kiss my royal american @$$. I've never asked him for anything. I will NOT be spoken to that way ever again!! I should have hung up on him. My SIL said, "Now you know why we're not married anymore." She and her SIL, you guys and all my friends have been so much more supportive of me than he could ever be. For that I am greatful.

Time to move on. Gotta go update my resume and search the job market. Thanks again for all your wonderful support. I'd be lost without you guys!!

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Time to move on. Gotta go update my resume and search the job market. Thanks again for all your wonderful support. I'd be lost without you guys!!

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Good for you!!! Won't say anything about your brother - cos he is still your brother ;) Good luck

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Originally posted by moosmom
Well, I survived the night drinking Country Time Pink Lemonade straight up, crying buckets while hugging my main squeeze MooShoo (none of my cats would leave my side). I wasn't crying over losing my job (well maybe a little ), but it was mostly because of the way my brother treated me. Do I plan on calling him tonight??? HELL no!! I don't need a second round of self-esteem bashing. My brother, who CLAIMS he got all his money from his hard work (he inherited over a million dollars cash plus stocks and bonds and a home with all the contents from my aunt) can kiss my royal american @$$. I've never asked him for anything. I will NOT be spoken to that way ever again!! I should have hung up on him. My SIL said, "Now you know why we're not married anymore." She and her SIL, you guys and all my friends have been so much more supportive of me than he could ever be. For that I am greatful.

Time to move on. Gotta go update my resume and search the job market. Thanks again for all your wonderful support. I'd be lost without you guys!!

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Donna, aren't you glad not all 57 year old men named David are like that?