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Originally posted by Cataholic
I hate it when I am so late to a thread that is so interesting. I want to make a few comments, as a white female, and, so that no one questions if I have 'lived enough' to make these statements, I am 38. I have lived in the mid west and both coasts.
The problem with discrimination- be it religion, race, sexual preference, physical, whatever, is its necessarily silent nature. We ALL can say we aren't for discrimination. Who, really, would say, "heck yes, I discriminate! I hate (fill in the blank)". It is such a pervasive part of our CURRENT world. Forget the historical stuff...(not really, but, I am saying we have major problems today). While I might not have enslaved your people, my 'people' (the white majority) are still practicing discrimination today. It isn't in the form of endentured servitude, but, it still exists.
Just last week, in Boone County, Kentucky (reference for those inclined to look it up), a african american family was targeted. They had a cross burned in their front yard, and cinder blocks thrown through their car windows. 2004! This happened not in some backwater woods, but, less that 30 miles from the Greater Cincinnati area. I hear discriminatory stuff all the time! While not AT my work place (meaning from my co-workers or employer), I hear it in my capacity as an attorney. From clients. From other attorneys.
Because it is still in our country today (I am limiting myself to the US...), I think it is necessary to encourage, help, assist (you fill in the blank) minorities into colleges, into professional fields, into trades. I don't see it as the only answer, nor, necessarily, the best answer. But, it is an answer. Are there people that take advantage of it? Sure. It is human nature to take advantage of a situation. It isn't limited according to race/religion/gender.
I can't imagine what it would be like to be a minority. I can **nearly** relate, by way of two incidents, and they will stay with me forever. Both took place in Worcester, Massachusetts, and put things into perspective. One time, I was with my girlfriend and her daughter. They are african american. I had the little girl with me. She was young, maybe 2? We were walking around a deli, getting something to eat. I was helping her pick out juice, and we were acting silly, so, we had drawn some attention, I am sure. I was kissing all over her, making her giggle. My girlfriend had already sat down at a table. I turned to look at her, and she nodded for me to look over at a table of four older adults. They were all staring at me and the little girl. They had a look of disgust on their faces. As soon as I looked, they ALL averted their gaze. We went back to my girlffriend's table, and she told me she had seen them staring at us, and whispering to one another. Now, maybe they were just disgusted cause I looked particularly heinous that day. I can't say for sure. But, it was not a warm and fuzzy feeling I got.
The second time, I was in a store with a PR friend. We were just looking around. I think I was shopping for something in particular, and they didn't have it, so, we were just killing time. He brought to my attention the fact we were being followed by store personnel. We WERE! I now noticed it. However, I had been completely oblvious to it..as I am usually not followed around in a store. He told me it happened quite often with him. Now, he doesn't look particularly 'thuggish', nor were we dressed poorly. He said he gets used to it, and laughed when I first told him I thought he was mistaken. The store clerk kept up with us, discretely, for the whole 7-10 minutes we were in the store! (No, we didn't steal anything. :p ).
I guess my point with those two incidents is..as a white female, I don't even have feelers out for such type of discrimination. It doesn't happen to me, so, I am not in tune to it. I can't imagine what it would feel like to think someone is watching me just because of my skin colour.
How in the world did I miss this thread???