Originally Posted by
Lady's Human
The Japanese also have a suicide rate that is horrendous.
There is plenty of incentive to learn. It's called proper parenting. The schools cannot be expected to serve all the ancillary functions that they have been saddled with AND educate in the time allotted.
My kids get additional lessons after school, however, it's not anything formal, I just toss in a few additional math problems, spelling questions, etc, while we're going to wherever we're going or doing chores.
Too much about school has become checking the box and making things look good for a college app rather than real coursework.