Prayers for all that need them....
Gina, that you find a safe place for you and your Ark(with electricity).
Cathy - that you get the courage. I don't know if a counsellor would do any good (even to help point out that this is not working) - if he wants another chance, it should be on that condition, or nothing changes.
I hope you have a plan - just who will be moving out, you or him? And some of the details with that.
HUGS everyone.