don't sweat it Stormy. There are going to be at least 7,741 boys who you will like over the next 10 years. It wouldn't be fair to the rest of them for you to spend too much time on this one.;)
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don't sweat it Stormy. There are going to be at least 7,741 boys who you will like over the next 10 years. It wouldn't be fair to the rest of them for you to spend too much time on this one.;)
I think you have been offered some good advice by most people, the few negative comments that have been made, just don't take to heart, I think most people are just concerned about your well-being.
It is perfectly normal at your age to be interested in boys, heck I was at that age too, even though I am an oldie now, I can remember my teen years with a smile.
My daughter is 11 and she thinks certain boys are cute etc, but that is about as far as it goes for now, and I hope it stays that way for a couple of years, however at 13 I would expect her to start wanting boys to notice her.
Its a bit about self-esteem, feeling good and confident about yourself as a person, once you have that, I reckon all the boys you want will notice you.,its like this kinda aura you carry around with you.
Try to do well in your school work , and take your studies seriously, and keep those boy's a little at arms length for now, as there is plenty time for the more serious stuff.
Just remember your feelings are perfectly normal, and you should not be chatised for having them, here or anywhere.
Most of us are more than happy to share our opinion, give advice, especially if you find it difficult to speak to your mother, that is a little sad, I sure hope my girl will come to me , rather than PT, but knowing teenagers she probably won't.!!
For me PT is about sharing the love and bond with our pets, but its more than that, its sharing our lives, our feelings, our emotions, our worries, with a unique variety of people who care, and want to help.:) just MO:)
I totally agree with Richard here, if the guy is just checking your butt out, and other things below your face, then sweetie he is only interested in one thing. Right now at your age talking is great, but he should be looking you in the eyes, not just looking at your body, I know thats what they are going to look at, they should have enough respect for you to get to know you for who you are inside. Go to school, get more involved with your education, thats the payoff right there. Be Safe..:)