I have a friend. I have known her..and her husband since before they were husband and wife - at least 25 years.
They have three children. Their son is grown and on his own. The girls are still in high school. They have been through many ups and downs in their marriage...the worst had been just over 11 years ago. She was diagnosed with lupus. Very, very sick. At times she was not expected to make it. She was on a kidney transplant list. Eventually, she went into remission. Her kidneys functioned at 25%. Enough.
When her daughters started high school she went back to work. Nothing fancy but with benefits. Her employer... loves her as she is a great person. But they had some concerns hiring her because of her medical history.
It was a good thing they hired her because her husband is a manufacturing engineer. And now - most manufacturing is done in India or China. Last year the company where he worked closed. He has been looking for work since. I got him a gig with a client for a few months. One company told him his English is "too accented."
And now...her lupus is back. She has been in the hospital. She is on dialysis and chemo. She is hoping she can work a few hours a day. The money of course. But also...by law she is entitled to 480 hours (12 weeks) of unpaid medical leave. After that, her employer can terminate her. And her benefits. (And mostly likely they will. Strictly business of course.) The family cannot afford COBRA. MAYBE...the stimulus funds that are helping people by paying 65% of COBRA will be extended beyond 12/31/09. Maybe not.
I have been helping their older daughter with her college applications. That will most likely have to take a back seat to the medical expenses.
I cannot imagine how frightened she is. Which of course, does not help her illness.
Please, please....do not say "pray for her." What she needs is a country that gets out of the dark ages. A country that recognizes it is not 1776 anymore. A country that recognizes, as the rest of the civilized world has, that adequate and affordable healthcare is a right...not a privilege.
Some of my PetTalk friends have met her. I know they will join me in hoping our country comes to its senses before it is too late.