It's going to break my heart....

SAS, you have given this your all, but deep down inside you know that all problems cannot be resolved no matter how hard you try. In this situation, a rehoming seems to be the way to go for the good of all concerned. Thankfully, he has you to give him a better chance to make the next situation work out for him. Actually I glad the breeder did refuse to take him back. She surely would not have done him justice in finding him the right home. Please do not feel guilty about doing the right thing for Miley and for Ti.

Sasvermont said she is waiting until after his last shots, (on the 19th) to make a decision about my friend taking Ti.

Oh Sallyanne - how sad this - I'm sending HUGE {{{HUGS}}} across the miles tgo all three of you. xxx

I'm hoping something comes of Karen's friend - fingers crossed.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Lynne

Well, I was in touch with the girls in Boston about Ti. I certainly have not ruled them out.

Ideally, I would love to have someone nearby adopt him. I have an ad in the paper starting today, for a week. I really want the ideal home. Of course, I don't know what that is....I just don't want anyone surprised about him. I would like to have the person adopting Ti, to see him first. I would also like to visit the home where he will be living. I know that sounds like a bit much, but I don't want him to be moved over and over again. It isn't fair to him to keep switching owners.

I feel a little bit like I did when Gabe arrived and I was going to place him up here. It just so happened that Gabe was no trouble and he stayed. If I thought there would be a change in Ti and Miley, I would keep him.

Right now things are quiet. Ti is on the porch, having been outside on a leash all morning. Miley is still in bed.....under the covers....and has the run of the house sans the porch.....she prefers the bed these days.

So, I will try my best to find Ti the best home. It may be in Boston. Who knows.

Life is quiet here....for the time being... Thanks for asking...

SAS

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Still thinking about you .... thanks for the updates! ;)

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Ideally, I would love to have someone nearby adopt him. I have an ad in the paper starting today, for a week. I really want the ideal home. Of course, I don't know what that is....I just don't want anyone surprised about him. I would like to have the person adopting Ti, to see him first. I would also like to visit the home where he will be living. I know that sounds like a bit much, but I don't want him to be moved over and over again. It isn't fair to him to keep switching owners.

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That sounds like an excellent plan and one that should you be able to execute it (and I think that there is a strong possibility that you could) it would give you the comfort level which you deserve in this situation. I think Karen and her friends will understand that. Ti is a remarkably beautiful cat and in the right circumstance has a wonderful personality. It is just a matter of hooking him up with a loving person who has the right home for him.