Dad's Very Ill

Oh Val! My heart is so full of sorrow. This may come out wrong, but since we've spoken in the past, you know I'm relieved too that he didn't linger in a nursing home. And your poor mother. I pray her fall was nothing too serious. Please keep us updated. You were there for me during all my sorrow and illnesses, please allow me to be here for you. Please call me since I don't know when the time is good to call you. I'm here for you. I'll be your shoulder. {Hugs} and many prayers.

I have only just read this thread and am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad and your Mum's fall - I hope she is okay.

Having lost my Dad almost a year ago I can totally relate to all you are feeling right now. People told me then the old chesnut that "time is a great healer" and although I could quite cheerfully have thumped them at the time it turns out to be true...........You will get through this and be able to look back at the good times however impossible that might seem right now.

In the meantime lean on us whenever you need to

Oh I'm sorry your mom fell and got hurt too! I hope she will be okay. Just remember to take care of yourself in all of this too, you don't need to get sick on top of everything else. Try to get as much rest as you can and I will send prayers that you mom isn't hurt badly and will recover soon. Prayers to you to help heal the hurts and give you strength.

Your poor Mom Val. I'll continue to keep you, your Mom, and your family in my thoughts and prayers. If I can help, let me know. ((((HUGS))))

Words can't express how sorry I am, Val. Hugs to you and your Mom.

Val, I am so sorry for your loss.... please know that we are here for you!
(((Hugs)))

Val, I really sorry.... :( Prayers for you, and all your family... Be strong, I'm sure you will get through this..... ((((hugs))))

Valerie, I am so sorry about your loss. :( You and your mom and brother will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Logan

Val, I'm so very sorry to hear about your dad. You must be devistated. And now with your mom falling....
If there's anything I can do please don't hesitate to ask.

My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Oh my God, Val, I am so sorry to hear of your loss! Please know that I am with you in spirit. I lost my dad a few years ago, and know how you feel. If you need anything, and I mean anything, just let me know.

My prayers, and good thoughts go out to you and your family.

Warm Hugs to you at this sad time in your life. :(

Willie :(

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I'm so sorry, Val. Your father is at peace now, and hopefully you and the rest of your family can find some peace in that fact. Be strong.

{{{hugs}}}

I'm so sorry to hear about all of this, Val. I hope your mother feels better quickly. My thoughts are with you all.

Val, you and your Mom are in my prayers. I wish I could do more :( ... Lots of hugs going out to you. Take care of yourself Val.

Val. I don't even know what to say, really. Except to remind you that I'm your friend, even if we don't talk much. I hope you and your mother find strength in eachother. I love you and I hope you can find whatever you need to get through this.

I am so sorry for your loss Val. :(
I hope your mom will be ok. Be strong.

Sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You have my deepest sympathies. :(
I hope your mom's arm is ok.If you can take a few days off for funeral
leave at your job, it might help you & you family come to grips with all
these changes. Please take care. Liz.

So sorry to hear about your loss. Thoughts and best wishes to you and your family.

Nicki x

I´m so sorry, i just came to check back, awful news.......
my condolences to you and your family, may he rest in peace.....
you can be sure my shoulder is here for you, whatever you need i´m here.....

PT prayers and thoughts are never spread too thin, no matter what is happening to each individual here. We have long arms to hug and our strength is the strength of many. We are here. Our tears don't dry out Val, the PT well is very, very deep. I'm so sorry.
L

Valorie, I am so sorry for your family's loss. I hope that you and your mom can get enough strength to support one another in this time. I can't imagine what you are going through, but I want you to know if you ever need to chat, talk, etc please feel free to PM me. -hugs-

Val, I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is so hard. :(

I'm so sorry to hear this Val. :( I can only imagen how hard this is on you :( If you ever want to talk, feel free to PM me

Oh Val my heart is breaking for you, i am so sorry :(. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

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I'm so sorry Val. :( You and your mom will be in my prayers.

Val, this is Slick, posting under ES's name. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my Dad in 1995 and I know the pain associated with it. What helped me immensely is talking about him. I remember two days after he passed, my Mom, my Grandmother and myself were sitting around Mom's living room and we talked about Dad and told stories. We laughed as we remembered some of the jokes he pulled on relatives. I know that it helped with the healing process.

{{{hugs}}} Val. Hope to meet you in July.
slick xoxo

My heart goes out to you..God be with you and help you thu this time..

oh no! :( I am so sorry. :( (((hugs))) prayers for you and your family. more (((hugs)))

I'm so sorry for your loss Val :( You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts {{Hugs}}

so sorry for your loss...

I am so sorry Val!! :( Please accept my sincere condolances!

I am so sorry for your loss Val. May your father rest in peace. Godspeed.

I am sorry for your loss, Val. Sending lots of hugs going out to you and your family.

i'm so sorry for your loss Val :( {{hugs}}

Valerie,
I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. May your memories comfort you in time.
Johanna

I'm so very sorry for your loss. :(

I wanted to thank you all for your kind words. Friends and family are so important in times like these. Quite a few of my buddies from my shift showed up yesterday. That really made me feel good. Mom's arm is broken good. If it doesn't start showing signs of getting well in the next three weeks, she'll have to have an operation for a metal shoulder joint. Please pray that she heals naturally! It's rough enough as it is right now. Thanks again for all your thoughts and prayers.

I'm just now seeing / reading this thread. I am so very sorry to hear of your father's passing, and now your mother's broken arm. :( I pray that it heals ok without the need for surgery and things start looking better for your family.

Kim

Hey Valerie,
Please give your mom a gentle hug from me, Duke too. So sorry you're going thru so much.
I'm sending you a PM...
Kay

Val I'm so sorry for your loss.

I hope your mother's arm will be okay and she won't require surgery.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Val, I'm really sorry about all the things you're going through.
More thoughts and prayers for your mum. Hoping the best for her and all your family.... ((((hugs))))