Thanks, just didn't make sense to me from how it was explained..either that or I'm slow..
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Thanks, just didn't make sense to me from how it was explained..either that or I'm slow..
Your welcome, I think. If I am right. I hope I am not b/c then Max would be alive.
Hmm.. It all made sense to me.
Girls, please stop bickering like children. Someone’s pet has passed to the RB. Why must you fight about this here, in this thread? Please contain your arguments to yourselves. Use Pm’s for pete’s sake. Have a little consideration for Jess and for Max.
Once again Jess, I’m terribly sorry for your loss and I’m even more sorry that your mother would do this to you. :( You have my deepest sympathies.
Hush, girls. :(
How he died, and where he is now should only be a matter to Jesse. Please stop fighting.... :( Someone be mature, and give it up. This is not a fighting matter.
Jesse, I am so very sorry about Max. I know how much he meant to you, and we will all miss him. :(
RIP Dear Max..you will be deeply missed.
Jesse, I don't know nothing about anything except you have lost a friend, and I am sorry for that. As I said before my mother done the same thing to Danny the poodle, so all I know is that you are hurting.
I wish for something to ease your pain, all I can say or do is just say sorry for your loss.
Thanks, I think that this will help Jess. I know that it would comfort me to know that somebody cares.
I wasn't fighting or ment anything of the sort if I was being implied there..Anyway, I talked to Jess and to clear up for anyone else who may have been confused, her mom took him somewhere else and put him to sleep. Jess got him today and buried him :(
I was intending on fighting either, we were just confused and well, yeah...... enough. :)
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Originally posted by micki76
Hmm.. It all made sense to me.
Girls, please stop bickering like children. Someone’s pet has passed to the RB. Why must you fight about this here, in this thread? Please contain your arguments to yourselves. Use Pm’s for pete’s sake. Have a little consideration for Jess and for Max.
Once again Jess, I’m terribly sorry for your loss and I’m even more sorry that your mother would do this to you. :( You have my deepest sympathies.
AMEN! For Pete's sake, Kfamr and tikeyas_mom ... act your ages, please, and try to understand that this thread is about loss, betrayal and death ... it's not about you. This constant arguing and simply HAVING to have the last word in ANY thread is getting SO old. Enough already.
I'm so sorry, kingrattus. Max is at peace now. Godspeed.
I even said it wasn't about me, or what I know. Gosh. :( :(
Rob & I left in the car & James & Tonya left in her van to go to Almont to get supplies, it was about 3:30pm.
We arrived at James's dads house at 4pm. His dad gave us a fireman's axe (its long handled & has a spike at the back of the blade), to help us cut through the snow & frozen ground.
We (all 4 of us in rob's car) picked up Max in Perth at about 6pm. We got to James's dads girlfriends house at about 6:30pm, it was dark out & was a beautieful clear stary night, Rob & James saw a shooting star as they were unpacking & I was picking the tree I wanted Max to be burried beside.
I walked up to the tree found an angle of the tree I liked & pushed some snow away to mark it. Rob & James spent about an hour & a half digging until it was perfect & I aproved of it lumpy free.
James & Tonya left Rob & I alone with my fuzzy bed blanket (I hadn't seen Max yet, Rob refused to let me see him at the vets). Rob took the blanket off of Max so we could line the hole (I didn't want Max getting dirty, he deserved that). I got upset because Max was in a black bag & begged rob to cut him out right away, I didn't want my baby in a bag.
It was the first time & last time I saw him & I'll never forget it.
(Rob & I were crying the whole time) I petted Max, told him I was sooo sorry this happened to him, called him a good boy & rob & I kept petting him saying how he was such a good boy & didn't deserve to die so early. I gave Max one of his fav toys he died with & I took the other. I burried him 1/2 way until I started to get too tired because I've had the flu & a bad feaver all weekend & today, rob & James finished burying Max for me while I carved :
MAX
'93-'03
*carved a big heart*
J.
A.
K.
into Max's tree trunk. j.a.k. stands for Jessica Anne marie King. I was so stressed out & ill I wanted to put JESS, but I put the E backwards & got mad, then James asked me all kinds of diff questions on what I could make it into & one was middle name, so I made it into a funny looking A.
James's dad's girlfriend was honered to have Max burried in her field & she thought it was great to carve into the tree.
I feel a bit more at ease now that I got to say good bye, but I still can't beleave its happened, I just want my baby back, I saw him last sunday & drove about 200km to take him to see Santa at petsmart & he was super healthy, happy, running around like a crazed animal (too happy). Max wasn't in any pain, he just couldn't digest dog food, he was eating his hamburger, rice & carrots just fine, & now hes gone.
I'm never going to moms house ever again, nor speaking to her no seeing her. I want nothing to do with her. She knew I wanted to be there then it was time & if saturday was really his time, then she should have called me & I would have left work right away & headed out to perth. I would have bought Max McDonalds as a last meal because he was never able to enjoy the taste of a burger.
That is so heartbreaking, just the saddest thing to have to do, is bury a beloved pet. Please know that my heart is with you. I wish it had never happened but the horrible part is, it did.
Just know that I really feel for you. You have been through a lot these past days, I hope things will be better soon, and hope your broken heart will heal soon.
So sorry.:(
I'm almost in tears reading about what happened to poor Max. Godspeed to the Bridge, little one. Be assured that you did everything you could for your little one, Jess, and that you gave Max all the love that anyone could give.
Oh Jess, that is so sad. My heart is breaking for you.
You were a good Momma to Max and he knew how much you loved him.
Kay and Audrey,
Thank you for apologizing. In my heart I know didn't mean to hurt Jess over this.
I agree that it is over and done with and moving on for Jess' sake.
Oh Jess i am so sorry i realy was praying that everything would work out for Max and yourself.
Godspeed Max and have fun at RB, oh so sad :(
once again i am sorry it had to end this way :( you are in my thoughts.
Hmm...I didnt really apologize..I dont believe I did anything to apologize for..I just said I didnt fight..Cause I didnt, Im a friend of Jess, all I said was I was confused.......Quote:
Kay and Audrey,
Thank you for apologizing. In my heart I know didn't mean to hurt Jess over this.
I agree that it is over and done with and moving on for Jess' sake. [/B]
So sad and so unfair.:(
It's all so terrible. I'm sooo sorry Jess. :( RIP Sweet Max. :( :( :(
i am sorry for seeming to start a fight! I was just trying to clear things up :)..
I think we will all miss max very VERY much, he was a sweet dog :)
Jess this is just too sad - my heart goes out to you. RIP dear Max.
Another new star in heaven. xxx
Lynne
Jess, I am so sorry that you have to go through this nightmare. There aren't words to adequately express how very sorry I am that this happened. I know you feel terribly cheated. Please accept my (((HUGS))) and try to find some peace in all this.
The following poem helped me cope when I lost my dog so suddenly and at the hands of another. I hope it brings you some peace also.
MEMORIES
by Jennifer Graham
THEY SAY MEMORIES ARE GOLDEN,
WELL MAYBE THAT IS TRUE;
BUT I NEVER WANTED MEMORIES,
I ONLY WANTED YOU.
A MILLION TIMES I'LL NEED YOU
A MILLION TIMES I'LL CRY.
IF LOVE ALONE COULD HAVE SAVED YOU,
YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE DIED.
IN LIFE I LOVED YOU DEARLY;
IN DEATH I LOVE YOU STILL.
IN MY HEART YOU HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE
NO ONE ELSE CAN EVER FILL.
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRCASE,
AND HEARTACHE BUILD A LANE,
I'D WALK THE PATH TO HEAVEN
AND BRING YOU BACK AGAIN.
OUR FAMILY CHAIN IS BROKEN
AND NOTHING SEEMS THE SAME,
BUT AS GOD CALLS US BACK ONE BY ONE,
THE CHAIN WILL LINK AGAIN.
Kater,
That was just so beautiful, I hope that comforts her, I know it sure does hit home. "IF LOVE ALONE COULD HAVE SAVED YOU,
YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE DIED. " That can apply to somebody that has lost a beloved pet, or a beloved person. I know this has to make Jesse feel better, because I just explained the feeling I have also.
I just know that describes how she feels right now. Beautiful!!!
Oh, Jess.:( I am almost to tears. I am so sorry it had to happen this way. I feel your pain. RIP Max, have fun at the RB.
Kater- That is beautiful. Just beautiful. I also love this part:
IF LOVE ALONE COULD HAVE SAVED YOU,
YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE DIED.
But it is all nice, thank you for sharing that.
Oh Jess, I'm so sorry:( that is really hearthbreaking, and my eyes are all watery now. Its just too sad. :(
Kater- that is really beautiful.:)
Kater that is a beautiful poem.
I don't fully understand the situation here, but I offer my condolences. I'm so sorry for your loss, Jess. I wish you the best and hope Max makes a speedy trip to the Bridge.
Sorry for jumping to conclusions then slleipnir.
Thank you for the lovely poem Kater, I'm gonna print it out & add it to Max's scrap book.
Thanks for the kind words everyone :)
& TM I'm not mad at u for the fight, I'm glad u ended it nice & quick.
Here's one of the last pics I took of Max.
http://jess.iahu.ca/albums/album145/..._006.sized.jpg
Awwww, what a sweet face, now after reading about his burial, and then the beautiful poem that Kater shared, I know I am going to cry. :( I look at the sweet face of max and hear you telling your sad story and the poem and it is just too much. :(
I'm sorry.
I'm so sorry to read what has happened to him:(
At least now he is happy and running free at the RB.
R.I.P. sweet Max
Oh Jess, what a sweet picture of Max. I love it. Thank you for sharing.
Hm, I didn't really mean it the way it probably sounded...lol..Gomen.Quote:
Originally posted by shais_mom
Sorry for jumping to conclusions then slleipnir.
Jess, thats an adorable pic. He was a sweety :(
Seeing a picture of Max again brought tears to my eyes. I can't believe your mom did that. So sad. :( RIP Max, and know that you were very much loved in your life. :(
I am very sorry to hear about Max, Jess.
I'm so sorry to hear about Max!
Hugs Karen
I'm so sorry. This is so tragic.
Rest in Peace sweet Max. My little Pepper is there to play with you at Rainbow Bridge.
Bump, too many PTers haven't read this & r getting lost at what I'm talking about.
So I'm bumping it up.
Okay..I have stopped crying long enough to type now....
I can't tell you how sorry I am for all your have gone through!
I can't even imagine how many things are speeding through your mind... sadness, anger, just to name a few. I wish there was more we could do to help you through this hard time!
I hope our words help you to start healing, although the healing sometimes never ends.
RIP Max- you will be miss by many that never met you!
Have fun and eat ANYTHING you want at RB!!!!
~I hope you find a hamburger!!!!~
Jess, I was away when Dogz posted this thread. I'm so very sorry about Max. That is SO unfair. *hugs*
Your story about his burial just devestated me. RIP Max.
Thanks pitc9.
I can't get his burial out of my head, nor the touch of his frozen body & ferm fur. it was really hard to realize it was Max because it didn't feel like Max. I've never gone through a death before & the non-stop nightmares r starting to take their toll, once again I fear sleeping (I had terrors when I was young(without the screaming)). I'll never forget the last time I stroked his fur, touched his cold feet, patted his head & then was forced to stuff him in a hole & burry him.
Today would have been his 10th.
Happy Birthday Sweety, I miss u more then anyone will ever know