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Unfortunately, life is not fair. That's a hard lesson to learn. However, employeers have every right to not hire you because of piercings or tattoos. It is something that you just have to consider when you get the piercings and tattoos. Employeers want a professional looking environment, and in order to get that they need a professional looking staff. That's just life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Argranade
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Originally Posted by JenBKR
Know what's weird,
The Wal-mart here has workers with coloured hair,Liberty spikes, periced lips ect... so why can't Alicia work there?! it's very strange indeed I don't get it. :confused:
Its not that you are being told that you cannot have a tattoo or a piercing, it is just that you have to look at everything before you make this decision. I have 3 tattoos and a piercing and I have chosen to place them in areas where it will not be distasteful, and where they can be hidden if need be. You have to look at the whole picture! Even when joining the army, you are not allowed to have tattoos in certain areas or piercings! It is just the way it is!
It probably has to do with the managers at that particular Wal-mart. I have never seen any real obvious piercings or tattoos or anything like that at any employees at my local wal-mart...then again, I never really looked so maybe they do and I just never noticed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Argranade
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Originally Posted by Maltese_Love
I agree and Alyssa I just wanted to say that for a long time now you have been a productive member of the younger group of people here and I for one want to thank you for being respectful, insightful, and pleasnt to have around.
We have ALL made comments we regret or should never have said, and as long as everyone can apologize and get past it PT can be a pleasant place. There need not be bickering and fighting. If someone says something they shouldn't have, apologize, let it go, and have a more pleasant day. Life is tough enough without having knockdowns on PT trying to see who can be the meanest on a given day.
Yeah here at ours it is not allowed either! They are even going to a dress code, come January! Blue shirts and Khaki Pants!Quote:
Originally Posted by JenBKR
I was a hiring manager for years and many companies have policy and procedure that lists what is and is not acceptable. In general if a position requires contact with the general public then piercings, not including ear piercings, must be removed or appropriately covered. Tattoos must be covered as well. In some cases the tattoo policy is less strict based on the appropriateness of the tattoo and the location; this is however determined by the manager and specific company.
The issue is that not everyone likes tattoos or piercings. For example, an elderly customer might not want help or to even associate with someone with visible piercings or numerous tattoos. Most restaurants are the same, that's why you'll notice servers with wraps on their arms. They are hiding their tattoos. One of my good friends puts a band-aid over her nose ring every day when she goes to work.
It's just the way it is. There are plenty of positions that are less strict on dress and appearance codes, but you have to find them and often they require more advanced degrees, such as office / research / field positions. Other places have been mentioned such as "trendy" merchandisers that are more than happy to allow piercings and tattoos.
You do not have to change for other people...you must simply accept the consequences of your choice.
The reality is we judge people all the time by the "outside." Suggesting that employers...or people in general not do so is simply silly and possible dangerous.
If I see someone coming down the street with a gun....I don't think I will take the time to find out what is on the inside.
Judging by what you see is a survival skill.
Isn't that what you did in your example? Judging people by your perception of the looks they have when seeing you?
Employers want...and have the right to expect...employees who behave a certain way, can talk and write correctly, can follow direction, etc. They want someone who is capable of performing the job that needs to be done. And that may mean not scaring off the customers.
They don't care what is on the inside. That is for your friends and lovers.
It may sound stupid, but some people see facial piercings as a sign of dirtiness and the manager wouldn't want that. Personally, I love piercings and tattoos, and I know a bunch of people who do too and wouldn't care if they saw someone with a piercing or tattoo in Wal-Mart, but there are also lots who would care.Quote:
Originally Posted by Argranade
Better safe than sorry. I mean if I was manager of a place I wouldn't want some person complaining and causing havoc just because one of my employees had a facial piercing.
Sorry but I am not going to cry with you over this. My sister-in-law is a teacher in a school. She teaches gifted and talented kids in special programs. She was told to stop wearing the cross that she always wears around her neck. Did she think it was unjust and wrong? Yes. Did she stop? Yes. She wanted to keep her job. This was not a fashion statement she was making. This was part of who she is, and reflected her faith. I think tatoos and piercings don't even begin to get into that category and that topic probably belongs in the Dog House. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Argranade
I have only one thing to say, because it's driving me crazy.
"Alot" is not recognized as a word in the English language. What everyone who is using this means to write is "a lot," i.e., two separate words with a space in between.
Thank you. :)
Oh my I made a booboo!! Please forgive me!
alot, alot, alot, alot ok I'm sorry I had to do that. lol:D
LOL I was searching for "alot" to see how many times it had been said and then all of a sudden the find next just went crazy on your post. Anyhow, I got a kick out of it. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by MajesticCollies
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Originally Posted by MajesticCollies