Val, I am very sorry for your loss. This must be very hard for you.
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Val, I am very sorry for your loss. This must be very hard for you.
Robilee - get a lawyer AT ONCE. I am sure there are one or two in your congregation, or your pastor can recommend one.
Do that now. And write down everything Alden has done - bank account #, what the withdrawl was, everything. Keep a record - this will be useful because you will be upset for a while and it will be hard to keep everything clear.
I know it is HARD to do practical things - but you have to protect yourself and the kids.
HUGS!
I'm so sorry this has taken such a nasty turn, Robin. :(
We haven't spoken in a few weeks but please, if you need me, I am here. If you want, PM me and I'll give you my cell number.
{{HUGS}}
Robin-please don't regret posting this here- we are your family and we love you and will help out anyway we can.
Val -
I'm sorry for your loss.
prayers being sent for anyone else who needs them
Robin, don't feel bad for posting, people care and want to help, even if it's just to give you support to know you aren't alone. I'm so sorry this has taken such a bad turn. PM if there is anything I can do.
Val, I am sorry for your loss. I know that must break your heart. =(
{{{{Robin}}}}
I am so sorry this is getting so nasty. I will continue to pray for you. ((hugs))
Oh Robin, I would just like to ditto everything that Pat has said and add some more {{{HUGS}}}.
Val, youtoo will be in my prayers, I know it must be very hard right now.
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Originally Posted by Kfamr
Wanted to update everyone, not to take away from anyone else's prayers - Grandpa is home now. :) So far, so good I believe. He got home last evening and we haven't got any calls from them yet - so I suppose no news is good news? :confused:
It still may be a while until he up and about his normal self, so please still keep him in your thoughts if you've got room for him. :)
Never to full to add another prayer.
Update: My manager had her hip replacement last week Tuesday and she has way less pain! Yay! She was checking her e-mails from home today and sent a quick "hello" to us.
Prayers of thanks that kfamr's granddad is home and doing better. Prayers for Robilee's difficult situation.
Robin, never feel bad for posting here. My brother just got a divorce and went through something similar. She cleaned out their bank account of a huge amount. I know how much divorce hurts from a marriage that wasn't a happy one so I can't imagine how you're feeling. I'm not understanding why the men change like that. It's happened to a couple of my friends. But whatever, please don't think it's you. It's them and when they wake up and realise what they've done, they'll more than likely regret it. Just take comfort in those gorgeous, sweet dogs of yours and realise that you're not alone. You have us all for support.
Kay, glad your grandpaw is doing better. I lost both of mine at pretty early ages and really can't remember them too much at all.
Robin I'm so sorry to hear it has gotten even worse. :( I don't understand why he's doing this to you. He's the one who is acting insane. If you need to talk, I'm here. {{hugs}}
Kay I'm glad your Grandpa is home and doing better. :) Val, I'm very sorry for your loss.
No, you won't. This is just what you need, for you friends to be there for you in your time of need. We are here to help you be strong.Quote:
Originally Posted by RobiLee
I've emailed you. (((HUGS)))
Prayers to everyone in need.
Robin, I am glad you posted. There are many of us here that are worried about you and want to help. Let us be your friends and your support to get through this.
My thoughts and prayers continue to go out for everybody.
{{{{{ROBIN}}}}} I'm so sorry to hear this news. I hope and pray that everything gets better soon for you. You must be ready to collapse. :(
Robin, I am thinking of you and praying for you. Please let us here at PT be your friends and help you through this. I would very much like to talk to you. I am going to pm you my numbers. Please pm me back yours but call me ANYTIME day or night. I NEED TO BE THERE FOR YOU! Diana
Ugh. I don't know all of the information, but I guess my grandpa is going back into the hospital. He was acting different again and my grandma called my dad to come get him. I'm not sure as I just heard that from my uncle and he doesn't even know all of the news.
I thought he was doing so good too. I guess there won't be a father's day get together there. :( :(
I am sorry Kay, I hope you can still have a get together at least for your Father.
I'm not sure what we will be doing.
All I'm wondering is why men have to be so complicated? :o Can't get my dad anything, EVER because he never tells us what he wants. Then we don't get him something and he gets mad at us. :rolleyes:
Hey - he's got a BOAT!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kfamr
Boats are just huge, Over-Sized Toy Boxes ... :p
Go buy him a Toy for the Boat!
:D
Think gift card. It's always the right size, and it always gets him something he wants. ;) Kay, if your like the rest of us, you'll be asking yourself that question for the rest of your life, LOL!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kfamr
Sending prayers for your grandad, & everyone else's requests.
Kay, I was thinking and praying for you and your granddad during church this morning, how are things, how are you all doing? HUGQuote:
Originally Posted by Kfamr
He's still in the hospital. They are looking for another nursing home for now, or forever. The thought of having my grandfather in a nursing home forever is incredibly heartbreaking. He is a very hard working man and would prefer that he was working right now. He's even asked the nurses if he could help them with their work.
What's going to come out of his business, my grandmother, and him the next year or so, I don't know.
I haven't been getting much sleep at all over this. I really try to go to bed before 3-4AM but it never happens. I swim daily and take hot showers before bed, trying to make myself relaxed, but I am still unable to fall asleep at a reasonable time.
We did have a get together at my grandma's house today - she wanted us all to come over.
Thanks for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. I really appreciate it.
Just checked in here and my prayers are with everyone who has requested them. I didn't update from my post I made a few weeks ago in here but I did in my birthday thread. Either way, my brother's court date is moved back to July 5th. That is when the sentencing will be and the judge's ruling for the new trial and also the dropping of one charge. I pray that this will all work out somehow.
Prayers, hugs and thoughts for everyone else.
Asking for prayers again... still actually.
My biopsy and the removal of this "mass" in my breast is Thursday. I won't find out for 3-4 days whether or not it's Cancer or not. Please say a prayer, think a happy positive thought, something... that it's not.
Thanks,
Crystal
Prayers, Crystal - that you and Charlie will have happy and healthy healing together! :)
HUGS!
the mother (good friend I don't even know of my friend's who I've been staying with) rushed out with authorities earlier today and left me with three kids, plus the two nieces my friend had (because of their prisoned father) had to go with her and left them here with me too - five kids; 10, 7, 5, 3 and 2.
we haven't heard back from them since this morning - kids, I didn't know when they last ate, what they can't eat or where to take them for medical attention if needed but tried my best and am totally out of finances - not much food around here. and miss their mother so much.
I also still need to go home to my ark to check on them ... I can't take the kids into my car, we need one more baby seat. I am worried about crayola especially.
I'm a bit lost here but enjoying kids - all are asleep restfully now. sigh, a long dragged day. please keep us and everyone in your thoughts as things will go okay and for a smooth prepareness.
Still thinking of you, Amber!
Hope all goes well, Crystal. :)
{{HUGS}} to you both.
Prayers for you and everyone, Gina. Can you call the police via relay and maybe they can find out if your friend left for something to do with the brothers being in prison?
thank you candace. I decided to wait until I hear from my friend before I post again. she left with her for moral support.
she'll be back here soon to help me out with kids and lunch. but had a bad news, the mother won't be coming back for a while. :( violated a law. now I don't know if I can leave my friend here with five kids, gone to camping this weekend. I feel so bad for her and all of this is just surreal.
all of the kids are fine and being so good. :) well, to my expectation. we played duck! you're it! game this morning - they all are so cute. goodness, I've missed babysitting - been a long time. :D
Prayers for that mom and the children!
Thank goodness you are there to cheer them - what a gift you are!
I hope all works out for you and her...does this mean you might go camping with them? That'd be fun for you and the Ark, if the weather is good.
Take care....
no, I planned to go camping with two other friends, leaving the ark here this weekend and now I don't know. but three kids' two fathers are flying here tuesday to take them and two girls' grandmother will be coming this wednesday... whew! so, maybe my friend will be ok here with all five wild kids for short. only four crazy days here I already felt like I've been here for a month. :D
prayers for my neck too please! lol. I couldn't move my neck or look down at all this morning. :( I hope it didn't sprained in swimming pool yesterday - a kid jumped on me. I even couldn't feed my ark this morning eh. it's so sore.. sigh.
Been reading your thread Gina.. Hope things will be going better for the kids and all those involved. If you want any activity ideas for them, let me know!
Just an honest question here, since I didn't actually get a response... are the kitties with you in the apartment/house with the kids, or are they at someone else's place? I know you said you'd never leave them in the car, so just wondering where all the furry ones are at.
My grandmother was supposed to go for hip replacement surgery in April. Now she can't have the surgery until she sees a heart specialist because there might be something wrong with her heart. She is 85 years old. she needs prayers that everything is OK with her heart and she can have her hip replacement.... it is causing her so much pain.
I offer my prayers for all who need them - may they be safe - may they heal and be healthy.
Please pray for my cousin Joe. He went into the hospital nearly 2 weeks ago his mom thinking he might have pnemonia. The doctors did tests and found a syst (don't know if i spelled it right) on his lung that was the size of a tangerine. There is a chance that he may have Cystic Fibrosis. Or Scoliosis (i think). please keep him in your prayers. He is also Autistic and he has asthma. He is only nine and still has a life to live. My Aunt Anne is very worried. thank You everybody!
prayers for those who need them
Prayers for all of those that need it. *HUGS*
And I ask for a little prayer for myself. It's been a rough year and things have been coming to a head these past couple of weeks. :( :(
Prayers being sent for everyone.
ramanth...I hope these things coming to a head will lead to something stronger on the other side! HUGS!
Update on my grandpa:
He has been in the hospital since the last update. He is now in a new nursing home, transferred today. I hope to be able to visit him sometime this week. My dad visited him yesterday and he said he was crying on and off the whole visit.
I'm not sure if life will ever be back to "normal" for him. So, I don't know what is to become of him, my grandmother, my grandpa's business, and so on.
Also, my uncle Joel (who I haven't seen in 7-8 years - he lives in California) is going to have a triple heart valve replacement surgery soon. When he was born doctors expected him to die at age 5. He is now close to being 60 or so.
Please keep in your thoughts as well. Things aren't looking too well for him.