After Wedding Attire - looking for opinions

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Originally Posted by Husky_mom

same here........

in mexico you dont change your last name you just add your hubbies to yours
as

Isabel Garcia de Nava (being Nava my hubbies) ("de" is like "from") but i just dont use it that way i only use my name as it is..........LOL........i´m still myself......and i dont follow etiquette either........

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I really believe this is the most "civilized" way of doing it. :)
Anyway, I'd use your first name & his last name.

I agree with you Liz. I think the Spanish anming tradition is the best. I have a friend in Mexico who always said the only time she used "de" and her husband's last name was when she registered at the hospital to give birth!

I would go for Mrs Kimberly Miller, I myself have never taken my hubbys first name, although it is common practice, i much prefer to be known by my own name, but it is your call.

I like etiquette and all that, but I hate being called Mrs. Joshua Patterson if it isn't a formal occasion. On wedding invites, fine. But for birthday cards or whatever, I'm still me! Jaime! So unless you'll be wearing the shirt to a black-tie event or something, go with Kimberly Miller. :)