My sister gave me the best advice when I was whining to her (married to a great guy) about the single life at 40....You just trade in one set of problems for another!
Ktn:p
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My sister gave me the best advice when I was whining to her (married to a great guy) about the single life at 40....You just trade in one set of problems for another!
Ktn:p
haha!
How does that go? No matter how hot he is, some woman is tired of putting up with his s**t! LOL
:D
Attention to anyone hating men. I can't speak for any other man, but I, myself am not that way to a lady. I have respect for any lady, I must be the last man on earth that would hold a door open for a lady. I would NEVER treat Donna (moosmom) that way. I think you are putting all men because of a few boobs.
Unfortunately, the nice guys are the minority. There are way too many creeps out there.
I too have had my fair share of jerks in my life, but I still donot hate men, it is a shame that these men leave women with such a bad taste in their mouths, val and other's don't give up completely , there are still a few good ones around ya know, and none of them are perfect, but then neither are we? :)
last I checked I was perfect....LOL...
Claudia
:D :D :D Yeah...you go girl!!!!!Quote:
Originally posted by kitten645
last I checked I was perfect....LOL...
Claudia
I really can't say that I hate men, I just refuse to date or get involved with a man one-on-one. I've been hurt and disappointed one too many times and I won't let that happen again.
...and that's my story and I'm sticking to it.
Single women of the world unite and be proud!!!!:D :D
Me too, slick.
Speaking of drive....Quote:
Originally posted by Scooby4
A few months ago, this guy would have had no chance with me. He is about don't have the "drive" the new modern woman has today.
Men are standard transmissions put it in gear and stomp the gas..
Women? Manual trannys.....You have to match the gear with the speed, downshift, upshift, push in the clutch and freak out when you have to stop on a hill........
You forgot the credit cards extra batteries and that cell phone.Quote:
Originally posted by Scooby4
Us smart and beautiful woman may just have to let our hair down but carry a big purse loaded with money, makeup, adult toys, and various weaponery!!!
:confused:
Men are standard transmissions put it in gear and stomp the gas..
Women? Manula trannys.....You have to match the gear with the speed, downshift, upshift, push in the clutch and freak out when you have to stop on a hill........
wha? dinna ken..blonde I know..
That's how I felt, too as well. I am only 20, but I will be 21 in September. I stopped looking, too.. and guess what happens? I start to fall for my best guy friend, Zack. and I found out Zack likes me, so, hopefully things will fall in place, if not, that's okay.. We've been friends for 2 years. Good things happen to those people who wait. :)
Ahhhhhh David, I was just teasing about hating men. Just was venting a little and releasing some steam.
I am sure that there are enough one each side to make everyone look bad. LOL
Okay, I have learned yet ANOTHER lesson about men!!! There REALLY is a reason a guy like the one I just met doesn't have a chance with me!!! They turn psychotic!!!
I think I just got a taste of medicine in my mouth on this one ladies!!! After one date this guy now wants to move in with me!!! Claims because I let him stay once that he should be allowed to come over more!?
He's been living with his parents and taking care of his mother with alzheimer's. This sounded sweet and caring. However, he had a drinking problem and no job. I could understand his situation would make him want to drink... I overlooked some of this because he had other good qualities. (He did my dishes okay!?)
Now the guy has totally freaked out. I had plans to go out with my friends at a local bar during the weekend. I told him straight out about it. He couldn't afford to go. So I come home the first night to 2 answering machine messages, 4 missed calls on my cell phone, and a note on my trash can... then he calls me 10 minutes after I got home to ask if I had "hooked up" with somebody!:eek:
The next day he came over with flowers and an apology for his behavior.
So that night no phone calls. However, the next morning he calls me at 7:30 AM!!! To give me a "hard time" for being out so late. Demanded to know what time I got home!!! Then later in the afternoon he decides he needs to tell his father off and move in with me for 2 days on my couch!!!:eek: :mad: Can the words "NO WAY!!!" come out of my mouth any faster?
Man, just when I think I have hit bottom with guys, I find yet another bottom feeder!!! So please do NOT tell me that the "Right one" will come along when I least "Expect it". I've given more chances than the Price of Right on winning a prize!!! I've been date raped, imprisoned, hit, called vicious names, money taken, cheated on, lied to, stalked numerous times, grabbed inapropriately, given colds, and had to completely start my life over again due to bad relationships with men. I believe I am allowed to be okay with being single and not ashamed of it. I own my singleness now. It is now the fear of togetherness with someone that I fear.:(
Scooby.....reason #1,029,785,447 why I refuse to even date......
I am young (24), but I've been in through a lifetime of hurt in my last relationship. We both put each other through hell. It's easy to blame him because then I don't have to deal with the pain myself, but it's really a two way street. Any relationship takes work and dedication and commitment.. sometimes one person messes it up really bad but I really think that results come from the actions of both people involved.
It's easy to say that you will never date again but sometimes the heart wants what it wants. I think of all the bad times but when it comes down to it, the love was worth it. Every happy moment outshines a bad tenfold and I take with me memories, lessons, and the knowledge that it was worth it.