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ye i know but i would be offended if my pet was covered up with that! snakes are beautiful (and spiders although i dont like spiders i love to look at them and them moving around! i think they are amazing!) people have different phobias (dogs, cats, fish, birds etcQuote:
Originally Posted by Karen
I like snakes,spiders et all but they ARE creepy crawly.. that's a fact, irregardless if someone is frightened of them or not. It's just a description, not a derogatory comment about the pet itself. IMHO :)
That's your opinion, NOT a fact, and irregardless is not a word.Quote:
Originally Posted by wendysue1853
Thank you CB, that happens to be one of my "pet" peeves (no pun intended) same thing when I hear someone say they are trying to "unloosen" a jar or "could care less" ;)
Mercy, you would tear your hair out around my family. Not only do they say they could care less (which I use too), they "unloosen" a jar and "unthaw" frozen things! :D :D :DQuote:
Originally Posted by lbaker
Unloosen? I think part of my brain just leaked out my ear. :)
Then again, I suffer from foot-in-mouth disease pretty badly sometimes, perhaps the occasional grammar mishap would be preferable.
Oh...once I posted here that I was a "grammer" Nazi. I almost died laughing when someone pointed THAT out to me. *facepalm*
Does having no idea what you are talking about mean that creepy crawlies don't bother me??? or am I just unobservant
I think the expression "creepy crawly" is kind of cute in a little kid way. It's gentle. It sure beats "gross and disgusting" :p
I'm mostly against it because how are you supose to know if its a snake or a spider?
What if the person(s) LOVE snakes, but fear spiders, they'll never know if its safe to click on the link or not.
If the warning said "POTD is a Snake" then people who fear snakes wouldn't click on it & the same for spider.
If I posted a photo of Lilly I would be bumbed with the creepy crawlie warning, as I don't think she creepy... But giving a warning shes a spider is cool with me. Its just the wording I don't like... Kinda takes the fun out of things.
But like I said I understand peoples fears. When I get Lilly back, I have to put her into my closet when Karen comes over, as she will not go anywhere, where she can see a big spider. Shes fine knowing Lilly is locked up & out of sight. I'm ok with it too.
My buddy James is scared of spiders, but only of they touch him. He wants to get to know Lilly better & understand their movements better, which is what scars him
Though i found it creepy i thought wolf spider mating language was fascinating! (watched a show in science class about something and they had some spiders in a lab. Sorry I can't remember, this was over 10 years ago.)
When one day I was sitting in my office quietly chatting at PT -no, no of course I was in the middle of a business plan ;)- my assistant in the room next door let out a very scary scream! :eek:
When I got out of my office to see what threatened her - and I was sure it was a giant spider- it found out it was because she had opened a copy of National Geographic Magazine and there was this beautiful big python.
I doubt that anyone reacts like that if he/she sees a cat or a dog.
I am very ashamed to admit that I react to spiders that way- I know it is completely irrational but I just can't help it. But I like and admire snakes- the most beautiful being the small poisonous ones that look like tiny jewels. :)
You know something Barbara, I never would have believed someone could react like that to a cat or dog either until.....Quote:
Originally Posted by Barbara
A friend of mine has a 'unnatural' fear of cats. The very sight of a cat even on TV makes her scream bloody murder and run from the room. The first time I witnessed it I just about rolled on the floor laughing. I thought she was being funny. But she screamed to me from the other room 'is it gone??? Is it gone?' I told her it was and she creeped back into the room with her hands over her face and peeking through her fingers. When she took her hands away I realized her face was tear streaked and completely colorless. I asked her why she was so scared of cats and she couldn't tell me. She said 'I don't know really but for as long as I can remember I have been terrified of them.' She never once stepped foot inside my door. At that time we had only been friends a short time and had meet through university so I didn't know anything about it. I guess it was a good thing she didn't come visit my house cause I never would have thought to 'warn' anyone I had a cat.
I have one co-worker who spend a night in the house of a friend of hers. That friend had to go to work earlier and so Chris was alone with the cat: up to today she says the cat didn't allow her to leave the house by standing in the door and looking threatening.
So she is not really mad crazy about cats but mildly scared.
I have to take it as it is- but I still would think the irrationally-scared-by-spiders fraction is bigger than the irrationally-scared-by-cats fraction.
Filou just said he loves the idea that someone is scared of him- he is rather bothered by all the people who want to kiss him :p
A friend of my mothers was always nervous about visiting our home because she said our Siamese cat would stare at her and "turn his eyes red" at her :rolleyes: :D Actually the cat would stare at her. I think he did it for fun, he ignored other visitors :D
My beloved Aunt Dotty - my mother's best friend since childhood, not technically an aunt - was afraid of cats. Not "run fom the room screaming"-type afraid, but afraid and nervous and uncomfortable whenever one was around. I finally asked her about it when I was an adult.
She told me, "I know it is silly, and I know they are harmless and most people love them. But when I was a very little girl, my older brothers would grab a kitten from the barn and hold it toward me and chase me. The kitten would invariably be terrified, meowing and claws out in fear, but my brothers made it seems they were viscious monsters out to get me. I was terrified myself, and would run away screaming, and they'd run after me until they were laughing too hard to chase me any more. I know now that they were just stupid kids, and that it was as scary for the kittens as it was for me, but I just get the creeps whenever I see a cat."
She and I agreed that her brothers were stupid, in fact she still didn't like them very much as they didn't improve a whole lot as adults, and it was unfortunate they had ruined a whole species for her. But she always had her dog, and she and dogs got along fine.